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  • #389526
    anita
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    Dear natalee:

    You are welcome and thank you for hoping that I am happy too. You asked: “how old are you lol?”. My answer: older than you lol.

    anita

    #389661
    natalee
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    your welcome, and like how much older lol?

    #392201
    natalee
    Participant

    heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy how you been?

    #392244
    anita
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    Dear natalee:

    Your first post on this thread was last year, August 19, 2021, on page 2 of this thread. We communicated on pages 2-6. Here is what I suggest: read the five pages and let me know: (1) What did you learn from our communication? and (2) What are you now doing differently as a result of what you learned?

    Also, Happy 17th Birthday!

    anita

    #392467
    natalee
    Participant

    haha, i will be 17 in a few weeks actually. Anyways, I learned a lot, but one thing that I did is that DO NOT stick on your ex if he hates you, even though last month we had it again, ugh, but i am over that. Now, I applied for a new job and focusing on my school and getting better grades, not my ex and boys. I am single and have been for a while, just one night stands with my ex like 3 times, and the problem is, he is is good at it, but like yeah which is okay.

    #392472
    anita
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    Dear natalee:

    I know that your birthday is in February, so I wished you a happy February birthday. Congratulations for applying for a new job and for focusing on school and on getting better grades. In regard to the occasional one-night stands you’ve been having, make sure that you protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and from a possible pregnancy.

    anita

    #392477
    natalee
    Participant

    awww thanks and yes lol but thank you. yes i have, we had anal, and i thought i was due to like gaining 6 pounds and increase urination, but i had my period three times since then and 7 days each so lol

    #392478
    anita
    Participant

    Dear natalee:

    “We had anal” – that takes care of the pregnancy issue, but sexually transmitted diseases do transmit anally, AIDS for example.

    I thought I was due to like gaining 6 pounds and increase urination” – I did not understand this part, gained 6 pounds from what?  And increased urination because of what?

    anita

     

    #392494
    natalee
    Participant

    because i thought i was pregnant because the weight gain and the increased urination our factors, but now i know i am not pregnant.

    #392500
    anita
    Participant

    Dear natalee:

    The following is ALL that you posted since December 2021. I will edit spelling and I will boldface your lol-s and other light-hearted expressions:

    Dec 1, 2021: “and me and my ex had a one-night stand in October, and we tried dating again, but we both wanted to stay friends, which was alright with me lol“.

    Dec 2: “I am almost 17, in February. and yes, I will, I promise I will, I have all A’s and one B so far”.

    Dec 3: “yes anita lol, and pretty good at this point. just I am trying not to focus on this one boy lol, and I am doing pretty good at it”, “I mean I am doing pretty good at not focusing on him, and better at focusing on my studies and all”.

    Dec 6: “thank you so much. I just do not want to be in that mess again. I am happy for my ex; he has a new girl. all I can be is happy, just like he is happy for me”, “thank you so much, I hope your happy too. And I will. Also, how old are you lol?”

    Dec 10: “your welcome, and like how much older lol?”

    February 2, 2022: “heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy how you been?”

    February 7: “Haha, I will be 17 in a few weeks actually. Anyways, I learned a lot, but one thing that I did is that DO NOT stick on your ex if he hates you, even though last month we had it again, ugh, but I am over that. Now, I applied for a new job and focusing on my school and getting better grades, not my ex and boys. I am single and have been for a while, just one-night stands with my ex like 3 times, and the problem is, he is good at it, but like yeah which is okay”, “awww thanks and yes lol but thank you. yes, I have, we had anal, and I thought I was due to like gaining 6 pounds and increase urination, but I had my period three times since then and 7 days each so lol“.

    Feb 8: “because I thought I was pregnant because the weight gain and the increased urination our factors, but now I know I am not pregnant”.

    Within the 7 light-hearted lol-s, a heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, an ugh and an awww there was almost a pregnancy.

    There is a widespread traditional glorification of mothers by society. Mother’s Day cards are full of such assertions, one example out of thousands: “Moms have the kindness of angels and the patience of saints”.

    Well, in reality, it is not uncommon for a girl or a young woman to be too far from being an angel. Too often a girl or a young woman becomes a mother for no other reason but carelessness: a few lol-s, an awww, an ugh, and…. ooops, I am having a baby!

    Every baby and young child looks up to his/ her mother as a supreme being, all capable, all knowing, all loving, indeed and angel and a saint. How sad it is when a child is hit with the reality that his mother simply lol-ed him into existence.

    anita

     

    #392505
    natalee
    Participant

    i get what your saying, but i am not pregnant . i say lol a lot because that is my catchphrase.

    #392506
    natalee
    Participant

    and my heart is not light, i really do have a heart. i just say stuff without thinking.

    #392509
    anita
    Participant

    Dear natalee:

    I know that you have a heart. I also know you have a mind, that is, I know that you are capable of thinking.

    I am not pregnant… I just say stuff without thinking” – use your thinking-mind and think before you say stuff. Think before you do stuff, so that you don’t get pregnant.

    anita

    #392511
    natalee
    Participant

    thank you, i just got the job, i had an interview. and ik, plus i am on my period, and girls gain weight during that lol, so i am ok and will not get pregnant.

    #392513
    anita
    Participant

    Dear natalie:

    You are welcome, congratulations for getting the job, and thank you for letting me know that you will not get pregnant. While on topics related to sex, make sure that you don’t get STDs either. May you make thoughtful, logical and sensible choices on your 18th year on earth, and onward.

    anita

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