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March 18, 2016 at 4:06 am #99342JanusParticipant
wednesday, i found that shotput had an easier stance to learn, although shotput required more force to throw, but i think i like shotput better than discus. my team mates were great and helped me with the positions. thursday, my allergies abated their severity at 6:14, but they are still annoying with few occasions of runny and stuffy nose and sore throat. my ap english essay announced that the essay on slavery was due friday and also i am learning about radians, arc measures, trigonometry and angle measures in pre-calc. the subject is a bit difficult, but there is only 35% that i don’t understand. i have a physics honors test on work-energy friday and also a ap world history ch. 17 test. i stayed after for physics honors thursday with some other students and we helped each other understand the test review problems. i have started to understand physics honors more now. for monday (had to get bloodwork) and tuesday, i felt dizzy after monday so i didn’t workout much (10 minutes). i still meditated to clear my head though. sat, march 12 i was tired after arguing with my parents on the sats so i also took a break from both. on wednesday, i had bad allergies also took a break from both. i wanted to get a start on my ap english essay on tuesday because i had missed class on monday, but i felt dizzy. it got to be thursday afternoon and i had to write the essay and i’m not sure it’s that good. also i had to read 32 pages thursday for the ap world history test today. i think i am ready for the physics honors test today and hope to do well on the ap world history test. i wish the teachers gave us more time to do work instead of making me start to cram everything in at once. on thursday, i worked out (30 minutes) and mediated for 15 minutes. i have to get back to meditating and working out because i haven’t done much in this busy, straining week. dave is great because yesterday, he asked me if i was okay and he listened when i told him about everything i said here. he told me it would be okay and that he hoped i would feel better, it made me feel better just to have him around.
March 18, 2016 at 5:18 am #99346AnonymousGuestDear Shirley:
Sounds like the contributing factors, if not the initiating factors for your dizziness, sore throat, etc. are:
* the blood work last Monday (if it was significant amount of blood taken)
* the argument with your parents last Saturday
* the academic work load and limited time testing in school this weekDave has been somewhat supporting. But your critical parents are repeatedly a problem for you, aren’t they? Is there at all a way (and there may very well be no way) to communicate to them that they are hurting you, being critical; that you are doing your best as is and their support (you can tell them what being supportive of you would sound like…) will help you?
Get well and take it easy, allowing yourself time to regain your strength.
anita
March 19, 2016 at 1:30 pm #99503JanusParticipantI’m getting better, but my nose is still somewhat stuffy. i stayed after for pre-calc yesterday to go over radian measures within a circle and what quadrant they lay in and angle of elevations and depression. it’s still a bit complex, but i think i understand it better. i like chris mccandless in Into the Wild, although he made the mistake of overestimating himself and he can be a bit too self-assured at times, i admire his independence, his adventurous nature and his desire to go for his dreams. at a young age, mccandless had loved nature much like me. he works hard in everything he does and is very philosophical. in chapter eleven, chris’s mom billie says “that mccandless liked to devote his total energy to whatever he undertook and he found his athletic calling in track. for him track was a spiritual experience, the sheer will and determination to push yourself forward. also the feeling of being free, running through obstacles, through the evils and hardships of the world when he ran. mccandless was very competitive and set high standards for himself” (Krakauer). I feel like i connect with mccandless in the fact that i am very focused and intent on my goals and i can be quite idealistic at times. i balance my idealistic and practical side for example i know it will be hard to become a genetic engineer, but i take steps toward it and keep a positive mindset and push myself. like president kennedy who was an idealistic person who looked ahead and saw many opportunities especially the landing of a man on the moon in july 20th 1969 which ended the Cold War, i tend to also see myself going along the path of my dreams and taking practical steps toward making it a reality. i agree with mccandless in his view that you should give all that you’ve got into life and you shouldn’t let the negative influences of others influence your path and also i enjoy running distance like mccandless especially cross-country (which mccandless did) because to me it is also a spiritual experience and seeing the beauty of nature is breathtaking. the sheer momentum of pushing yourself forward and running and the sheer freedom of it like nothing can hold you back, like you can go great distances and challenge yourself is elating. there is a thing called “runner’s euphoria” which is the rush of adrenaline that brings mental clarity after a hard run and it makes you feel great and look at the world with a new light. mccandless enjoyed the spirit of running because he believed he was leaving his limitations behind, letting go of all that he was not. i think after being around dave who is great at literature, my