Good night, Dear Confused. Yes, you do have more time to give her.. more time to SAY..?

Back tomorrow.

I think it’s a good thing, Confused, I really do, that you put her in the “ex drawer”.

You feeling calm about it- that’s an indication that i’s the right thing for you to do!

Really, you have only visited her just that one time, in real-life, just that one 3-day visit.

3 days of a real-life visit is way less than a hundred’s portion of a year.

THREE DAYS of real-life contact in your TWENTY-FIVE years of life?

Let her go, let this one story end.

And may a new story begin?

Anita

(I will soon be gone for the night (8:12 pm, here). Back to you in the morning.

Anita

That emoji lol- too much to my liking.. an inappropriate little emoji, says I

How about not trying to understand it consciously, but instead, let the unconvinced speak, which means to type out whatever comes to mind from the child’s perspective, the child that you were, that is.

I’ll do it right now, talk about the fear in early childhood (which is what this is about):

Whatever comes to the mind of the child within me;

Mommy is CRAZY, H.E.L.P !!!

Make her okay because SHE IS NOT OKAY!!!

– This is all I got for now.

Anything like that for you?

🤍 Anita

Oh, I get it, you never got “this response”, meaning the loss of feelings.

Well, I figure you were anxious in all previous relationships, like you said,

But this time, you got MORE 😟 than before, so your feelings shut down.

More anxious because of the prospect of leaving your country, what you called your “comfort zone” so to be with this one woman.

Am I making sense 🤔 to you, Confused?

🤍 🤔 Anita

Infatuation on her part, you mean?

Dear Arden:

Using my phone, so all kinds of emojis show up as I type and I like 👍 them, so here I go:

So great to hear from you 🙌 again! It feels good just to know you are still around in this 🤪 world.

I never tried acupuncture, but glad 😊 you like it. I hope 🙏 your stomach issues resolve!

I am having a cold and a bladder infection that won’t go away, so, I will need to get antibiotics.

Otherwise, got my first 🐕 and because oh him and my carelessness, I poured liquid on my computer and rendered it useless, was quite 😡 about it.

I have use of a second computer only part of the day, and otherwise using my phone.

Anything more that you’d like to share, 🙏 do.

Again, so good 👍 reading from you, you made my day!

🤍 Anita