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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391892
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for your input.  Every step you shared with me give me courage and learn more.  Yes, if there’s any possibility where I could help to transform the young couples I’m ready to offered my ideas. As well as my wife will definitely play her role to give best to their opposite sex.  I have learnt a lots from so many elders how take cares of your wife and it is a collective ideas from well mannered parents.

    I love the well mannered and educated Captains of Aviation pilots.

    The success of a child is the blessing from both parents.

    Its important to every child to have a blessing from both parents.. one day When people ask Capt Maranga, what he does for a living, he replies “I fly airplanes and write about them. He has so many books he wrote like “License to Fly”. And I’m one of the most fortunate people in the world to have been able to make a career of doing what I love.” Capt Peter maranga,  has been a pilot for more than  45 years, an aviation writer for more than 40 and has been lucky enough to get to fly just about every type of personal and business airplane in production from the 1950s onward. He was on the Flying Magazine staff for 25 years and editor-in-chief for 20 of those years. He holds several business jet type ratings  and he has been flying B787,  B747,  B763, B777, direct to New York, and  has logged more than 60,000 hours. they instructor retired last year from flying and he has remained as an aviation industry chief- pilots. Captain Maranga,  was the God fearing pilot, he has flow with his son Emmanuel Several occasions.  He was the first person who introduced me in flying school. He trained me. He advised me,  handle this little bird called airplane like handling a married woman,  when u don’t treated her well she becomes very stubborn. An aircraft is as the same as a woman. When u don’t give attention, he tell you wonders.

    I love and give respect to any ladies in the world.

    God bless you Anita.

    Greg

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391876
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for sharing every steps of the story here. You an uncomparable woman.

    Humans are  unique in that we’re the only animals that can conceptualize and think about ourselves abstractly.  Dogs don’t sit around and worry about their career. Cats don’t think about their past mistakes or wonder what would have happen if they’d done something differently.  Monkeys don’t argue over future possibilities,  just as fish don’t sit around wondering if other fish would like them more if they had longer fins.
    As humans,  we’re blessed with ability to Imagine ourselves in hypothetical situations, to contemplate both the past and the future, to Imagine other realities or situations where things might be different.

    My wife is one of those women who spend a lot of time in front of the mirror.  She loves to look amazing,  and I love fir her to look amazing too (obviously).
    Nights be4 we go out, she comes out of the bathroom after an hour- long makeup / hair/clothes/whatever- women- do – in- there session and asks me how she looks. She’s usually gorgeous.  Every once in a while, though,  she looks bad. Maybe she tried to do something new with her hair.

    Men stereotypically lie in this situation to make their gf/wives happy.  But I don’t. why? Because honesty in my relationship is more important to me than feeling good all the time.  The last person I should ever to censor myself with is the woman I love.

    Fortunately,  I’m married to a woman who agrees and is willing to hear my uncensored thoughts.   She calls me out on my bullshit too, of course,  which is one of the most important traits she offers me as a partner. Sometimes we had little misunderstanding,  little disagreement and agree.

    Without conflict,  there can be no trust.  Conflict exists to show us who is there for us unconditionally and who is just there for the benefits.  No one trusts a yes- man.

    I step from rock to rock, climbing steadily,  leg muscles stretching and aching.  But at least I got the sober woman to be with. The sky gets wide and deep when u encounter with wrong heartless one.

    There’s a saying in Portuguese: Ele  dobra  o cabo  da Boa Esperança.  It means,  ” He’s rounding the Cape of Good  Hope.” Ironically,  it means that the person’s life is in its final phase,  that he’s incapable accomplishing anything more
    Anita,  in life 50% of the time things don’t your ways and when they don’t,  don’t get work up (big strength in life).

    I will continue to teach others men to be good father and caring husband.

    God bless you.

    Greg

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391850
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Kindly ignore those errors that internet add it.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391849
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    What a Bombastic phenomenon of the phrase. It has required an additional amount of patience giving due time to understand further. I have read it and understood it.

    This is especially extremely extraordinarily words to give.  You are as brilliant as – Alshaba – terrorists are very wiser people who think extra mile than the normal people.

    Congratulation Anita,  you have really read  ” books” and I wanted to be a surprise small photocopy of Anita in South Sudan.  My hands up.

     

    I think I am a good judge of character. I usually have a quick gut instinct about others and I think I generally make wise decisions about the people I surround myself with.

     

    Anita,  thanks very well described literature with a sense of reasoning. Its beyond and clearer.

    Our keenest generations especially within South Sudan are different perpetrated earth’s Animals in the history.

    Their Google history is unsafe.  Both are essential in making most out of their lives.

    The way you dress and the way speak are accurate representation of how you view yourself.

    Our generation adapted a system of East Africa – very Immoral generations .