writing has quite improved and it is sometimes effortless to draft words for an essay. dave told me that when writing an essay i should engage in my topic and also see the side of the audience and try to connect with them as well. by engaging myself with the essay and also seeing how the audience might perceive it makes the essay seem easier to write and also more sophisticated. also andrew who is great at math and science has made me think a lot quicker and i find myself being able to remember formulas and think a lot quicker than i thought i could. i was ecstatic when i was able to understand the physics honors and pre-calc formulas and derive them within only five days of studying when typically it would take at least twelve days. life seems a lot more effortless these days and i feel like i’m just letting the flow of life lead me. even through harsh times and also when people are overly criticizing it doesn’t affect me as much anymore. i think mccandless has something valuable to teach us all and that is that life is meant to be lived and you should give all you’ve got toward your dreams. i think i have found a way to stay motivated in my studies because sometimes it can be hard to keep focus on studying, but i tend to make analogies for my studying to how to apply it to my life and it makes studying more fun and interesting. i like teachers who can apply their subjects to the real world, who are laid-back and can make learning fun for their students by making references to real-life scenarios. i like pre-calc and physics honors best because my teachers do this quite well. i feel like i have also learned a lot about the world in ap world history and economy and business and also in improving my essays. my ap world history teacher who also teaches psychology knows and says that the reason students hate school and don’t have ambition is because it is the same routine daily with no variation and there is no hands on applications, it’s just note-taking and the teacher talking, test taking and homework. the students don’t learn much about how their learning applies to the real world, but with my ap world history teacher she also has interactive things such as having us present to the class and do research, make posters, work in groups and we often have lots of discussion in class. the good thing abou this is that it encourages the students to actively voice themselves and think and also it makes them interested in learning since they know how it applies to their environment. i feel like my ap english teacher is a good person but she doesn’t really teach as much. she is always asking us to write essays with only a few guidelines and most of the essays we write don’t have much to do with what we will learn in the real world. i enjoyed writing the definition essay which you explained your interpretation of a word, but i’m not really sure that really will help me much in college. in college most of the essays often ask you to analyze, argue, respond, evaluate, etc. a point in a story you have read or just to write an essay based on a topic. i feel like she doesn’t really give much guidelines to writing that we need. we are often to read passages and just analyze them and then write a topic on the author’s use of writing style and his argument. it’s just straight taking a few terms and putting them in a clear-cut essay with not much thought involved. in ap world history when we do essays, the teacher allows us to explore different avenues of how to write the essay and also offers guidelines of how to add points of view or additional information to our essays, she encourages us to think outside the box and make inferences. i think in college it is more important to be able to take passages and make inferences and look at the passages as a whole instead of finding author’s style and using it in your writing. i don’t think colleges are going to have essay prompts that say “what rhetorical strategies does this author use to develop his argument?” this question is too simple and clear cut. i like the ap world history questions that really make you think and use what you know to apply to what you are trying to figure out such as the question “after reading the passage, analyze and describe how the industrial revolution impacted the slave labor and describe the changes and continuities and why?” this question allows you to look at the story as a whole and pull evidence out and also asks you to think outside the box a little, sometimes it is important to include some prior knowledge when explaining things. also my ap world history teacher encourages us to do our best, but can also be quite hard at times. you often have to catch up by yourself if you miss a day and you still have to take the test. 4:26, i was reading a chapter in ap world history about hiv in africa and the radio announced that there are organizations working on eliminating it, i think it is a cool coincidence.
March 19, 2016 at 2:56 pm #99506JanusParticipantalso mccandless enjoys reading especially philosophical works and doesn’t have interpersonal relationships. i feel like i also keep people at a distance at times because i’m not sure if i can trust them. he also isn’t very mechanical minded either, but he works quite hard. i find that the basics of mechanics is cool, but i never really can get deep into it.
March 19, 2016 at 3:40 pm #99507JanusParticipantHere are two poems I wrote about life (I found that when I originally wrote them, I tend to edit them when posting so they become longer and more detailed.) :
You are a Star
The only person holding you back is yourself
Dare to take a risk, happiness is all around you.
