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He Left me after 7 years together for Conservative Parents.. Help me Please!

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  • #406247
    anita
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    Dear Sushmita:

    Poor, sleepless and abused Sushmita! I hope that you are sleeping now, it being 6:14 am in India. I am not clear about something: is your mother abusing you because she thinks that you still want to marry the guy? What if you tell her that you are done with him and that there will be no marriage (which is practically true), will she then leave you alone?

    And about pushing her, that was an understandable reaction to her repeatedly pushing herself into your very small personal space, I see no guilt on your part.

    anita

    #406279
    anita
    Participant

    How are you, Sushmita?

    anita

    #406680
    Sushmita
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    Hi ma’am..thanks for asking.I am better.I have left talking about him at home.More or less i have realised this too he didn’t put any efforts to keep this relationship.He says i am with you but his actions tell something else.I am focussing on myself and my career.I am letting go of this relationship at present and idk what I’ll decide in future when he asks me about it but at present I don’t have the power to fight for it maybe in future I will have.. but i am leaving that for future. I am relieved and not depressed anymore.I believe this phase is over for me now. I’ll be shifting to his hometown for further studies but there will be no contact and I’ll be okay. I am sure.

    Thanks a ton for your concern. I read stories of many here and realised I am not the only one going through it.🙃

    #406685
    anita
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    Dear Sushmita:

    What you expressed in your post of five hours ago is the best, the healthiest state of mind I ever read from you. I am so impressed, Sushmita- ma’am! (You definitely deserve this term of respect yourself). I have nothing to add to what you said because you said it perfectly.

    In regard to thanking me: you are very welcome and thank you for referring to me as ma’am (I still like it), and for being as gracious as you are. Post again anytime you feel like it and I will be glad to read from you!

    anita

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