Dear Victoria B

I have a question to ask you and you yourself,  is what caused your anxiety and depression?  Was it that your all your parents divorce ? Or a multitude of other happeings in life as well.  Moving to a far off place may not be the answer if you have not dealt with the depression and anxiety.  Being in a new surrounding can also cause anxiety as well. I will tell you even though you are part of the family,  you are not apart of the marriage,  so your parents divorce is there choice to make.  And it says and hard for you to deal with,  running away is not the answer for you if that is why you want to move away. I guess what I’m trying to say is for you to be in a better mind set before going to a new place . Take care in your choices

The trust is not broken,  it’s gone , that the she swallowed pills says she is controlling you. “If I cant have you then I will harm myself ” . How do you plan on having a relationship with no trust , she broke it , sure you had good times its why you were together for a period of time. But did she remember the good times when she cheated ?  Sometimes you got to cut your losses and go . And on anther note the fact she tried hurting her self because you are leaving,  that’s also abuse

I can relate to how you feel at times when I was younger man a woman’snumber was important,  but now that I’m older it means nothing,  I have come to realize that it doesn’t matter if she’s was one before me or a thousand lovers before me , it’s what is in her heart . If she loves you dearly then focus on tat and feed those thoughts of her loving you ,that is what is important.  Focus on her love for you when you feel the negative thoughts creeping in your head . Be a man of wisdom and heart the guys that speak of her in poor taste , are guys if poor taste , and she chose you of any man in the world she could have , and that is something more valuable then gold it’s self is her love for you .

  It’s not about money but how happy you are in your career.  The best currency is what you can offer other people, to help others. I heard that and now have learned that ,because I realize that my best times in life was when I struggle more just trying to get by. So I suggest to think and look for what would make you happy and more full filled in life . You came out of a hurtful relationship and you are doing right by focusing on yourself and have new goals.  You are not dumb for being in the situation you are in , you made choices from the heart and it didn’t work out for what you had hoped.  So set the past in the past and move forward with your future,  which ever path you choose.

Hello

It is not wrong speaking as a Christian I find Buddhism easier to understand and more enlightened than the bible. To me Christianity is biased and conflicting as to morals and what is right . However in your situation you are under your parents house and rules so you might want to keep Buddhist teaching more to yourself because you know how your parents feel about it.

Hello

I can relate to what you feel towards your parents . My parents were never the best communicators,  or giving sound advice. You may even find friends that way,  follow your dreams and never give up is the sound advice I can give you . You may lack their support but not their love for you. Remember this is your dream to go into medicine noto their dream,  so work hard and make that dream a reality,  it’s your goal , and always remember why you wanted to follow this path in life . I wish you the best on your quest , people may put you down,  grades may not be what you like at times , but remain focus , it is your dream,  so make the best of every situation and keep on going.

There are all kinds of abuse and what you are dealing with is emotional abuse , check with women shelters in your area as well as calling the abuse hothe line and see if there is anything they can do . The best thing you can do is write down in a journal all that is said to you by him and how it makes you feel, time dates everything. You will need this if you have to go to court. In order to leave him you need all the backing you can get. If anything you will have it as a reminder. Good luck