Every step you take lights a candle in your path
Even if the wind blows out a candle, hope still lights the way
You are a star, you control your life
Let your imperfections help you find who you truly are
It is through our imperfections that make up the adventures of our lives
Accept your imperfections and acknowledge them, they are what makes life meaningful
If everyone were perfect, there would be no change in the world
You are a star, accept your imperfections and use them to make yourself a better person
Follow your dreams, listen to your heart
Try your best and don’t let your fears and imperfections control you
Let nothing hold you back, you are a star capable of great things
Every step you take is an adventure of new doors to be opened
Each lap you take gets us closer to a world with more hope and dreams
So give life all you’ve got
Chase after your hopes and dreams
Don’t let fear and security of what’s conventional hold you back from exploring new horizons
Life is a gift waiting to be opened
It has a rainbow of opportunities
Go and explore a new horizon
Live the life of your dreams
You are a star and may your love and light touch every horizon in the world
You are a star and nothing is impossible.
Roads of Life
Which path to take?
It seems like I’ve lost my map on the road of life
Everywhere I go I’m plagued with doubt and worries
Which color of the rainbow leads to the pot of gold?
When you feel uncertain on the roads of life, you’re not alone
Hope lights the way, you will make it through
Look within your heart, see what truly makes you happy
Keep that vision in your thoughts when the roads of life become sinuous with under-brushes, tides that you need to swim against and currents that threaten to pull you under
When you feel like you are falling behind and lost, don’t stop and just stay in the darkness
You must make the choice to take a chance or things will never change and you will be stuck in the valley of shadows and broken dreams
So take a chance, you are stronger and braver than you think
And if you feel like you can’t make it through, take a break and regather your strength, but don’t stay lost in the maze of life, take a chance and start living
And if you feel fearful of taking a chance ask yourself “What do I have to lose if I’ve already felt like I’ve hit rock bottom? Do i really want to stay in this abyss watching life pass me by?”
So take a chance, you may open a door that leads you to perfect road
But if you hit another dead-end, don’t get discouraged
Pick yourself back up and keep traveling on the roads of life
In our darkest moments, we realize how strong we truly are
And what if you have lost all hope in yourself, what if every road you take seems to lead to failure and you are hanging on by a thread?
What if you find yourself alone on a path, broken down?
And what if you lose your ships at sea and your maps are blown away by a coarse wind?
The roads of life aren’t smooth, but that’s what makes life beautiful
Ask yourself “What would be the meaning of life if everything was perfect? How would we learn who we truly are if we don’t have anything to experience and change us?”
It is the obstacles we face and overcome that give life its meaning and beauty
Take your obstacles and use them as bridges to get further on the roads of life
Don’t be afraid to take the road less traveled
Believe in yourself
Follow your heart
Experience life to the fullest, don’t miss out on the windows of opportunity by not trying and just getting by
Get out there and start living your dreams
What have you got to lose?
And no matter what roads in life you take, you will always be lead to home.
March 19, 2016 at 4:01 pm #99508JanusParticipantHere is another poem, i like writing poetry because it comes effortlessly and it is a great way to express emotions.
Live Your Life to the Fullest
Living my life isn’t hard at all
Appreciating the little things in life
Laughing at myself
Forgiving people for their wrongdoings
I’m learning to be compassionate
Living life to the fullest
I want to experience the abundance the the universe has to offer
I trust my life
I’m living in the present
I’m listening to my heart and the universe
I’m living my life
Going on my path
I’m going home
To fulfillment
To where I truly belong
To unconditional love
Living life to the fullest.
March 19, 2016 at 8:21 pm #99526AnonymousGuestDear Shirley:
Your writing is so much more relaxed today, as if you wrote right after a run, the runner euphoria easing your writing, so it flows so naturally. I see you identify with mccandless of Into the Wild, his love for nature, running, adventure, thinking.
I like your poems.
Your first poem, You are a Star:
“You are a star, you control your life
Let your imperfections help you find who you truly are”Excellent point: controlling one’s life. Also, imperfections lead a person to one’s true self. There is a lot in this line.
