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  • #186911
    Nobody
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    very simple question. How am I supposed to end this empty, lonely feeling inside. You know the feeling you get from being left out of things, ignored and just not having anyone to talk to? That’s it. How to end it is all I need to know.

    #186915
    VJ
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    Hello Nobody,

    Perhaps you may not like it but a simple answer to the simple question is -> by enjoying your own company

    Below is a pictorial link which explains everything that I want to say.

    https://www.wikihow.com/Enjoy-Being-Alone

     

    Warm Regards,

    ~VJ

    #186919
    Nobody
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    @vj

    You are right. I forget this too much mostly because I never practise it. But I will now.

     

    thank you.

    #186975
    Inky
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    Hi Nobody,

    A good start would be to change things like your Username. By naming yourself “Nobody” you are reinforcing the thought that you don’t exist, and so view yourself through that filter. Of course you think everyone’s ignoring you if you think you don’t exist! Know what I mean?

    Change your Thoughts!

    Inky

    #186981
    CarpeDiem
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    Agreed with Inky
    besides that you can take some steps to this loneliness
    Meet new people and make right friends who actually care for you…

    #187031
    Eliana
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    Hi Nobody,

    If you are being left out of things, create your own things. What do you like to do? What are your hobbies, interests, passions? Start a group. Maybe at first it will be a small group, but you won’t be ignored, you will fit in, because you created it, you will be with like minded people who will enjoy your company. You may be hanging around toxic people or cliques. You don’t need that. Go where the sunshine is. Find positive people. You can find this at church, volunteering, self help groups, book clubs, etc. Lonliness is a passing feeling and this too shall pass.

    Try to gain knowledge about interesting topics. Read alot of book’s. When you are around other people, don’t let them ignore you! Share your wealth of interesting facts you have learned. Tell funny jokes, start a discussion, make people look you in the eye when you speak. Start slow. Start speaking to one person, then move on top crowds. Be around people who are happy with life, themselves, and they will not ignore you, but will enjoy your uniqueness and the pleasure of your company.

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