     

    When you dress in jeans all the time,  to me, that represents that u are down to earth.  If you dress   up even when you are at work,  that represents that you feel important and you have a statement to make. Dressing down in a sweat pants and tee – shirts  represent comfort in any given situation.

    Behind every system of actions are systems of beliefs.  The systems of a democracy is founded on beliefs like freedom,  majority rule, and social equality.

    Once your pride gets involved, you will fight tooth and nail to maintain your habits.

    Simple equation that make a powerful state Behavior a function of the person in their environment. I.e South Sudan 
    Or B = f(P, E) .

    Every living being has its own methods for sensing and understanding the world.
    Eagles  have remarkable long distance vision.
    Snakes  can smell by ” tasting  the air ”  with their highly sensitive tongues.
    Sharks can detect some amount of electricity and vibration in the water caused by nearby fish.  Even bacteria have chemoreceptors – tiny sensory cells that allow them to detect toxic chemicals in the environment. 

     

    In humans,  perception is detected by the sensory nervous system.We perceive the world through sigh, sound,  smell,  touch  and taste,  but we also have other ways of sensing stimuli .

    So here is the dealt –  George Orwell said that to see what’s in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle.

     

    Well, the solution to our stress and anxiety is right there in front of our noses,  and we are too busy watching porn and advertisements for ab machines that doesn’t work,  wondering. Our girls are introvert….. they don’t values marriage nowadays.  With this let me put u into this and you will concur with me. 

     

    In South Sudan, and Dinka culture in particular, men pay a lot of cows in order to marry. Take an example the picture you see above again, 

    I have extremely suffered again to pay a dowries of  195 head of cattles. Which is 200 cows again.

    But the worst part of it,  girls still go for their ex bf not her but some whom I even know.

    And they says – some men have to be check before marriage us? Who can check who? The one who paid cows to be checked or the one whose cows are paid for to be owned?

    And they says we don’t cares!! Why do they allow an innocent cow to be slaughtered during the final agreement of both negotiators?  It is not to beautifying blood but oath to show this girl is no longer among others girls on the streets again but now a married woman.

     

    who don’t mind about the originality of anything he/she buys? If in your culture you don’t pay cows and money the way we do, then you are free to marry any prostitute.


    virginity is not stupidity. It is stupidity from people who have high appetite for sex and who think that sex is a basic needs.

    Anyway, anybody is entitled to his/her rights to do what you likes but they should know there’s tomorrow and a different of one who paid cows and who is not.

    The half Kenyan, half Ugandans and half South Sudanese will not understand me. In fact, this is one of the reasons why the court is full of divorce cases. While they were girls, they got addicted to fornication and even after marriage they still practice those things with their exs. Stupid generation!!!

    Happiness is contagious,  so if you are happy, your child will be happy with you.

    So stay happy and let your child see that despite various problems that life throws at him when he grows older, he can always find a reason to be happy. Raising a child to be a responsible young person and having a happy mindset is not easy.

    The right kind of feedback   interaction,  and moderate guidance can help you make your child grow up to be a happy individual. Am I clear Anita,? Am I  saying facts to be heard and see? 

    And this I’m a real icon man who love one woman,  who believed ladies are the same everywhere. Who think when you mould the woman u have , treating her nicely,  feeding her , dressing her , she definitely produces for you the handsome and beautiful babies u want in your heart.

    I know it will require time to settle down first and through it again Anita.

    Be blessed.

    Gregory.

     

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391836
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for requesting more clarification to owe you about it in details.  Women have a lots Egos,  to dealt with. When u love a woman with all your heart, its turn to be a desperation on her yet u married her to be a brother to u , a mother, a sister to u. I always trust a woman and that what give me courage that my life will never end badly.

    I love someone that have credibility.

    Trustworthy.

    Trust is like virginity once you lose it you can never recover!!

     

    In my humble opinion,  in this dimension of space and time,  we will never have the mental and physical faculties to define what God is. It’s like expecting UV light to understand and expound informed commentary on 1930s German Expressionist cinema.

    Anita,  double check all angles is to keep studying her while together and give her the opportunity to keep her busy.

    Anita, South Sudan girls are very distinguished!!!!

    Flying first, I will get back to u later for more.

    Thanks

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391833
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Wow !! Everything of you is wow.

    And its also give me a favor to smile.

    She will be continuing making her first priority, but I’m fearing the way i praise her, will make me  the victim of the failure of the first married….I  Think out of the box dear… praising her is every gentleman pleasure due to blood but it might be obstacle if you i don’t double check all angles .

    What  do you think?

    Greg.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391820
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    First I will say congratulations for wonderful praised towards for my fiancee.  There’s a saying in Texas; “the smallest dog barks the loudest”  A rich woman doesn’t feel a need to convince anybody that she’s rich. Either you are  or you are not.