In Roads of Life:
“When you feel like you are falling behind and lost, don’t stop and just stay in the darkness
You must make the choice to take a chance or things will never change and you will be stuck in the valley of shadows and broken dreams
So take a chance, you are stronger and braver than you think
And if you feel like you can’t make it through, take a break and regather your strength, but don’t stay lost in the maze of life, take a chance and start living
And if you feel fearful of taking a chance ask yourself “What do I have to lose if I’ve already felt like I’ve hit rock bottom? Do i really want to stay in this abyss watching life pass me by?”Don’t stay in the darkness (so many people do, I did…) Make a choice (don’t stay passively … in the darkness), take a chance (risk.. the comfort of staying in the darkness, as there is some comfort in it…?)
You are stronger than you think, braver than you think, great message, inspiring.
Start living… even if you feel fearful…what do you have to lose? Do not stay in the darkness, the abyss… watching life pass you by.I wish a lot of people read this very poem. Teenagers in the dark, in the abyss. There must be a high school newspaper where your poem/s can be published? I think this particular poem will be a great help and inspiration to many.
I like your last poem as well, it is a great way to express your feelings. I like most these lines:
“I’m going home
To fulfillment
To where I truly belong
To unconditional love
Living life to the fullest.”This is what a HOME is about: unconditional live, a place where you truly belong… well said, Shirley!
Again, your writing today is flowing so naturally, with a calm flow… poetic euphoria, perhaps!
anita
March 20, 2016 at 4:32 pm #99597JanusParticipantthanks anita;) our school has a newspaper, but no one pays attention to it. the athletes at the school and those on the A team get the most attention, the simplistic compassionate people are often pushed to the sides. i think he newspaper writers work quite hard to spread news and they are good students, but no one seems to pay much mind to them. learning at alison.com is great;) they have free courses online about business, health, computers and the like and they explain things quite simplistically so it doesn’t feel like it is overwhelming. you can take notes while you learn (they have a notepad at the bottom) and their slideshows often go in bullet points so it’s easy to follow and interesting. i have realized that when i feel like i have doubts my circulation seems to decrease, but if i meditate and keep myself happy, my circulation improves. i hope i can work on a way to completely healing myself. i had a really strange dream last night. i think the angels were trying to show me my life’s purpose. in some of my dreams, i think i meet actual people in this world or who have crossed over and i tend to help them find their way. in this dream, there was a girl with brown hair and her name was kayla. i saw her walking alone near a cliff near a mountain range and she seemed upset and just drifting by in life. the waters below the cliff were raging and i knew she was about to jump. i called out to her and told her not to jump. she continued to walk toward the cliff, just when she was about to jump over, i ran to her and pushed her away from the edge and restrained her from going to the edge. kayla then started crying and telling me that her life was terrible, that her significant other had broken up with her and that she was a failure. i being an empath felt her pain and i told her that it was okay if she felt like she was broken inside, but that by ending her life she wouldn’t have any chance to improve it or change herself for the better. kayla started sobbing and saying she couldn’t live life like this anymore, she wasn’t strong enough, she didn’t have her significant other to hold her. she was broken in to pieces and didn’t know what to do with her life. she told me that there was no one who cared about her anymore. i felt a deep compassion and sympathy for this girl and i put my arm around her and told her that she would be okay that i would help her put the broken pieces back together. i would be there for her and teach her how to believe in herself and be strong. kayla was still sorrowful and said “how can i ever find true love again? how can i ever trust myself in my life again?” i told her that there were 7.5 billion people in this world and that just because one guy didn’t love her, it didn’t matter because it makes the search easier to find someone who will truly appreciate her for who she truly is. I then asked her “Do you truly want to end you life now and let the darkness win? Do you truly want to give up now, that you’ve come this far? Don’t you have goals in life you want to accomplish? You have too much to lose if you just give up now and end your life, there won’t be nothing to change. Why don’t you take a risk, be strong on your own and live your life?” kayla seemed a lot more upbeat after this, but she was still upset and worried that she wouldn’t be able to make it. i told her that i would help her through her life, i would hold her until she could stand on her own feet again. i also told her my story about my special friend and how he helped me. she seemed to feel much better and i took her hand and lead her away from the cliff. this dream left me unsettled and in a cold sweat because it was like i was back in my past when i felt like kayla and i was helped by my special friend. however, after the dream i felt myself be lifted by a beautiful purple light and the