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August 12, 2014 at 6:58 pm #63238
Dump your email account. You could set him to spam, but you might still be tempted to read it. Change your account. Its a pain but necessary. Change your phone number. If he wont go away thats a form of stalking, put as much distance between him as you can.
This next part is gonna be harsh….
Screw him!!! His problems arent yours. He took that right away from you. I went throught something like this with my ex, not to the degree you are but she contacted me about something and wanted me to cheer her up like the old days. I told her to F off and so should you. If its real I feel for him as a human being but it has nothing to do with you. Its nothing for you to think about let alone worry about.
Dont let this get to you, think about my suggestions and do whats right for you. Stay strong and keep your head up. You’ve been doing to well to revert back.July 26, 2014 at 11:29 pm #61847
You like the stability and family environment of shane, but the teenager fun that pete brings is also fun. The real question is do you wanna grow up? Unfortunately you can’t have both. I ran into the same problem with my ex. She didnt wanna grow up and I was done being a teenager. Good luck with your decision, neither one is wrong as long as its what you want.July 25, 2014 at 12:08 am #61722
Looking back over the past 10 years, doing all my psycho analyzing, I’m not sure I was happy. I mean I thought I was, but I see old home movies and pictures, and it makes me second guess the whole relationship. Maybe that’s part of it, maybe that’s me trying to lie to myself that it wasn’t as major as I think it was based on how easy she moved on from me. I mean how in the hell do you just wake up on day and decide to throw the previous 10 years out the window?July 24, 2014 at 11:52 pm #61718
Find a new trainer. Maybe a woman would help. Besides, a gym is just another meat market. It’s like trying to find a meaningful relationship in a bar at 1:30am. There are better, non game playing guys out there who will notice you for the beautiful person you are, not how you look when doing squats.July 24, 2014 at 11:45 pm #61717
Silence is an evil person. Learning to tolerate it being there is ruff. I’ve been going through it for 8 years without a real answer. People tell me one day at a time, but what about 1 minute at a time because it’s those minutes that get ya. Don’t try to stay busy it’s worthless. I sit in my living with nothing but silence just to mess with myself. See how long I can stand it. Not the most sane thing I’ll admit, but it’s my way of messing with my head.July 24, 2014 at 11:32 pm #61713
Hell no! If he really meet someone and after only 2.5 months is marrying her, I feel sorry for her and no doubt she’ll be on here when there break up occurs. You did the right thing. You have to move on and find someone that appreciates you for you and isn’t gonna play games. Love isn’t a one way street, everything can’t be one persons fault.July 24, 2014 at 11:15 pm #61710
Sounds like a head case. That’s the thing with online dating, I’ve tried it and have friends that have to, it’s a crap shoot. You’d have better odds picking the next six super bowl winners. Being a guy and if it was me, I’d say he has someone, might even be married which would explain the one respond a day. He could be using you as a fall back for when he and his current lady are having issues. I’ve done it back in my younger days. I had a couple girls that I kept around for when my serious girl would separate and I needed a pick me up. It’s wrong but that’s what it sounds like.July 24, 2014 at 11:08 pm #61708
I could tell you to run, but seeing as how I made the same mistakes I would be a hypocrite. I do know that walking on pins and needless around someone isn’t right. That’s not what a relationship is about. Your not gonnna move on until you’ve had enough but you should figure out what that is. Lean on your friends. I mean lean, almost push them over. I couldn’t sleep alone for months, thankfully my cousin understood and let me stay with him. Do things that make YOU happy. Don’t be afraid to do dumb shit. Just make sure you can look yourself in the mirror the next day. Hope this helps, I’m dealing with my own breakup as well. Like they say, those that can do, and those that cant teach.