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PearceHawkParticipantKatie that vision of yours gave me goose bumps in a real good way. GAWD Katie I LOVE it. Very creative. I often times find myself using the river for a vision as well. I imagine resting so peacefully on a big leaf, like a huge elm leaf. Eventually the big leaf very gently sways, sort of falls in a gentle rocking movement into the river. Then I travel down this slow, lazy river listening to the sounds of the woods, the wind in the trees, the birds, etc. In my river journey it eventually leads to the ocean where I am free to travel anywhere. The last time I did that, the leaf carried me to a beach on the ocean where I found my ancient Balloon I call My Life. Eventually I was gone, gone, gone. Loved it.
Thank you so much for that visual. I’m glad I came here and found your way too kind post because in a minute I’m going to walk the the forrest primeval and go to my Balloon 🙂
Discover your balloon Katie. Make it any way you wish. Make it special. And just…..go.
Wishing you much love, peace, and happiness
PearceHawkParticipantColby spiritual awakening is many things and I think that in a neat and clean environment such as yours allows for more opportunity to think more clearly and become more spiritually connected with yourself and whomever you worship. I have been on a journey that has lasted years and I hope it last a lifetime because with each and every moment I spend meditating I get benefits that I had no idea were coming-all good of course. Just as your soul is your temple so too is your home. When I have not been attentive to keeping my place clean, for example 3 days I feel ‘not right’ inside, sort of toxic. The same thing is true with my soul. When I start to complain to myself about waiting in line at the store, or something else like that, my soul feels gray, sort of muddy.
But I hope that you keep learning about that, I hope your journey is a lifetime, and that you are at peace.
Pearce
PearceHawkParticipantMina,
Inky has some very clear and solid points sleazy to understand. I hope that Inky’s words give you strength.
The friend reminds me of the villain hiding in the shadows waiting to find it’s victim vulnerable, and one of the consequences of breaking up is feeling vulnerable. You have said what you need, support. He may be trying to present himself in such a way that makes him look like the knight rescuing the damsel in distress. He knows you need support and to him this is his answer. His effort sound a little imposing, not to mention disrespectful. You said, “I appreciate him as a friend and I do not want to lose this friendship…”. Herein lies a test for him. If you haven’t done so already, tell him that you appreciate his “support” but you are going to define and maintain the space that you need. I wouldn’t say something like ‘I need my space’ or ‘I want my space.’ NEVER EVER ask for that permission. But in so many words tell him your space needed to think things over is private. Tell him thank you for being there for you and if you need his advice you will call on him. If he insists on pushing for the relationship that he wants and you don’t need, then his “friendship” takes on a whole new meaning. If, on the other hand, he respects what you are going to have, them his friendship will have greater meaning.
Wishing you love, peace, and happiness.
Pearce
PearceHawkParticipantMatt,
I too Agree with Anita’s most recent response. The entire post, and previous ones of this nature are very incoherent to me. In it’s current form the syntax, for me anyway, is not coherent enough for me to Make any sense of it. I think that if I was to respond to your post the possibility of misunderstanding what it is your asking is too great. When talking with someone I prefer to be on the same side of the same page.
Pearce
July 29, 2017 at 2:11 pm in reply to: Something Strange is Unfolding Upon Earth (FAO 'Lightworkers') #160982PearceHawkParticipantTannehauser,
Goodbye. Best of luck in your travels.
Pearce
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PearceHawkParticipantWhen I am at the beach, specifically in the ocean, even watching a sunset, all is good. Living s close to the beach, how can I not go?
PearceHawkParticipantAnita..it is true..Life Is Good
PearceHawkParticipantAnita,
Update…hot off the press. WE INTERRUPT TINY BUDDHA TO BRING YOU THIS IS BREAKING NEWS… I called my buddy, Ian. He picked up the phone and said “hello.” I said “Ian, it’s Pearce.” The first things out of his mouth were, “Pearce I broke up with her and I feel so happy!” I felt like saying, “Thank Anita.” but I didn’t 🙂
He said he should have done it a long time ago but didn’t know why he didn’t. I offered to into just keep looking forward, that is where you see good things coming. It was hard for me to watch my buddy of many years put up with that. But I couldn’t say anything until now. Thank you for your help Anita. Much gratitude to you as always.