angel said his name was uriel. he told me that i was coming to terms with my past, learning to appreciate myself more and also that my life’s purpose was to help others who felt sad and broken and lead them to living life more. angel uriel said “you must accept the dark parts of yourself instead of hiding and denying them, you must confront them and bring them to the light so you can truly heal. by bringing you doubts and insecurities to the light, acknowledging and accepting them, you can be more free and positive and help others along their way. you are an important person and a spiritual guide for those who have lost their way that is your purpose.” i was then lifted by purple wings and i saw myself in beautiful woodland area. i think i really admire henry david thoreau and i think it would be cool to be an environmental journalist and take some supplies and go out to explore nature. angel uriel said that i should go for researcher career like a journalist and i can be both a medical and environmental journalist and be out in nature. angel uriel also showed me getting a medical degree and also making enough money to travel the world like doctors without borders writing about nature and helping the poor. angel uriel said “there is a reason for your idealistic nature and your joy of living. don’t let it fade away. it is what makes you who you truly are and what will help you reach your true authentic purpose.” i feel like my parents have gotten even more stressed over the demands in the restaurant and also their house rentings to people, they seem to have an even shorter temper than usual. every time you allow stress and anger to control you it weakens you and makes you live a year less and also raises your blood pressure and likelihood of stroke. angel uriel says it’s okay to be an empath, but i have to be careful not to let others’ negative energies start to drain me. i’ve been getting strange senses of intuition these days like when i know that a friend will email before she emails and also i seem to have both an analytical and also idealistic side to me these days. i know that whatever path i take i’m going home and life seems so simplistic. yet, there are things i still need to learn like driving, reading maps quicker (i can read them, but sometimes the east, west confuses me) and working on possibly figuring out incomes and budgets (i took a financial literacy class, but i still think i need more applications in it). sometimes i wish my parents had another job because the stress of the restaurant sometimes makes them very weary and they tend to be overly criticizing about me or they don’t have much time to teach me much about life’s skills. there are times when i find myself questioning whether i can make it out in life, whether i can develop the skills to survive. i have been currently meditating and working on healing and being more positive person and possibly help my parents live life a little more.
March 20, 2016 at 5:54 pm #99598JanusParticipantI feel like I have many career options in mind: environmental journalist, park ranger, genetic therapist, reiki healer, criminal justice lawyer. I think i want a career that allows me to be in nature, but also to help me travel to help people. i think my top choices are environmental journalist and reiki healer. I am very devoted to buddhist wiccan and i want to use my own spirituality to help others live life more.
March 20, 2016 at 8:30 pm #99630AnonymousGuestDear Shirley:
A shame your school newspaper is not popular, could be the high tech communication making newspapers obsolete.
Your dream helping Kayla- excellent job helping her. Made me think of you volunteering to answer calls by people considering suicide. From your performance in your dream, you’d be good at it! And you sure have experience confronting darkness.
You do have a lot to offer.
Always take care of yourself first. Always, yourself first.
Bed time for me. I hope you have a good Monday at school!
anita
March 21, 2016 at 4:07 am #99675JanusParticipantthanks anita;) my parents can be the most criticizing people i know. yesterday before i went home, i asked them to sign a community service form that would allow me to help out at a nursing home. i love working with the elderly, they have a great sense of humor and are fun to be around. they keep ragging me about the 1490 i got on my sats. they think that i’m not preparing myself for college and that i’ll just be another poor person. i don’t like my score much, but i only missed 10 points from my goal and i’m pretty sure i can do okay on the 1600 worth sat. at the start of my junior year, my parents had kept pestering me to take the sats soon when i didn’t feel quite ready, they said i should take them before colleges started denying access. i don’t think february (rescheduled from january to snow) was the best time to take the sats for me because i was still adapting to a new semester and also i was worried about my special friend. he was struggling in one of his math classes and i was helping him. there were a lot of pre-test in my new classes and i was always trying to study and do well on them. my parents said the reason i didn’t do too well is that i didn’t study, but i would spend the 20 minutes left of each day that wasn’t studying for my classes reading and studying my notes. i think february was quite stressful month, but i’m glad that i could help my special friend.
March 21, 2016 at 7:03 am #99686AnonymousGuestDear Shirley:
When your parents criticize, pester and put pressure on you like they do so often, they operate against your well being.
