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February 6, 2023 at 2:04 pm #415091
I really hope that you will not be “removed”! As far as I understood during the time I was reading your answers to people on this forum, you are a wonderful person who really cares of people, read their messages and your answers are always considerate, objective and aim to help. You are always patient and take everybody’s problem seriously. I’ve been always wondering how you do it!
Please have my whole support, in case it helps keep you on this forum.February 6, 2023 at 2:21 pm #415095AnonymousGuest
Thank you so much for your kind words. Your words, your post is probably the last one I will be responding to, and I am grateful for it. Thank you so much for your support!
anitaFebruary 11, 2023 at 3:16 pm #415234DebbieParticipant
Hi I don’t have an answer but only a share of similar issues. Throughout my life I have made friends and then lost them. Sometimes my own doing, out of what I now know as naivety and inexperience. But most have cut ties with me and for no reason I can think of!
Its so painful, I’m never sure what to do so I used to end up sending text messages just to try and get a response. So maybe I wonder if I’m giving out the wrong vibe and this is sending so called friends a signal to cut me off? Who knows as they never tell you.
Forgive me for saying this, but I’m so glad I’m not alone as I really thought I was the only one!February 13, 2023 at 2:38 pm #415360
You are forgiven 🙂 I think sometimes it helps a bit to know that we are not alone. Because, as far as i am concerned, I always look for some error on my side. Try to find out what I have done wrong etc. It’s such a shame when a friend disappear without communication. But in the end, it’s their solution to something…February 16, 2023 at 8:41 am #415462AnonymousInactive
Dear EvFran: I wanted to let you know that using an old account I submitted posts yesterday in the two threads with my name in the titles (identical posts in both threads so that members who may miss one of the threads can read what I wrote in the other). I explained what happened there. Thank you so much for your words in the thread Anita’s Choice To Leave The Forums. I cried for a long time when I read what you wrote there.
anitaFebruary 27, 2023 at 11:54 am #415887
Sorry for my late answer but I check in less since you left. And also, my mum is very I’ll, so I had to come to europe – from Asia – in emergency. I was standing at the airport in thongs and t-shirt in the middle of below 0 🙂 I haven’t been to Europe in winter since 10 years… So now I am taking care of mum and her brother who is also sick, has no family and cannot do anything at the moment.
I sincerely think that your work is essential here. Everybody is lovely and seems concerned but somehow, I always found your analysis fantastic. And additionally, as I mentioned, you never let anybody down, you always got back to the person as you promised. Which is, unfortunately, rare in life nowadays. People talk so much but rarely follow up. They even forget what they say 🙂
Nevertheless, you should do what you feel right. If you don’t get back, it’s fine. I am very happy that people like you exist.
<p style=”text-align: left;”>I have just read the comments in Anita’s Choice to Leave but I couldn’t find anything from you. Could you please tell me again where you submitted your posts on 15th? I would like to read. Many thanks.</p>