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  • February 12, 2026 at 3:14 pm #455157
    Alessa
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    Dear Anita

    I understand why you feel the way you feel and respect it. 🤍

    I’m just a different person and see things differently. I’ve been on a quest to forgive my mother for 10 years. Now, I’m starting to think that I forgave her when I said goodbye. But forgiving someone doesn’t stop memories from hurting. Maybe the underlying goal was to stop hurting. That isn’t how life works though.

    How I feel is not a commentary on your experience though. Our journeys are very personal. Your thoughts and feelings are valid. 🤍

    You have been through a lot and you deserve to handle things in a way that makes you comfortable. 🤍

    If I can forgive my mother and I can forgive my rapist, I think I need to work on being a lot kinder to myself because I’m not being fair to myself.

    February 12, 2026 at 3:15 pm #455158
    Alessa
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    Dear Tommy

    Thank you for the beautiful song! I listened to it for the second time in my life. You have excellent taste in music. 🩵 😊

    February 12, 2026 at 4:26 pm #455165
    Thomas168
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    Dear Alessa,

    It was a song that gave me time to think of something else than my own problems at the time. So, I thought it was interesting that this thread brought this memory up. Thank you. Glad you liked it. Music helps set moods.

    February 12, 2026 at 8:10 pm #455170
    anita
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    Dear Alessa:

    Yes, I agree. Our journeys are very personal, and your thoughts and feelings, Alessa, are VALID!

    Forgiveness- I read some time ago that it means no longer being angry at the perpetrator, no longer hating the perpetrator.

    I am no longer angry at my mother. I know longer hate her. And, at the same time, I don’t want to spend any more time empathizing with her.

    I wish you the best on your very personal journey, Alessa. I think very well of you 🙏👍, I am rooting for you!

    🤍🙏🤍 Anita

    February 12, 2026 at 8:12 pm #455171
    anita
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    * I no longer hate her

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