They are blind to what they are actually doing, blind by the fear that motivates their behavior toward you. It is a great shame that this is the case in your life and in so many others’ lives. The world would have been a much, much better place if people paid attention to the affect and effect of what they are doing and evaluate their talk and actions: is it working FOR my child or AGAINST my child?
Your friends and your special friend are the people where you get comfort, as well as your spiritual beings that appear in your dreams and sometimes leave feathers and light in your day.
Life does not have to be this way. As you find your own way or ways in life, as an adult, you will be able to choose who you live with, if anyone, and how. You will be able to choose a person or people who accept you, comfort you, allow you to determine what is best for you, respect you and your abilities and …never expect perfection from you. In essence, people motivated by love and not by fear.
Till your next post, take good care of yourself.
anita
March 21, 2016 at 4:26 pm #99758JanusParticipantThanks anita;) I love my shot put teammates, they are funny and supportive. also, i am starting to get the hang of shotput, the shotput is starting to feel a little more easier to hold. i just have to work on positioning my wrist better and also putting more force in my throw, but i’m getting better. ever since i’ve been in physics honors, i’ve started to understand more about the natural forces acting on us in the world. today at track practice, i predicted the wind speed to be 15mph by the angle of the sun and also the speed at which the wind was moving my hair, i checked the weather channel and i was only off by 3 points (18 mph) 🙂 so the galvanometer measures electrical current (but i’m not very good with electricity), barometers measure air pressure and anemometer measures wind pressure. physics honors is great in how we have so many real-life applications. andrew seems a bit insecure these days because i’m starting to become better at science than he is, but he is still good at mechanical knowledge than i am. i feel bad because he is always tense around me and he seems to be researching more ways to do better. also, i can estimate the speed of my bus according to the weather so i can arrange myself in the morning well in time so i don’t have to wait for the bus. my pre-calc teacher is great, she was explaining about how the greeks came up with much of our math and science systems today. eratosthenes was able to calculate the circumference of the earth without any technology except for pen and paper and only missed by about 100 from what it really is 24901.55. i really admire the greeks in their history and math, although the egyptians and persians had the first concept of surgery. i find it fascinating how much the primitive people could do when most modern people now think they are uncivilized. i feel like i can connect with chris mccandless when he feels that this world has become too capitalistic and technological and there isn’t much respect for the primitive ways and people anymore. i think mccandless wanted to truly experience life and work without the baggage of the technology the world has and see if he could live in unity with nature and simplistically. my ap world history teacher said that the native americans often felt sad when the europeans destroyed their forest because they really appreciated nature. the native americans were quite resourceful with their environment such as in what Jaguar Paw was able to do with his environment and 5 indians could tackle a boar. i see many similarities between mccandless and myself. i find that i also love nature and enjoy being alone often running in the woods where i can be free from material pressures. mccandless felt the world was too materialistic and all people cared about was competition and profit instead of leading a simplistic life, working together with nature. i find that the books mccandless reads “walk in the woods”, “war and peace” and the like appeal to me. also after hanging out with andrew for a while, i feel like i know a little more about mechanics than i thought i did such as complex pulley systems and levers. although, i feel bad because the more i’m learning the more he seems to feel insecure because he thinks i have more knowledge; i wish we could be closer friends than competitive ones. my special friend seems distant from me and also my lunch buddy because i tend to have quite a lot of fun with math, science and a little bit of history with my track friends. my special friend likes english more and often feels left out and my lunch buddy who does sprints (i”m okay with them, but not big fan) and i don’t converse as much, our classes tend to diverge as well. however, my track friends are great and entertaining and i feel like i can retain lots of information. there are times when i’ll see flashes of light and wings and i know my angels are around me. i also get burst of intuition and also a psychic sight sometimes that helps me figure things out quicker. i was walking with andrew after ap english and we were discussing economics and camping and i remember seeing him a bit tense and insecure and i felt bad and wished i could make him see that he was really smart, so while we were walking there was a shower of light and the buddha appeared on a cloud in front of us (andrew’s mom is a buddhist, so it didn’t surprise him) and the buddha said “you