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  • September 17, 2019 at 8:52 am #312757
    SteveRodger
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    Just leave it be and don’t bothered to sow myself into it. Dont make any effort in trying to rescue the friendship?

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    September 16, 2019 at 11:54 am #312595
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    Elaborate in detail. The friendship is very rocky at the moment

    September 16, 2019 at 11:53 am #312593
    SteveRodger
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    Haven’t been talking to my friend. Previously we had some issue.

    She treat me very coldly and we hardly talk

    September 7, 2019 at 8:11 pm #310795
    SteveRodger
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    Hello Anita

    I am seeing a therapist, whatever diagnosis you made doesn’t make sense. It is totally off from what my therapist deduced or even diagnose it to be.

    Unless you are a therapist or a professional, I suggest you do not make assumption just because you deem it to be thanks.

    People seek help or just want a listening ear that’s why people comes to this platform to vent out, not for you to judge or even determine whether a person is sick

    August 11, 2019 at 12:39 am #307535
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    Dear Valora

    The trip is next month and she is the one that initiated the trip first.

    I have asked her so many times whether the trip is on and she said yes. She has so many chances to decline the trip and she isn’t the type that will afraid to say no. Yes, it is possible that she doesn’t want to go on the trip but what are the chances since I have even prompt it up to her to cancel the trip which she decline and wants to proceed with the trip.

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    August 11, 2019 at 12:38 am #307533
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    Dear Peggy

    Does it mean that I have feelings for her that exceeded being friends?

    I like this friendship that I have with her. Is it normal to feel sour or perhaps bitter about it?

    So I can be friends with her and continue supporting her?

    August 10, 2019 at 12:17 pm #307469
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    Dear Valora

    I agree. I feel that I am pushing too hard when I should let it loose a little. Perhaps just be myself and relax over it.

    But it is still an advice, she can choose to proceed but it might hurt herself. Friends help each other and give advice to each other

    August 10, 2019 at 12:10 pm #307465
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    Dear Valora

    She has a choice and I offered her a choice of whether she wants to go or not. If she doesn’t want to go, she would have said no.

    Why will she put herself in a difficult situation if she doesnt want to go and it will be wasting her own time?

    I am trying not to judge her in a way that it will reflect negatively about her. Thus it will lead me to overthink about it.

    I believe if she doesn’t want to go, she will have said no.

    August 10, 2019 at 11:24 am #307459
    SteveRodger
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    Dear Anita

    Any advice or suggestion particular to this thread?

    August 10, 2019 at 11:22 am #307457
    SteveRodger
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    Dear Anita

    Any advice or suggestion in handling the situation particular to this thread?

    August 10, 2019 at 11:05 am #307451
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    Dear Anita

    Is it possible to summaries up? Is it the same as what I reply on the other threads? The study of human behaviours and understanding of emotions?

    But different humans tend to express themselves differently.

    August 10, 2019 at 11:01 am #307447
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    Dear Anita

    It is confusing but does it mean to understand more of human emotions and behaviour In handling of such situations?

    August 10, 2019 at 10:21 am #307439
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    Dear Valora

    i asked her about the trip and she said it is still on and I even asked her if the person she is seeing is ok with us proceeding with the trip which she says yes.

    August 10, 2019 at 10:20 am #307437
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    Dear Valora

    Could it be that I am not getting used to her new lifestyle?

    She mention that it is her circle of friends that she is seeing someone. But I did told her to move on before proceeding on, I feel that she is rushing herself from being single.

    August 10, 2019 at 9:00 am #307423
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    Dear Inky

    Nope. I hang around her and be close with her because we are very good friends. Hopefully she doesn’t have the thought that I always text and chat with her is because I have feelings for her. She did imitate chats with me before.

    she knows how I feel. But I told her that having a crush on her is wrong because I like this friendship.

    Actually we have been doing that for about more than half a year and it tends to become very dry. Maybe stopping once in a while allows refreshing period between us.

    I have no idea. But I did told her to move on from her previous relationship before committing into a new one.

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