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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293709
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita ,

    Thanks , dear mom,  my best friend !! !!

    You will  always  be my best friend up to next generation. If people meet on the other side of the earth , then you will be there for me to support me,  encourage , empower me and guide me about the inbound (incoming problems ) that my wife may be planning with her devil mother.

    You totally stood with me in this dark time of mine

    .  I always question myself what I could do to a person like Anita ???  I love your hospitality.  You are so precious Anita.

    Back to your ⁉️ YES,  she knows that my son Agoth , is in Kenya,  but she doesn’t know where the boy is!!! ! And however , she has never step in , into Kenya soil.

    So she is just lying to herself , that she will go where the baby is !

    So worry less Anita,  I know I will control my son from these hopeless people who failed for their betterment of their lives.

    They are totally confused.

    Thanks Anita .

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293621
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    With the help God,  I will take care of  him more than anything.  He is the only thing in my mind now.  God,  love people who love themselves.

    I want to show him the love that he really  needs on earth.  Her mother , tells hers friends that I do mistreated her and then she decided to go to their home.  She said she will look for the baby where he is! !

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293593
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the quick reply.

    My son Agoth,  will started his baby class next year. To distance this boy from her mother , than he will be a good person in future .

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293373
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Yeah its true.  I don’t what she will  use again . And another thing,  I don’t thing whether  I will marriage again  Anita,  my heart is out from ladies . I think my only Son Agoth,  is enough for me.  I will only focus how to educate him and myself , so that we fly together as a father and a son.

    That is my first priority that I am targeting now.  Marriage has a lots of consequences and disgusting , as well as disadvantages , and disappointment.  Where on earth , you dated a girl for quite number of decades and unfortunately become a bimbos at the end .

    Imy fear is only one thing,  some may same I am a failure if i don’t marry again , but I am not.  Agoth,  is enough for me now  Anita , I have a lots of things to do with my Son.

    I owe you for more explanations if you want to ask anything , I will be there to respond to you.

    Gregory .

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293349
    Thondit
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    Another News; is that.  The Governor of Jubek state , Mr.  Augustino  Jadalla,  declared and banned all the night clubs and hotels to stop those young girls and single mothers who are practicing prostitution in hotels.

    He warned and each every hotels has 3 security personnel to see those who will come with girls or women.  He says if any couples come to the hotels let them presented the marriage certificate.

    Without marriage certificate then they must both go to jail.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293345
    Thondit
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    Thanks Anita,

    For the quick response and understanding.

    So my son has to be there in Kenya and I will be there for him to support him as a good father . I love my son , he is my everything and my amazing one and perhaps , he is the only oil of my heart.

    He will one day do for me the best thing as the father. And I do believe that he will not be like mother and grandmother. 150 cows will not be a lose when I seen my son Agoth.

    Ayong,  came on Thursday of last week near by market just moving and she found one of the guy who is staying with me , telling that man ; u see me I am growing fat.  And when I arrive in the evening from work  , he told that your wife came here during the day time.

    I couldn’t bother to respond any of questions .

    She is totally expired kalas. She will soon be rejected by those players.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293303
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    How are you doing ?

    Ever since we were having misunderstanding between me and my estrange wife plus my mother in-laws , and on top of that they were also refusing to give me my son neither to go and visit him with them.  They *could * tell me,  we don’t want you to see you stepping into into our fenced.  While they have my son. Whenever I try to insist and get in by myself without their permission,  they  immediately grabbed my son when he is playing inside the fence and go inside the house ,to hide my son from me.

    I tried my best to respect them and give them a time for about 7 months without going to see my boy nor call them over the phone.

    I t came into my mind that if I leave my son for them to raise him up they will soon brain wash him and later on , be will have issue with me.

    My mother in-laws was the one rejecting me to see my son and she is letting her daughter go out to go look for the money in the hotels with those men who have money.  Later on she come and give her mother money.  On top of that , they brag a lots , my mother in-laws has her mother in Canada and she is the one sending them money .

    My father in-laws is the richest man and he has declared that I don’t want this woman who I had married some years ago and now when her daughter is being married by the young Pilot , they decided to spoil everything.  Now he has spent 3 years without stepping into the house where they are!

    He has also refused to support them.

    He was the very best friend of mine who decided to give me my son.