are learning lots in life now, you are on a path about to find yourself. laugh and enjoy yourself.” i think after seeing the buddha both of us were a lot more relaxed and less competitive academically and we shared a few laughs. i feel like mccandless has a shell around him that makes him sociable at time and withdrawn at others and also seem more receptive to some people and not others, i feel like everyone has that as a teenager. i think he is trying to make himself who he truly is without any material influences, i think he may have gone to alaska for a spiritual reason to escape from the pressures of society and his parents. i feel like i can connect with him like that because sometimes i want to be alone by myself to appreciate the beauty of nature. i also, in my healing meditations, i often call upon the angels and the buddha and say “i am forgetting all i’m lacking. i let go of all that holds me back. i let go of who i’m not. come buddha and angels and fill me with the light of my true myself and my true purpose. make my path one of light and love. i surrender all of myself to you now.” while i’m saying this i’m kneeling on the ground with my hands raised palm up to the heavens and i imagine the light from the divine pouring into me. this meditation is a healing and a connecting to my true self and authentic purpose and also a good cleansing. also i admire augie camacho (no matter what the circumstance, he still manages to only stay upset for ten minutes before he becomes happier again). he is not much of a runner, but he still tries quite hard and he ends up sweaty and out of breath and he never gives up even when some people criticize him, he still continues to push himself. he has a great sense of humor and is mostly laid-back and self-assured. since my parents can be quite criticizing at times and also since i’ve been bullied, i tend to be cautious in relationships and friendships much like chris mccandless. like mccandless who talks about possibly having a family at times and one in which people are loyal and care about each other and aren’t pressured by material needs, i feel like i can be very loyal to the friends i have and when and if i have a family, i will raise the family with love and self-confidence and to appreciate the true beauty of life. i think i see myself as a spiritual healer in this world, i would love to spend 3 years finding myself out in nature and then helping others who have lost their way in life find their way.
also my circulation isn’t as bad anymore, my hands aren’t as cracked and purple, although they can still be cold at times, but they are quicker to warm.
March 21, 2016 at 7:16 pm #99765AnonymousGuestDear Shirley:
A young woman who calculates the wind in her hair is definitely a heavy duty science girl! And the speed of your school bus. Your attraction to nature and living simply in nature is something you expressed many times. This is the reason chris mccandless stoke a chord with you and so does Jaguar Paw.
You wrote that Chris Mccanless had a shell around him that makes him sociable at time and withdrawn at others and also seem more receptive to some people and not others, and like him, you too are cautious in relationships and friendships.
An interesting walk you had with Andrew, a walk with Buddha. I wonder why he is competitive academically with you. Maybe the buddha’s message to relax will calm his competitiveness. I know you appreciate cooperation and not competition; helping and comforting and encouraging each other. I suppose your special friend also competes for your time, feeling left out.
You wrote: “mccandless felt the world was too materialistic and all people cared about was competition and profit instead of leading a simplistic life, working together with nature.” Seeing your parents so stressed out in the restaurant business makes you wish they too lived a simple life in nature and be relaxed, doesn’t it?
anita
March 23, 2016 at 4:03 am #99887JanusParticipantthanks anita for being so understanding:) i was after school helping senior citizens at the laurelton home celebrate a dog’s birthday, the dog was a grey and white pug and he was so cute and friendly:) he is their mascot and i’m glad the senior citizens have a puppy to cheer them up, the elderly are fun to be around;) so the self-defense club is every monday from april 4 to april 25 and other grades are welcome as well:) i can’t wait to till francine b/c we both had the idea;) most of our class had career day today, so some people weren’t there 2nd block ap english including andrew. dave and i helped each other develop our synthesis essay on whether advertisements were negative or positive. having two ap classes which require lots of essay writing and can be quite draining at times, but dave is great and supportive. he has a great sense of humor and always listens. dave is very encouraging and studious and is a great person to work with. dave like literature, but he prefers physics and math because they have practical real life applications and it can be fun seeing how the velocity of a car affects the momentum (physics honors). we both like physics honors a lot these days and we often talk about physics or chris mccandless because we both think he is adventurous. my school-based counselor/teacher who also does community service with me is great, he designs his office with cool stress reducing exercise and her office light is moderate light and it’s quite calming there. i think i