This incident could have happened to anyone and you’ve done nothing to feel guilty about. You were concerned about your good friend who’s been depressed and isolated. You called first but there was no answer. So you went over to check on him. Your intentions were good. And your left feeling bad after crude, hurtful, and inappropriate words are spewed at you. How’s that for irony!
Life isn’t fair. Sh*% happens.
Seems to me that this guy’s got problems that you shouldn’t be feeling guilty about. His needs and feelings are not more important than your own.
Anita and Brandy we spoke finally and worked things out. We mightve both been wrong to a extent but we are forgetting it and moving forward. he owned upto his comment being disrespectful and inappropriate and explained he said it out of being defensive that I saw how he looks. I suppose I need to also respect his feelings that he lost his privacy and knowing how he keeps his hair there is as personal as it gets. He understood my side and thanked me for coming to help him not knowing what happened but I gave his key back its just best that way. Thanks to you both for your help and advise. Im dealing better with this lockdown as well Ive started to learn how to cook besides ordering pizza!! lollol.
You are welcome. Good to read your positive update. Excellent communication and resolution with your friend. Good thing you gave him his key back. Hope you have fun cooking, and do post anytime you want to.