    Where I live here has no any relatives and my mother passed away 6 years ago when I was finishing my High school in Uganda.

    So no body I can give to my son and take cares of him while I go for work. So that was the reason I took him to Kenya.

    Once again if I let my son stay with me , her mother will steal him when I am at work.

    Thank you for the nice question Anita..

    Greg

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293241
    Thondit
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    Hey Anita, 

    My son is doing great now!  I am really taking cares of him most often , when the young who is staying with him hello me on phone and asked me how I am doing; I just ask her straight if the money is over let me know. If there is any problem let me know as well.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293141
    Thondit
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    I mean my mother in-laws with her daughter (my estrange wife), ,, they just give juice only.  Until my son becomes addicted with juice.

    What could be the good  diet for a such baby ?

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293083
    Thondit
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    Hello Anita,

    Thanks once again.  Reading your message its give me the momentum to deal with  the situation.

    Hey Anita , wow what amazing words,  yes I don’t bother to asked her where she is!  Nor texting her.  I had completely switched my mind off . My son is staying with the daughter of my uncle , the brother to my own father.

    I do communicate with him every day and he is asking me Baba,  when are you coming to see me!. ? I promise to buy for him a bicycle when I come to Kenya.

    These people where not feeding my son well,  they just give juice all the time,  he even when he wake up at night he could ask Juice.

    Now he is enjoying life in Kenya.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293071
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thank so much , God is in control and he had seen my struggles for so long.  Besides my ears are deaf now from those people who back bite me , concerning my wife.  She is also abusing me somewhere from other people.  She is absolutely talking negatively on me , that I am the one who was the cause of our misunderstanding of our marriage.

    How did I went wrong here Anita , based on how you had seen the scenario of the story.

    Ati,  they where walking together with her mother and they found one of my mine friend from his work place and he is a Ugandan ??  , telling my friend,  her father and they  whole relatives hated them and they are being chuck to be visited cause of me.  A friend of mine (Ntge)  call me this evening and told me their conversation. However , she is saying if I want her back then I should  return her son Chris Agoth Gregory , from Nairobi – Kenya and give her and we sit down and sort out the case.

    My answer was/is I will not be fooled to be bring my son back to such people whose their heart is hard and closed.

    Anita,  your help is needed Again on this Agenda.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293073
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank so much , God is in control and he had seen my struggles for so long.  Besides my ears are deaf now from those people who back bite me , concerning my wife.  She is also abusing me somewhere from other people.  She is absolutely talking negatively on me , that I am the one who was the cause of our misunderstanding of our marriage.

    How did I went wrong here Anita , based on how you had seen the scenario of the story.

    Ati,  they where walking together with her mother and they found one of my mine friend from his work place and he is a Ugandan ??  , telling my friend,  her father and they  whole relatives hated them and they are being chuck to be visited cause of me.  A friend of mine (Ntge)  call me this evening and told me their conversation. However , she is saying if I want her back then I should  return her son Chris Agoth Gregory , from Nairobi – Kenya and give her and we sit down and sort out the case.

    My answer was/is I will not be fooled to be bring my son back to such people whose their heart is hard and closed.

    Anita,  your help is needed Again on this Agenda.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292937
    Thondit
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    The good news is , I have got scholarship with our government of south  Sudan,  Civil Aviation, ,,,, I am leaving in a month of July for  my CPL (Commercial Pilot License)  to go n complete it.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292935
    Thondit
    Participant

    I mean economic crisis in our country . Yes according to your question above,  I wanted her to be my future but things fall apart so she has to let her go to where her heart is! Beautiful girls are problematic,  I approve now.  Our English teacher used to tell us such a story and I have now seen it without being told to!

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292927
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Jay Jay!

    Thanks for your amazing advice Sir! !! This woman my first choice in my life  and posterior to that we both felt in love completely.

    Disappointment came in after  we had married . Also we had the economic in our country South Sudan – Juba,  its making all you ladies to ran away from their own respective husbands, ,, , and to hotels with those who are having money . Thanks my dear.  My mind is almost resettling now and focus for my beloved son Chris Agoth Gregory.

    My worries is one thing,  if he becomes like her mother the time he becomes a man, ,,, and decides to leave my shoes….. And follow her mother ‘s shoes.

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