If by “yes and how do we change that?”, you are referring to love being freely given (just because you are lovable) vs love having to be earned, love conditional on your performance (educational achievements, material success, whatever 💙)-

Well, I’ll ask first, is this your question?

🤍 Anita

Dear SereneWolf:

I’ve been reading every one of your posts over time, and I am so very curious as to how you’re doing, and feeling.. these very days???

I would so much like to read from you again, Zenith.. Hope you’re okay 👍

How are you, Robi???

I wish I could read more from you, about the marriage you didn’t mention in your last update..???

Bogart and I are thinking about you, Nichole.. well, at least I am. How are you???

How are you Renn, and how is your friend?

Thinking about you, Miss L Dutchess, 2 months and 2 days since you posted last.