would like to work in that environment, the walls are painted green (very naturalistic) and there are pretty crystal lights and smiley face, one with a crying or laughing face and other with a funny tongue sticking out face. also there is a panic button that when you press it, it says in a tense voice ‘stay calm, stay calm” and then screams, it’s pretty funny. also my yoga teacher is great, she also does fiber arts (making crafts are easier than drawing for me) and is lots of fun and relieves stress. she has coloring templates for her students to color to relieve their stress and it helps, i find myself being entertained by the colors i use. here is a great way to heal and relieve stress, imagine the stress you feel as a color such as red for anger, blue for sorrow, yellow for fear, etc. and take a paper and color the paper the color of your stress (press as hard as you want), imagine as the color flows onto the paper, your stress is leaving your body. then crumple the paper and throw it in the trash (we had lots of fun pretending we were basketball players) saying “my stress is no longer part of me. i am healed.” the templates often are like a vision board for our goals in life, we print out pictures of our dreams and while we fill them with beautiful colors, we imagine our energy going toward our goals, making them a reality. i was coloring a picture of cheshire cat today, as i was coloring i wanted to be happy like cheshire cat, also the trees that cheshire cat was sitting on, i pretended was a truffula tree and i colored it and imagined myself being one with nature. i used many colors and imagined myself expressing my souls’s purpose through the variety of colors. today, cj was really happy b/c he came in 3rd on the writing contest for the school and he says he might help get the school paper more famous so people can write their thoughts. dave is great, today while i was a bit stressed because of the change over time essay using documents in ap world history and having to write another (2nd week, i’ve had to to two essays on top of each other, last week with allergies as well). my head was hurting and i was a bit tired, but dave made me laugh by making a funny comment about the politicians running for president. also there was a flash of green light and i saw angel raphiel wrap his wings around me and saying “don’t be stressed, life is divine.” dave, who also believes in angels thought it was really cool and we both shared a laugh. dave is the most laid-back guy, i’ve met, even though he can get tense at times, he always manages to shake it off and still enjoy life with a smile on his face. his face is always red from laughing and his eyes are always bright with confidence. during december before christmas break, dave dressed in red and pretended he was santa claus and made the class laugh. the universe is amazing:D check out the lunar eclipse coming tomorrow:
http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/lunar-eclipse-coming-wednesday/ar-BBqJNy8?ocid=ansmsnnews11The universe always has so many great surprises:D
here are two more poems (i think the first one sounds better) and i’m still adding to the 2nd one:
Awake and Alive- Life’s a Dance
I hear a calling outside in the world
I feel in my soul
Forgetting all I’m lacking
I roll the die in my life
Taking the chances and outcomes I face
Don’t be afraid to take a risk and adventure out of what’s conventional in life
I walk a path of light and love
Nothing holds me back from dancing with the stars
Life’s a dance
You have to move at the music life throws at you
Sometimes you may dance with the moon on your face and the stars behind you
Other times you may dance alone in the rain
When the music of life gets rough, keep your rhythm and keep dancing
I dance with the music of nature
I surrender myself to the divine
I am awake and alive
The world will keep changing its tunes and sometimes it’s hard to keep up with the music
Sometimes you may feel lost and don’t know the song in life
You may find yourself falling, slipping on the dance floor
Everywhere you go coarse music plays bringing you down
How can you back to your original spark in life?
Remember, you control your life
When life gets tough, keep dancing even in the rain
There is a rainbow hidden behind the storm clouds
So live your life
Let yourself be free
Make yourself truly awake and alive
And keep on dancing
Keep taking chances
Go for your dreams
You have the opportunity of being awake and alive
Life is effortless
Enjoy the music and dance to your own beat
The world can’t tell you who you truly are
You have to drop the limitations put on you
You have to go out there and be free
Your adventure is calling
Dance to the music of life
Life is beautiful
when your heart gets heavy and the music doesn’t seem right
Change your attitude as you would change a record player
You are a spiritual being capable of great things
Dance to the beauty of life
Know that you can be awake and alive
know that every path you take, every music you dance to leads to home.
Discover Yourself- Live your dreams
It’s never too late to broaden your horizons
Take the reins in your life
It’s time to discover yourself
It’s time for you to light up the world
Don’t just get by in life or you won’t get far
The stars are out there waiting to be reached
It’s time to discover yourself
Follow your soul’s calling
Do what truly makes you happy
Trust the process of life
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