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  • October 5, 2026 at 10:07 pm #461375
    GoingThroughLife
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    Hi Dear friend.

    How are you doing Anita. I hope you have been well and healthy.

    Your friend
    Goingthroughlife

    October 5, 2026 at 10:24 pm #461376
    anita
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    Oh, dear.. my goodness, Going Through Life.. that’s you? (big smile on my face!)

    October 6, 2026 at 5:04 am #461380
    GoingThroughLife
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    I am glad you missed me friend, I missed you too. (Big smile on my face too!). How have you been friend? I am excited to get updated with your life.

    I have some updates for you. I found a new job more suited to my educational background. My elder sister got married last month, and I just came from a trip from France and Italy. My sister lives in France.

    Your Dear friend
    goingthorughlife

    October 6, 2026 at 11:51 am #461397
    anita
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    Dear Going Through Life 🙂

    I’m thrilled to read from you again!

    Congrats for the new job 👏

    Did you enjoy your trip to France and Italy.. and your sister’s wedding in France?

    My life hasn’t changed much since we last talked. Well, Bogart the beagle is a bit bigger and as cute as ever and I didn’t find a regular irl socializing opportunity since the taproom closed back in April.

    🤍 Anita

    October 7, 2026 at 9:36 am #461413
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    Thank you friend. Yes the trip was awesome, it was good to get out of my third world country and explore these developed ones.

    I would love to see Bogart, I bet he looks more cute now since he is a bit bigger now.

    Awww i see, how have you been spending your days then dear friend, pls share with me, I am excited to know about your life these past few months.

    Your dear friend
    Goingthroughlife

    October 7, 2026 at 1:07 pm #461420
    anita
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    My dear friend, Going Through Life:

    I am curious about the differences you personally see between your “third world country” and “developed ones”, and what you most appreciate in what you observed in France and in Italy.

    Here, my socialization experience has been in 2 places: (1) my lovely next-door neighbor who has 2 beagles and a huge outdoor property. We have daily play dates with the 3 beagles (I would have loved to upload a photo of Bogart, but I don’t know how to do it. I’m very low tech),

    (2) the dog park downtown, where Bogart gets to play with all kinds of dogs. Sometimes there’s drama among the dogs’ (human) moms and dads, which makes the time there even more interesting.

    I did visit a couple of dog-friendly taproom, but only a few times.

    🐶 🐾 🐕 🐾 💫 Anita

    October 25, 2026 at 12:27 pm #461818
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    My dear friend Anita.

    The first thing I found, was that people are a lot more polite in France especially and Italy too. The manner in they speak is very soft especially in France. It’s like they have developed to a higher consciousness, to see every person as if it was you. To seek yourself in everyone.

    2. I hope you can upload a picture, I love dogs, I would love to see your beagle. I have a street dog in my old neighborhood whom I love, she’s my soulmate. I read sometime back that soulmate can be anyone and in any form and in any manner. I adore her.

    I am sorry for replying so late, but I hope you’re well and happy.

    Side note. I got a message from EN. I had accepted what happened with her, it’s been 3 years. She asked me how I’m doing, I said I’m good and asked her the same thing.

    Another side note. I dreamt about her the same morning while sleeping. It was surreal getting a message from her. I soulfully miss her Anita, although I’m dating someone else. I did not text zEN first. I try to keep my moral ethics high.

    I would love to hear more about you and your life Anita.

    Your very dear friend
    Goingthroughlife.

    October 25, 2026 at 12:46 pm #461819
    anita
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    Dear VDF (Very Dear Friend) 🙂: So good to read from you this Sunday afternoon!

    I will very soon need to leave to the big city up north, so I’ll reply further this evening.

    Your VDF, Anita

    October 25, 2026 at 7:40 pm #461825
    anita
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    Dear Going Through Life 🙂

    Sounds like you came across very nice people in France and in Italy. Higher consciousness, you say.. maybe they mirrored what they saw in you 🤔

    I wouldn’t know how to upload a photo, I’ll need someone to do it for me. I’ll tell you what: google images of beagles, choose the cutest image.. and you’ll get close to how cute Bogart looks like 😍

    I know your ethics are high, GTL. EN may be a nostalgic fantasy at this point. The one you’re dating, she’s the real person in your life. I hope it’s going well 👫

    It’s getting cold here these days, and I just had the most delicious chicken and dumplin soup. Bogart had some and appreciated it very much. He’s now snoring lightly on his dog bed across from where I’m sitting comfortably and typing into my phone.

    It’s totally dark out at 7:40 pm, sunset was a bit earlier than 6 pm. I was out after 6, the time coyotes and mountain lions feed..

    Totally safe now 🙂

    You have a dog soulmate, never heard of the term applied to a dog please tell me what makes her your soulmate?

    And by the way, it’s okay if you take time responding, no worries about responding late

    Your VDF, Anita

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