@dreamer

Dump your email account. You could set him to spam, but you might still be tempted to read it. Change your account. Its a pain but necessary. Change your phone number. If he wont go away thats a form of stalking, put as much distance between him as you can.

This next part is gonna be harsh….

Screw him!!! His problems arent yours. He took that right away from you. I went throught something like this with my ex, not to the degree you are but she contacted me about something and wanted me to cheer her up like the old days. I told her to F off and so should you. If its real I feel for him as a human being but it has nothing to do with you. Its nothing for you to think about let alone worry about.

Dont let this get to you, think about my suggestions and do whats right for you. Stay strong and keep your head up. You’ve been doing to well to revert back.

Silence is an evil person. Learning to tolerate it being there is ruff. I’ve been going through it for 8 years without a real answer. People tell me one day at a time, but what about 1 minute at a time because it’s those minutes that get ya. Don’t try to stay busy it’s worthless. I sit in my living with nothing but silence just to mess with myself. See how long I can stand it. Not the most sane thing I’ll admit, but it’s my way of messing with my head.

Sounds like a head case. That’s the thing with online dating, I’ve tried it and have friends that have to, it’s a crap shoot. You’d have better odds picking the next six super bowl winners. Being a guy and if it was me, I’d say he has someone, might even be married which would explain the one respond a day. He could be using you as a fall back for when he and his current lady are having issues. I’ve done it back in my younger days. I had a couple girls that I kept around for when my serious girl would separate and I needed a pick me up. It’s wrong but that’s what it sounds like.