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    damien
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    Hello teak

    I will finally go after after visit to her family. Around the 15th was tight. And it may also make her more relieved, relaxed and she will have fill up her love tank. After 3 years no seeing them, she would be in good spirits. She felt pretty alone without someone near her except some friends. It would be good opportunity to listen to her about her visit.

    Yes I will tell her until we have a date together. Of course I can’t come just like that. And also when she will be fully available like week end. If she need more time of course I will wait.

    Yes in that way she doesn’t feel pressure. I already told her for example I had work appointments and that I hope I will be able to tell her more when I will see her. But just telling her to talk and have a conversation in real. Without expectation indeed. It’s my last chance. It can either work or not. Or she just need more time. Just talking and how are our lives. Then she could see how I am . It’s also important she feels a projection of a future as I imagine it was a reason why she decided to not wait anymore. She needs to feel perspectives and identifies a future we both want. And not identifies me as the past she knew me and where she suffered.

     

    Thank you.

    • This reply was modified 2 years, 8 months ago by damien.
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    Tee
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    Hi Damien,

    you’re welcome. I think it’s a good decision to wait till she comes back from visiting her parents. As you say, she might be in a better mood and more relaxed, so this could be a bonus. Aug 15th would have been tight indeed.

    I do hope she’ll be receptive to you and your vision of the future. If not, at least you’ll know you did your best. But I hope it all works out fine for you. Let us know how it went… and fingers crossed!

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