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August 20, 2021 at 3:26 pm #385074
nUmber 2, is that ok?August 20, 2021 at 3:39 pm #385075AnonymousGuest
No, it’s not okay because it will be wrong for you: you will get hurt and feel humiliated. I mean, if you have sex with him, hoping that he will upgrade you from a friend-with-benefits to a girlfriend, you are placing yourself in a position of weakness, of being inferior to him, and being at his mercy. You are not a bad person who deserves such humiliation!
anitaAugust 20, 2021 at 3:48 pm #385076
number 2, is that okay?August 20, 2021 at 3:51 pm #385077AnonymousGuest
I answered regarding #2 right above, in my last post to you. Will be back to the computer shortly.
anitaAugust 20, 2021 at 6:47 pm #385079
im sorry, it post twice. and thank you so much. i appreciate it. he just texted me and said he hated me and sai dhe is seeing someone, and they do not want him to talk to me, so great.August 20, 2021 at 8:08 pm #385080AnonymousGuest
You are welcome. I guess it hurts, doesn’t it, what he said. I am sorry, natalee. But the good news is that you now have the information that you need. You know that it’s time to give up on the ex.
anitaAugust 23, 2021 at 5:35 am #385190
it does hurt, but thank you for everything. today he looked at me as i walking in school and gave me a sadish look, but that is on him. i still have our pictures by my bed and think about him everyday, i wonder if he does the same ?August 23, 2021 at 9:13 am #385194AnonymousGuest
I didn’t understand the word “sadish” in “he ..gave me a sadish look”, do you mean sadistic?
anitaAugust 24, 2021 at 5:43 am #385230
no, i meant he looked a little sad, ya know ?August 24, 2021 at 5:44 am #385231
but he tries to hurt me mentally his best friend told me, because it makes him feel better, but his best friend says he isn’t the tough guy he acts, that he does that so i feel the pain he did.August 24, 2021 at 6:20 am #385232AnonymousGuest
On Friday he texted you “and said he hated me and said he is seeing someone, and they do not want him to talk to me”. He said that he hated you, meaning that he is very angry at you. Therefore, what your friend told you makes sense: that he tries to hurt you because “it makes him feel better”, and he wants you to “feel the pain he did”.
In that case, there is nothing you can do about his hate for you because he texted you Friday that he is seeing someone and he and that someone do not want to talk to you (“and they do not want him to talk to me“).
I hope that you are not obsessed with your ex, thinking about him almost non-stop, etc. (“I still have our pictures by my bed and think about him everyday”), talking about him to anyone who will listen, etc. Are you obsessed with him?
anitaAugust 24, 2021 at 6:29 am #385233
i am not obsessed, i just miss him. his friends are still friends with me, and they invited me to a party yesterday, which jessi was in, so idk.August 24, 2021 at 6:29 am #385234
on xboxAugust 24, 2021 at 6:54 am #385236AnonymousGuest
He texted you last Friday that he hates you, and that he is seeing someone else- so why don’t you leave him alone and move on?
anitaAugust 24, 2021 at 7:05 am #385237
listen, have u ever been in a break up ? love someone so much, think about them everyday. yet, he is showing different emotions now, okay. him and his friends sat at the table next to us (me and my friends) this morning. and i saw his ¨girlfriend¨ pass by our tables without talking to him, so yeah.