Three months ago I left my emotionally abusive husband. I repeatedly asked him to go get counseling and he refused. He said he didn’t need it and that I was the one who needed help.  After many, many years of him convincing me that our issues were all my fault and many years of therapy for myself, I decided I couldn’t take it anymore. I knew I wasn’t crazy.  With the help of my current therapist I finally mustered up the courage to leave.  It took the action of my leaving to finally open his eyes. He now realizes that it was all his fault. He has started going to counseling, which is great. My issue is I have a lot of anger and resentment towards him now. I am very bitter that it took my leaving to make him see what was really going on. I had to leave my home, which I loved, to get him to see that he was the cause of our issues. He’s working on himself which is a wonderful thing but I can’t help thinking I’m the one living in an apartment with my three pets when I should be living in our home. Why did I have to leave? Of course he wouldn’t have left because he didn’t see his part in our situation at the time. Even if we don’t wind up back together I see my feelings making me miserable for a long time unless I can let them go.  He is fixing himself, which is what I wanted, yet I am so angry and bitter over the situation. I am looking for suggestions on how I can release that anger and bitterness and see happiness in the situation. How do you forgive and move on?