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ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Sometimes life is unpredictable and predictable,,,, they assume that I will be useless my estranged wife always say which I will never be God wishes. When a soldier is going for a war zone is always prepared with well equipped makes sure he has enough bullets as a reserved. I’m capable enough to overcome anything they might apply whether jujus or which is witcraft they are good at.the power of God will never led me down.
I will be ready to reach to my destination especially my goal to achieve with my son. It will be literally paining in their heart that why did I go that far.
At the juncture they wish me to be vulnerable and become a begger which never happens in the eye of God.
I married her with one heart without looking outside for some other ladies. But she kept cheating me. God forbid this woman.
She is soon gonna regret in life. In this earth life will never be cheat. I’m also fade of their people who kept on begging me as if I still have their girl and they all know she left long time ago. Shame on them.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantDear Daniel,
I had gone through your thread but you need to rethink that ladies need to be given space in order to missed you too.
Put in mind that we are all important and perhaps we need each other as a opposite sex.
Try lady- model just to transform her in different ways.
Keep distance from her next time when you are performing,,,,, don’t look at where she is sitting in case if she is there. Try as much as possible to look for the beautiful girl to move with her after you perform, then you will see how she will feels next time when you get her. your friend’s a pretender and you need to handle her in a diplomatically way. Ladies are weak bro. Just be smart in mind. If she is a clubs attendance sometimes then you need to forget her.
Cheers.
Gregory.
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ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Thank you for the suggestion you had put across. It a positive one and I see it will help me in this way. In this life, if you don’t have people who hate you then, u won’t go further. But the more you have challenges in life the more you become stronger. I don’t worry about their words they said about me.
Before I even knew what you was studying God whispered “presidential” to me. May God keep you and guide you all the days of yours life Anita,. May the enemy never hinder you if your is to lead the country you are in the future. I come into agreement if this is what you’re headed for! In Jesus name, you will heal and change people whenever you may go. You WILL do.. God’s work all the day of life and you and generations that will follow you will be blessed because of your obedience. Most of the people of this forum love you so much Anita. God didn’t whisper , you had a very clever feeling and u are right, you are very much that sort of woman I agree.
All praises to your parents who raise you up this wonderful blessed mama Anita . So inspiring that you’re not only the brightest so far amongst your batch but you’re the boldest servants of the Lord. You become adviser in all sort of lives now. You ain’t no longer a young one for birthday to be fixed date when to do your birthday….
“no more birthdays parties no more gifts moving forward. Mr. Muwonge Head Master of BUDDO SS where I was in my High school used to say; “to be at the top, you must have been at the bottom” I have seen that in you Anita. When the cock crows it don’t mean 6times, it means time to wake up.” so I have waken up for this people and the estranged wife too.God be with you.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Yeah sometimes that what it mean but kwashili is a wide language. So I was trying to put in shange language meant slang one… But I can put it any way where if you google it you can find it per the way it is.
On the side of they people who talk about me……. These people had never helped me before just that they are bitter of my hard work and the luck that GOD gave me since from Day one.
They communities where I came from specifically Tonj in general,,,, is a dangerous place where by if they groups of people forms themselves to defame you in the eyes of others,,,,, they can do it. In order to spoil you to be useless person.
If you had other ideas where you can back me up ,,,, you can.
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
My elephant, my Lion 👑 haha 😂.
You are like king Solomon, the wises man on earth.
Wapi mean where. That is in kwashili.
People say I’m changed due to that I don’t talk reality and that when I promise someone to him or her and failed to help him or her on time they will begin to misbehave and back bite me, that I have lie to him. You have seen this pandemic virus has control everything in the world wide where one is able to help someone but hard to do it on time.
It is not a worried to me because God knows how I will be , hence he will be there for me to support me on my path to overcome all the challenges to bring target into reality.
With more details I can still elaborate more to you as we continue to communicate here.
God bless you Anita.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantDear Yellow Rose,
Wow this is more than beautiful, more than touchingly advise. I’m just speechless dear with all the nice insightful words you had vividly expressed out for me. Yes she is a kind of a human that doesn’t feel shame among other ladies. Thank you so much for everything you stated. You went beyond my descriptions,,, and hence I hope as you go through the scenario how was it? As you stated that I will be waiting for her hoping she might change her mind to come back for years and years. The thing is ” I don’t want her again,,,, I left that woman long time ago, especially last year 2019. Yes I’m back to my training school it is just due to lock down. By that time, it was the time for me to glanced an ally at that point in order to support me. Like Anita.
Yellow Rose, you said maybe there’s “shame in “me” that could be the reason the woman change her mind to be my wife!!! Would you mind to elaborate more for me about that sentence.
I’m a typical African man with radical honesty in my life. My estranged wife this prostitution was inheritated by her grandma who is currently in Canada due to that game,,,, which is her granddaughter is practicing now in juba street. I have gone through difficulties and a lots of thrones in my lives but I managed them amicably. I’m playing a different role Now as a man but for her case is no longer on my mind. Everything happened for a reason. God created me with purpose, I will do wonders on earth God wishes.
I came from a very clean family, with well respected being…… This is how I’m and I believe in God…. Yes you are right thou she come back I won’t be happy with her again. My estranged wife’s aunties , sisters to her own mother ain’t in their home respectively where they are being married. They both left their husbands, so the poisoned her to in order to her house. Who cares!!! I will marriage another kind hearted girl that could make a wife. It is only food that could be shared but not a wife. Its sound bad when I repeat myself, this estranged wife of mine doesn’t bother whether she is married or not. What she is yearning for is prostitution and move from man to man.
