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  • July 16, 2016 at 2:29 am #109785
    Hopeful33
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    Thank you, Anita 🙂 I really appreciate the support. I will certainly post and update you on my journey as things get moving…

    July 16, 2016 at 2:33 am #109786
    Hopeful33
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    Gary R Smith,

    Thank you for posting such an uplifting, positive reply – and thank you for also sharing your story with me. It makes a lot sense.

    And I do believe you’re right – that it will be a positive step in my healing process. It’s something my dad also said to me – that he feels if I go back and ‘conquer’ this fear of mine, I’ll feel stronger than ever.

    I’m also at the stage in my healing where I see that my breakup really was for the best, and I think this will help me, too. I no longer miss my ex. During the breakup, he lacked respect and compassion for me, and I deserve way more than what I got. I therefore don’t care what he’s doing and where he is. I have zero intention of talking to him, too, so even if I did see him, I’d walk on by.

    I’m looking forward to sharing my journey with you all.

    Thanks again for the support.

    Hopeful

    July 16, 2016 at 8:21 am #109789
    Gary R. Smith
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    Dear Hopeful33,

    You are welcome. Helping another helps myself, as we are all connected – all one underneath, actually.

    Wonderful that you are at the stage of your healing where you see that the breakup really was for the best. Every single experience, however tragic or detrimental it may seem, can be beneficial and for the best, when we take it for learning and from it gain understanding. Then we all not only heal but evolve.

    You did not ask me for this, but since you have articulated with so much self-awareness I will risk over-stepping by commenting on your statement that “he lacked respect and compassion for me,…”

    You are right, you deserve the same respect and compassion that all persons and creatures deserve. As we are all one being, respecting others is also respecting ourselves. One of the lessons I’ve learned and will pass on to you is to let go of blaming or criticizing others. It only holds one back from self-growth. Let it go, be neutral or even compassionate towards those whose stage of development determines their behavior.

    I will enjoy to read how life unfolds for you. You can also write to me over the contact form on the Whole Human site.

    Gary

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