I have been in a situation similar to this where I met a new amazing guy but was stuck up on someone I used to love. I didn’t really get over the old guy until the new guy found out and threatened to leave. How would your new girlfriend feel if she saw that you still had feelings for your ex? She is the one who is with you, she is the one who is there. Your ex has new boyfriends and isn’t there. Your ex isn’t worth any of your attention, believe me. You say you want to get old with her and she is a good loyal girl, cherish her. She is the one who is there. I guess it is natural to still have feelings for past lovers but please do not let it get in the way of your new relationship and your happiness. I don’t know if there is any specific thing you can do to get over your ex, maybe block her, but for now all I can tell you is to take my words of advice. Also, your english is very good.

I have never struggled with this before so it’s hard to give advice but in my opinion he should be more understanding. Sometimes we need people to be there for us unconditionally, no matter what. Obviously it was wrong and horrible for your own health to do that, but the important thing is that you are trying. I don’t know maybe I am wrong. I think you did do the right thing in telling him, there is nothing more refreshing than honesty. And the fact that you were honest shows you are trying to change and be clean.

Yeah I agree with the other answer on this post. This reminds me of my current boyfriend. He used to get mad at me all the time over things that never made sense. He’d say “why don’t you ever post me on social media” and then when I would, he would get mad and make me delete it. It doesn’t feel good to be tossed around by your significant other. You know he still loves you so why do you continue to take him for granted? You obviously know what you are doing wrong. I make mistakes like this too. When I am super angry, I always end up saying something wrong to my boyfriend. I say mean things but one time I said something extremely extremely mean… and so he broke up with me rightfully. After we got back,I learned my lesson and never said it again. Sometimes you need to realize your partner is there because you love him and he loves you. He isn’t there because he loves you and you take your anger out on him. It’s just a simple truth that if you want to be with him, you can’t make these mistakes. You know what you’re doing, you need to catch yourself in the act and stop yourself.