What she is feeling Is Tension And Inablity to ease her life and just enjoy be independent BECAUSE You are pinning all Your hopes on her . Noone likes a person who is too dependent on them for everything . Girls are like the waves in an ocean . They require emotional changes in the surroundings once in a while atleast But Your stoic and stiff one-dimensional goody -goody love is boring as hell and making her lose her nerves . Myabe she has already been in many relaionships And You are not her first boyfriend or even first crush – So she wants to maybe take it easy And doesnt feel instant attraction like You do . YOU KNOW GIRLS DO LIKE A GUY WHO CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES .

My Best advice is to take it slow , just involve with her only temporarily …. dont get over her head everytime …. And Hopefully , she will start to get comfortable With you Or You will maybe realise Slowly enough she might not be into you And you might get bored With her too And You will have the courage to break up if iT is necessary . IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR Emotions , MAN .

I’m not sure you read that article all the way to the end.

5. Change how you see the inevitability of loss.

The reality is loss is inevitable.

We will all lose relationships, situations, and states of being that we enjoy and love. Even if we practice non-attachment, on some level we will get comfortable with people and circumstances.

You could say that this is what makes life beautiful and meaningful—since nothing lasts forever, each moment presents unique possibilities worth fully appreciating and savoring.

Or you could say this is what makes life tragic—that everything is fleeting, and eventually it all slips away.

How we choose to see things dictates how we’ll experience them. Would you rather see everything as precious or pointless?

You know what the not-tiny Buddha would say to this, right?

It is your craving for this girl, your insistence that you must have her, and only she will do, and things have to be the way they were or you just can’t stand it, that’s making you miserable.

Maybe she’s just distant because she’s distracted, and she’ll come back to you. Maybe she’s just not that into you. There’s not much you can do, there’s no magic formula that you can follow and win the girl. Girls aren’t prizes. You want her, so make that clear, and be available to her. If she wants you too, it’ll work out. If not, it won’t.

Your work should be on letting go of your attachment to the outcome here, and work on loving her and you and everyone, however things turn out. Good luck, man.

A man in love is a beautiful thing and gives me hope that one day I will have someone feel that way about me. Maybe she will fall in love with you too. Hang in there! Sometimes persistence is the key.