Pearce
PearceHawkParticipantHis Shadow,
Just a few questions to ask yourself…Do you really like who you have become? Do you like the effect of your anger has on him? Do you think that by remaining this way will make you or anyone for that matter, happy? Is this behavior going to be a positive contribution to a happy marriage? Do you really want to fix you? Can you? In the event he leaves you because of how he is affected by your behavior, are you willing to accept those results or will your anger continue to grow and carry on to the next relationship? You said, ” i’m starting to be like him, miserable and not smiling or laughing (together of course) and i’m all lost of hope, ideas, ways to deal with it.” Do you understand why this is happening? Shadow if you want a healthier long lasting relationship with this person, you must answer these questions and answer them truthfully. It has been said that the person we are destined to become is the person we decide to be. This is not just some fancy philosophical saying to put on a bumpersticker. It is very true.
Take the time to do some serious soul searching and make the necessary changes-if you choose to do so. You will find a very kind loving person buried deep under all those things that are just trash that needs to be thrown out.
Pearce
July 29, 2017 at 7:29 am in reply to: Something Strange is Unfolding Upon Earth (FAO 'Lightworkers') #160908PearceHawkParticipantTannehauser
If there is ignorance among us as you claim, perhaps you can use that perceived ignorance to offer a positive alternative in seeing things. Any one of us would more than welcome that. If you believe that our intention here is to get involved in “spiritual play-acting” as you call it, perhaps you can offer an objective, honest interpretation of what is going on here rather than misconstrue it as a person attack on you, which by the way it is not. What is offered here at Tiny Buddha, is neither a play nor acting. Your reaching out to the selfless members has always been welcomed here. Your reaching out to these very members here have offered kind words with hope and love, only because they have opened their heart and soul to you as they always have, without prejudice.
Tiny Buddha will continue to open their hearts and souls to anyone asking for advice. Some of those asking for help will adopt it in such a way that will help them in loving ways. Some will put some of that advice on hold to think about the meaning and how it can be useful to whatever is creating an unbalance in their life. Others may take portions of all advice given and use each piece as a puzzle that will solve whatever disturbs them. Others may outright reject some of the advice, and will do so graciously without the hostility that you are so prepared to resort to. You certainly have the choice to use hostile reactions. However, those types reactions are not only your free choice to make toward those trying their best to understand you and help you, they are also a clear picture of who you are inside yourself. The amount of anger and pain inside you has got to be consuming something so very kind in you, yet feeding those monsters will only make them grow and isolate you.
The troubles you continue to suffer are well beyond the scope of what we, the members of Tiny Buddha, can offer. There is no reason for me to believe that you are not aware of the myriad of professional help available to you. I do think that professional help is something you fear because it CAN help liberate you from what is consuming you in such a painful way. It is easy to remain attached to the familiar. But when change can liberate someone from the very pathology you have suffered for so long, that change can become foreign to you, perhaps scary. If you believe that there is no need for you to change, then be prepared to know that you cannot learn. It is with great hope that you realize that you are stronger than you now and face your demons and let the better person overcome those demons.
Best of luck
Pearce Hawk
PearceHawkParticipantAnita thank you for your advice. After searching every corner of my mind to find something helpful for my long time friend, I am going to offer your advice. Her her my-way-or-the-highway way of “managing”their relationship has gotten worse not only trough the years, but just about on a every 3 month basis. I recalled, very recently, telling him that her personality is dominated by a controlling, manipulative behavior. It wasn’t this way in the beginning, at least that anyone could see. Perhaps it was some demon that had been caged waiting to be released. She has gone so far as to tell him to see his friends, myself included, when it is convenient for her, such as a day of shopping. I shall talk with him today and hopefully light that candle in that dark room of which he lives. I’ll let you know what happens. If you wish to know.