As I spoke to you now her biological father passed away in June this year but she doesn’t shows like father is not a lives. She is celebrating for the death of her death. Abusing her father.
No worries at the moment. I’m fine and I have already fixed out my problem.
All the best wishes. You are free to send any replies you feel like to be.
God be with you.
Gregory
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Your advices are well taken and put into consideration as per situation and the length of the case studies by you Anita ,
I realized that I was living with an emotionally disturbed being mistaken and took for granted in within my agemate. I was an inconsequential engine in their family but since I was being underestimated by my mother in-law with her daughter and my estranged wife, I have rest everything in peace and their hands as they both wishes it to be.
In simple token I notice this marriage was not reasonable, calm, stable individual could have in his life. I would go and accepted any advice you give to me to be someone in the near future.
Most of the people are extremely disheartened talking about me on daily basis that this married has changed me to be different Gregory, due to trauma but “wapi”
Thou they are tried to dewitch me in so many way in order to be useless as per their heart desires which is a “lie” to them.
The only person I appreciate in my life is you Anita, you changed me for sure. You encourage me most often. Posterior to this people are saying: many people disrespect me and lower me down because : it is what I shared with them that they used to get back to bite me, so now I have limit communication with everyone I know in any ideal issues. (practical)
Anita, you nurture me into the right way now. Congratulations for the job you are doing on my thread.
My best wishes to you.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
It has been sometimes without being in touch . I was occupied with so much thing.
Yeah I’m going to work on what you suggested with me. Besides, my estranged wife’s mother had lost her immediated uncle,,, brother to her father passed away last week.
She is again mourning now…. The late uncle curse her and said if you don’t correct yourself from being a bad woman,,,, and destroying somebody’s daughter you will also follow me sooner.
Thanks for the work you had been doing to stand up with me as a team. I love your strong heart.
God bless you.
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Good afternoon there!
Its 03:46a.m as I replied you now because your message alert me when I was reading in my room. I really don’t know what we shall do as a young men in South Sudan. Majority of the people have the intention of sleeping with the beautiful girls /women,,,, which make it difficult for a girl to listen to their parents again because she has got power of getting money somewhere.
We have a dream of changing things in South Sudan. But mostly since things are still tie up made my estranged wife that I will not get a good money which is wrong.
I’m confident enough that very soon I will build my own house.
As you what do you think can be the best solution to this mess up?
U google the song of slate nation when u get time from your work.
Thanks for the nice compliment I’m always please your nice words.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
It is absolutely terrible here. The prostitution has gone beyond the government control. As I replied this message of yours it’s 9:20pm and young adults are selling themselves at the road side at night. Some people are extremely disheartened by the lack of money and other are doing it in order to gain popularity from the government officials.
However, some of they most beautiful girls /single mothers are also doing it such that the get good money to open up Bontique as their own to brag to theirs ex man. Like my estranged wife who is trying hardly to get money from others men who loots government resources just for their beneficial. Anita, juba is a hell place to be. It is only God to help us to give u a wife material but majority of them are spoiled.
They are doing it in order to makes theirs respective mothers happy that my daughter is getting money and they are not lacking anything for your information.
Yes they are very young girls and mostly 98% are married girls who destroyed theirs houses like my estranged wife.
Our Government has been brought down by they politician who just need to destroy someone’s house and president imagine.
The young talented musician from northwestern from Tonj called SLATE NATION sang a very beautiful song from Australia last month called “inu gang” with president Kiir,,,, he was interviewed on Thursday by advance radio why did he sang this beautiful song. Look it up there it is trending on media and this boy has been called by president Kiir to visit him to juba.
The boy sang the song because of prostitution that is going on rampantly and the looting of government materials.
Gregory
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
It is literally enjoyable due to the mess that had been made by so many girls who are on streets in juba.
To be honest they spoke out saying it is the pandemic virus which force them to be like lobbying many men around. We discussed so many things on the agenda. Jumping from one place to another can cause you to get HIV/ AIDS ,,,,,,,, However, it is so beautiful sense.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,,,,
I had travelled to place without network.
Well I will think over it after finishing up the men’s conference about ladies like my estranged wife. It is a cul-de-sac and wonderful second thought option which we can resort to it. That is what she is yearning for already.
Thanks for being on my shoulder to shoulder Anita..
God blessed you.
Gregory.
ThonditParticipantThey do everything for the interests of mother in-laws. All in all. They all don’t know what they are doing. Just misleading. I was not happy for opening the topic of my estranged wife again,,,,, yet I really don’t know what he was digging for? I’m too annoyed today with them,,,, this people behave like a female dog…..
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Much appreciation mommy. I’m sorry Anita, that I’m not at my best today…. Really not at good mood. As I was having a flight from Juba to Wau and back to juba today,,,,, I was given the envelope by one of the Marshall to come and give it to the owner. To my surprise, it was a guy from the side of my estranged wife who left years back. I was really annoyed because they are so disrespectful and disgusting people that I don’t want to see them again.
Anyway they are just hyena who being paranoid and parasites from the mother in law.
Gregory
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Thanks for the precious pieces of words. That is away to go. Rome was not built on one day. It was a continuous of work. I kept learning new things always.
God blessed you Anita…. You have a pure heart that tried to contribute anything you have to.
A lots of rewards will come back to you.
Be blessed.
Gregory
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