     

    Her rule says I choose Love because that’s one language everybody understands despite their background, religion and views of life.

     

    I often imagine a world where there is no judgments, no slander, no hatred and no war. As an individual who seek for such a world to become a reality, the only way I can play a part to making it come to pass is to let

     

    Love guide my every decision, actions and words. Before I speak, act or make a decision, I first let LOVE lead the way so I don’t get triggered or influenced by what my mere eyes can see.

     

    With love as the primary values of my life, I sure know that every other thing will fall into the right place.  THANKS Anita,  the version of myself,  my woman is wise. And I appreciated it if u took her words too.

    God bless you.

    Greg.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391803
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the comparison. Both of my sons look aligned. I have had got a strong DNA. Appreciated you.

    It is simple for every person to fall down and when you have the ability to wake up and see , when you went wrong and make it wonderful.  My new woman as quite as mouse….. she is very understanding lady I have ever met. She is a very independent and internally motivated person. She is not  been financially independent but since she started college of so called “Love” , (she  graduated with honesty & hope for betterment of our relationship) and I feel that it has made me strong, but gracious and humble too.

    Imaginative of her saying every situation need to be handle with cares and put LOVE first to solve the problems… with that u will be able to walk in other person’s life too.

    On the other hand much appreciation for the great deeds you devoted to pouring a lots of advices to come back into my senses.

    Our culture today is obsessively focused on unrealistically positive expectations. Be happier,  Be healthier,  Be the best, better than the rest. Be smarter,  faster,  richer,  Sexier,  more popular,  more productive,  more envied,  and more attractive,  more admired.  Be perfect and amazing.

     

    I’m happy with my faith and hope , I will go slowly like one fly the helicopter to my wonderful fulfilling destination.

    And as an professional Aviator,  Safety first,,,

    Get back to Anita,  when I’m from my intended destination.

    With this God bless you Anita.

    Thanks.

    Greg.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391785
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for being kind enough. And I’m also finally able recognize,  stabled with new one as you see above pic ☝️. Its with a great Honor to you read me back loud and clear.

    Greg is in a different planet. I’m good at giving of essential care free ways to makes others happy,  through productivity ideas and I feed them with words of vanity to go extra miles.

    With this , God blessed you.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #391699
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita

    How are you? I know u will be surprised to receive a  short note today on your end downside.

    Hope you are breathing well.

    It’s been a couple of years with or without exchanging our constructive conversation positively.  I’m good at Myspace here. And perhaps everything is amazing.

     

    All of this “every person can be extraordinary and achieve greatness ” stuff is basically just jerking off in one’s ego.  It’s a message that tastes good going down,  but in reality is nothing more than empty calories that make you emotionally fat and bloated,  the proverbial Big Mac for heart and brain.

    The episode  is well won.

    Thanks.

    Much appreciated.

    Greg.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #367073
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for supporting my ideas,  I’m happy as long we are making collectives collaboration and ideas in term of endearment and what might happen next again.  Both of us,  you and I don’t want,  what happened before to repeat itself again. We pray that God stand with us just to give us the one with one cold heart who is not heartless.

    Apparently,  I got the girl who is literally tall , well designed human being,  with significant amount of respect,,,,,,  she is a nice brown girl who still not yet reached to high school,,,,,  and perhaps I’m okay with her level of education. University girls and Form 4 certificate as well as diploma holder are problematic here in South Sudan,  they all assume they have gone far with education.

     

    Our young men specially lost boys and home boys  has resort to those villages girls because they are loyal to us men who love to have home and be responsible.

    They urban fantasy girls well brown beach one are radically becoming bimbos and catalyst to men. They says the know everything about life.

    With the one of I’m about to go for is a cool one beautiful heart. She respected her family and relatives, NOT LIKE M1 AND M2 who see everyone has nothing to them.

    I love her character and her moral behaves.

    Let see next agenda again in the process.

    Good blessed you Anita.

    Gregory Chan.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #367029
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the prescription of the vegetables. In fact I had known them before only that I’m not familiar of them because it’s ladies who are good with it cause they used them on day to day basis.

    Mommy Anita,  I’m thinking of marrying another girl who is not too educative but at least moderate in the level of education. The reason as to why I’m thinking of marrying another girl is because of Christopher Agoth,  he really need someone to help me with meanwhile I’m flying.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #367000
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    It is signify daily basis honey replied to me as your son. I’m so much electrified and thrilled with you most of the time. People like you Anita  ain’t common on earth dear mommy.

    following regarding young children who are picky eaters (“so selective”), the following quoted information reads very good to me. Let me know if it is clear to you, and if you would like me to repeat any of it in my own words:

    “1. “If your child isn’t hungry, don’t force a meal or snack… don’t bribe or force your child to eat certain foods or clean his or her plate. This might only ignite- or reinforce- a power struggle over food. In addition, your child might come to associate mealtime with anxiety and frustration…”

    My son Christopher Agoth Gregory,  has a mean mealtime that he had known to eat on it.  He is a smart boy who doesn’t like dirty himself when he is eating. Sometimes when he is not happy with the meal he could tell me let go to town to buy other foods in the restaurant to eat. I cook for him most of the times or we go to cafeteria for our dinner. I’m trying all my best I can to makes sure he is happy and fit.

