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December 13, 2025 at 1:53 pm #452933
James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
Real compassion is not being nice or kind. İt is telling the truth.
İf you are kind to a person that doesn’t need to be kind, that’s lying. İf you say kind word to a person just to make him/her feel better, that’s lying.
Telling to you that you can’t handle the Truth is not insulting but leading.
Just i recommend to you, actually to all to stop these playing house games, but get real.
Many of you here to say kind words or saying ah darling you are so good stuff or heart emojis stiff… But all is a lie. İf anyone ask anyone here to borrow the money, they will never get back to that person.
So, everyone should stop pretending to be good and get real.
Face with the devil within you.
You are your biggest enemy (İmam Gazali).
Break your heart till it opens. (Rumi)
December 13, 2025 at 1:55 pm #452934
James123ParticipantAnd compassion is:
Telling the Truth, moving with Truth, breathing with Truth, touching with Truth and talking Truth through the Truth.
December 13, 2025 at 2:31 pm #452935
Thomas168ParticipantDear James,
Does telling the truth happen without constraints? Do we not have societal norms?
It is one thing to say the tree leaves are green and turning colors.
It is another to say you are fat and/or stupid.
Even though it may be true, one does not say those things because they are hurtful.
So, truth is not the be all to the end all.
Truth does not trump love, compassion and wisdom.
There is no enlightenment. Only enlightened actions.
With all that you know, you have still not learned this lesson??December 13, 2025 at 2:49 pm #452936
anitaParticipantDear James:
You wrote: “Many of you here to say kind words or saying ah darling you are so good stuff or heart emojis stiff… But all is a lie.”-
I am 99.99% sure that you just called me a liar. Did you (I am asking because I have 0.01% hope that you didn’t.
You mentioned İmam Gazali. Abu Hamid Muhammad al-Ghazali was a renowned Muslim theologian who (so I read) often emphasized in his writings kindness, compassion, and gentleness as essential virtues. He wrote, for example: “Soft words soften hearts that are harder than rock, harsh words harden hearts that are softer than silk.”. Well.. James.. You disagree with Imam Gazali?
🤍 Anita
December 13, 2025 at 3:09 pm #452937
James123ParticipantDear Thomas and Anita,
Please send who you love the most in this forum a thousand dollars.
And face with real internal demon.
İt is not being a liar, because you guys are not even aware that you lie to yourself.
You guys haven’t meet with the devil/you yet. And i am offering to you to meet.
When you are really honest to yourself, you will see the how clever the mind is, and your entire life turn around it.
When death comes, your these squeamish personalities will burn till not even ashes left from you. Surrender before too late.
And believe me, I love you more then anyone loves you. Because, love is not about saying nice words or making feel better, but warning, helping and leading to see devil/mind/you activity.
Peace.
Peace.
December 13, 2025 at 4:15 pm #452940
Thomas168ParticipantDear James,
I ask nicely to not bring Anita into this. She is a nice person and does not deserve any bitterness from you. So, please leave her out of this.
James said, “Please send who you love the most in this forum a thousand dollars.
And face with real internal demon.”
What is your point? What would that prove?James said, “İt is not being a liar, because you guys are not even aware that you lie to yourself.
You guys haven’t meet with the devil/you yet. And i am offering to you to meet.”
So we aren’t liars now. We are the devil?? And you offer to meet?
Sounds like you think you know something more than the rest of the world does.James said, “When death comes, your these squeamish personalities will burn till not even ashes left from you. Surrender before too late.”
So now you want to talk to us about our death and how much horror there will be??James said, “And believe me, I love you more then anyone loves you. Because, love is not about saying nice words or making feel better, but warning, helping and leading to see devil/mind/you activity.
Peace.
Peace.”
So how do you claim this love? By describing my death and how my squeamish personality will burn??
Then claim Peace??I got to say that your post makes me feel conflicted. You say you love me then you talk about my death.
So love is not about making one feel better? Sorry, that must be my mistake. Making my loved ones feel better.
So to show my love for you should I just be warning you, helping you see the devil/mind/you activity?
Somehow I think it would make me look crazy like the man in the desert looking for an oasis.
Maybe it is there and maybe it is a mirage??I say this from the bottom of my heart. I care about you, James.
I have no ill will toward you. And I hope someday that you will bring your mind forward to complete the circle.
You may have found the OX but bringing it home is a different story.Peace.
December 13, 2025 at 4:27 pm #452944
anitaParticipant* Thank you so much, Thomas, for standing up for me. I am moved by your words more than I can say 🙏🙏🙏
James: I need time to answer you, so I’ll do so tomorrow morning. Please take good care of yourself!
Anita
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