Enjoy a day of happiness
Pearce
PearceHawkParticipantAnita yesterday’s visual journey was one that was out of this world, pun intended. I recall one time asking you about being mindful. With yesterday’s journey all I can say is WOW! I used the mist in the field to walk through the clover covered field with the mist being something that harmlessly obscured the things in my life that I needed to see, strangely enough that mist was sort of a harmless blanket, when suddenly there was my balloon called My Life as you may recall the name I gave it. When the balloon, My Life, was well on it’s way, OMG Anita the freedom was nothing like I had felt before. Anita I must tell you that there was a point in my calm breathing that I remember asking myself when was the last breath I took. But it did not matter, my body took care of me. It just keeps getting better.
Today I am going to my beach just a few short blocks away and lay in the sun. As usual there will be a small pod of Dolphins which are always useful in starting my journey. They are always inviting to join them, gently gliding through the water. I’m going to meditate and use the gentle sound of the waves as a blanket that each time they gently come to shore and wash away with that slow gentle woooooooosh sound, it’s going gently wash away all obstacles, whatever they may be, from my life. The warm sun is going to come from the heavens and connect with my 3rd eye, and remain connected as though I am a part of that warm beam of light, and travel throughout my entire body healing any troubles I may have.
Enough of my babbling. It was just meant to be a long thank you to you and Katie. As my journey begins, I’ll see you both there:)
Pearce
July 28, 2017 at 2:49 pm in reply to: Something Strange is Unfolding Upon Earth (FAO 'Lightworkers') #160828PearceHawkParticipantTannehauser,
I seriously doubt that the people offering advice here on Tiny Buddha have all the answers. What they do have is a heart and soul of which they continue to share with others in a kind, loving way. Almost all who ave embraced this are either helped in such a way that they thought was not possible, or, they are finding the support they are asking for and the strength to embrace that. I have read many of your posts and have searched my soul very deeply with the hope of giving you answers, many times of which they are rejected. That is your right and I was in no way offended. I can assure you that your f**k you has absolutely no value here. It is only a reflection of you and your inner self, something that I hope you take responsibility for.
Wishing you the very best,
Pearce
PearceHawkParticipantKatie, Anita, Nadi
Thank you for the kind words. For me it is a powerful vision to say the least. I don’t look at it as a place to escape to, I look at it as a place to go to. Another one I use works well for me and is not as detailed. I envision walking through a field covered with mist. The mist is symbolic because it represents something blocking my vision where I want to go.So I isolate a portion of the mist and make it a cloud. The cloud then rises higher and higher where things become more lear to me. That could takes me where I want to go and the it lands it lands in the same field but it is without the mist.
Sometimes I visualize me at the bottom of the ocean, again symbolic in some way, and I see tiny bubbles rising to the top. I hitch a ride on these bubbles elevating myself above what is holding me down. But the walkthrough the forrest and the hotter balloon is my fav. Use it as you wish, in your own vision. I listen to some music by a friend of mine, Chuck Wild when I visualize this. He puts outcome hypnotic music that will take you far away and is under the label Liquid Mind.
I’m glad you all like it. Later today I’m hitching a ride in my hot air balloon and going who knows where. Can’t wait.
Pearce
PearceHawkParticipantMiracle,
Happy Belated 29th! It’s all good my friend. Ya know when I was born I saw complete strangers that I never saw before. There were talking some silly stuff that I didn’t understand. Then when I turned 2 I sort of freaked out because I realized that my age had doubled. I thought that at that rate by the time I was 7 I’d be 64. Sheesh. When I turned 3 my grandmother gave me a walkie talkie. She said that if I promised to be good she’s give me the other one when I was 5. YIKES!
Anyway my friend…29 was weird to me as well but not terrible. In a way I was kind of glad my 20’s ended. 30 one thing that happened that I kind of didn’t expect to happen. My metabolism shut down. Seriously. So I had to join the healthy eater club, which didn’t always pan out.
Close that chapter called The 20’s of My Life and write an even more exciting chapter called Ready Or Not Here Come The30’s. It’s exciting my friend.
Again, Happy Belated Birthday
Pearce
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