the only thing I can figure is that you didn’t pull away from her completely when she wanted space. – yes, I didn’t I just limited it to dropping a text each day at that time, reminding her that if she needs something I’ll be there and summarising my days.
How are you, Blazkowich, sleeping any better??? – no, attachment is less now, because of the way she treated me, but I am still unable to sleep because I keep thinking stuff like: did I too much? Was I clingy? was I too caring?
I am glad to read that you are attached to her less, good thing!
“I am still unable to sleep because I keep thinking stuff like: did I too much? Was I clingy? was I too caring?“- if you did too much, was too clingy and too caring, that’s okay. I mean, if you were these things, you can work on doing less, and being less clingy in the next relationship. It’s all about learning and correcting, or adjusting behaviors that need to be adjusted. It’s true for everyone, no one is born knowing everything… not even close. That’s why we have to learn.
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