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January 21, 2026 at 5:50 pm in reply to: growing up – becoming adul / procrastination – in connection to childhood trauma #454401
anitaParticipantHow are you, Robi???
anitaParticipantI miss reading from you, me…?
January 21, 2026 at 5:46 pm in reply to: The phenomenon of “helping someone excessively can make them turn against you” #454399anitaParticipantI wish I could read more from you, about the marriage you didn’t mention in your last update..???
anitaParticipantI would very much like to read from you again, Ana..?
anitaParticipantBogart and I are thinking about you, Nichole.. well, at least I am. How are you???
anitaParticipantHow are you, Bea???
anitaParticipantHow are you Renn, and how is your friend?
anitaParticipantHow are you,Kane. I would like to read more about the progress you’ve been making, quite impressive given 👏 your young age.
anitaParticipantThinking about you, Miss L Dutchess, 2 months and 2 days since you posted last.
anitaParticipantThinking of you, Laven.
anitaParticipantHey Confused:
First, I’m glad you had a therapy session today. Second, what you realized and what she said today make sense to me.
It’s a shame when we interpret love as Pressure and Responsibility (P&R) instead of as calm and being carefree.
I think it’s about how love was introduced to us as children: something to earn or something freely given because we’re just, well, unquestionably lovable 🙂
“Also, she told me that to her it seems like I have feelings from a ‘distance’ and when the other person comes too close, I don’t feel them.”- hmm. This is what I expressed to you.
Because too close means P&R?
🤍 Anita
anitaParticipantIt just occurred to me, Confused, that not knowing what AA or taproom mean, you may not be familiar with the.. alcohol culture, which is a very good 👍 thing because of the so very many deaths and injuries due to alcohol ²intoxication (traffic accidents, falls, etc.).
So, of course, I will never recommend drinking alcohol.
Another thing that occurred to me this morning 🌄 is that consulting AI, the way to support a person who is Confused and Overthinking, Ruminating- is NOT by analyzing the person, asI have done, triggering even more (paralyzing) overthinking, but to simply be a Consistent and Calm support source who will validate your feelings and offer you a safe, no-pressure space to express yourself- to offer you a space where you don’t have to think or feel any particular way, a place where how you think and feel is acceptable and valid.
A place where you feel no pressure to take any action. To just be where you’re at.
🤍 👌 Anita
anitaParticipantHey Confused:
Local taproom is where people come together for company and alcohol, alcohol not being heavy duty alcohol drinks like whiskey, vodka and whatnot, but relatively low alcohol drinks: beer, cider and wine (I drink red wine).
“Chaotic house”, you wrote in regard the house where you grew up- that’s where Confusion can be replaced with Clarity as you look back and .. Well, the answers are there, in looking back and understanding now what we didn’t understand back then.
🤍🌙 Anita
anitaParticipantHey Confused:
I think I’m about to leave to the local taproom (AA by the way, stands for Alcoholics Anonymous). I am sorry you feel depressed, depleted and empty. I ask you questions when I do, and I try to understand because whenever I understood myself better, the reasons behind my behaviors.. whenever I undid my own confusion here and there, I felt better.
By the way, I wanted to ask you: you mentioned that you are disorganized attached. What caused this attachment for you?
(If I’m out, I’ll be back in a few hours).
🤍 Anita
anitaParticipantHello Q:
So good to read from you 🙂 Thank you for your wishes for me 🙏. I am looking forward to reading about the things that transpired when you get the chance to write 🙂
🤍 Anita
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