    Serve small portions to avoid overwhelming your child and give him or her the opportunity to independently ask for more.” yes I do mommy,  in fact I become like baby sitting now. Raising a child is a very great task,,,,,  is like during the lamb pain of a woman she is delivering a baby,,,,  it is always 50 – 50 between life and death.

    The same thing of raising a child when we ain’t keen enough he or she could come out as a failure or a criminal record. ” this is where I’m praying all the times for my child to be a responsible son in the near future,  a son that was left to his father when he doesn’t know anything but the father struggle to raise him. A son that would be of find and she said my son Christopher Agoth Gregory,  I was wrong and mislead by my M1,, my target will come to it pinnacles of the sewing needle.

    2. Stick to the Routine- Serve meals and snacks at about the same times every day… You can provide milk or 100  percent juice with the food, but offer water in between meals and snacks. Allowing your child to fill up on juice, milk or snacks throughout the day might decrease his appetite for meals.” Wonderful this is where I’m very serious,  I don’t wait him to tell me dad I’m hungry,  I makes sure things are in accurate prescription of the African time. ” meanwhile he is eating he has water on the table and juice…

    3. Be patient with new foods- Young children often touch or smell new foods, and might even put tiny bits in their mouths and then take them back out again. Your child might need repeated exposure to a new food before he takes the first bite.. Serve new foods along with your child’s favorite foods. Keep serving your child healthy choices until they become familiar and preferred.” Affirmatively this is where I apply my best to be patient enough and try to see which other things does he want. And try to provide to him.

    4. Encourage your child to stay at the table for the designated mealtime- even if he doesn’t eat. “Exactly he is very good at that,  when it is meal time,,,,,,  he could stay on the table and be happy with everyone.

    5. “Make it fun- Serve broccoli and other veggies with a favorite dip or sauce. Cut foods into various shapes.. Serve a variety of brightly colored foods.” Christopher,  knows very well I’m very good at making fun with him mommy. We could joke and do more things.

    6. Recruit your child’s help-  At the grocery store, ask your child to help you select fruits, vegetables and other healthy foods. Don’t buy anything that you don’t want your child to eat. At home, encourage your child to help you rinse veggies, stir batter or set the table. ” I’m focusing on his daily things he need always. I give him different things.

    7. Set a good example-  If you eat a variety of healthy foods, you child is more likely to follow suit. ” I do that mommy,  in fact I’m very selective in eating either too.

    8. Be creative- Add chopped broccoli or green peppers to spaghetti sauce, top cereal with fruit slices, or mix grated zucchini and carrots into casseroles and soups.” explain me more about the above sentence, what is broccoli or green peppers to spaghetti sauce, top cereal with fruits slice, or mix grate zucchinis?  Where could I get them?  I love them by way,  I guess the makes food more delicious.

    9. Minimize distractions- Turn off the television and other electronic gadgets during meals. This will help your child focus on eating. Keep in mind that television advertising might also encourage your child to desire sugary or less nutritious foods. Absolutely television is ever off,  when he is eating.

    10. Don’t offer dessert as a reward- withholding dessert sends the message that dessert is the best food, which might only increase your child’s desire for sweets. You might select one or two nights a week as dessert nights, and skip dessert the rest of the week- or redefine dessert as fruit, yogurt or other healthy choices. Point taken well and put into consideration as well as practice too.

    If you’re concerned that picky eating is compromising your child’s growth and development, consult your child’s doctor… remember that your child’s eating habits won’t likely change overnight- but the small steps you take each day can help promote a lifetime of healthy eating.” 😂 😂 haha okay thanks for more experience and nice directive,,,,  I’m learning day by day.

    Thank you Anita.

    Good night there.

    Be blessed.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #366974
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the beautiful message you put on the flatform. I appreciated you for the coaching you had being taken on me on several occasions.

    If it was not you Anita , I wouldn’t defeated M1 and M2, . Yes I have never tell him that you will see m2 neither m1, we have never reached to that level . We have a lots to share me with my son…..  He is ever happy for being with me.  He had never thought of her mother at all.

    About food he eat for,  he is so selective,  he could suggest the food that he need for.

    Cheer

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #366962
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks mommy ,,,, just take your time,  when you feels fresh later, you will definitely restart to read.

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