My friend and I have been dealing with each other off and on for 18 yrs. He has crossed the line by looking on my cell phone.At the same time when I text him he says he is busy so I am confused if he really likes me or not. He even found name of another guy that I am friends with and used it as a post on Facebook. I need to know what to do I am falling in love with him.
I think the best way to tell is to ask him, but I’m wondering… why would you want to be exclusive with someone who would invade your privacy by looking at your cell phone? That shows a clear lack of trust.
Well you are sure now, right? Since it sounds like he was snooping. Given the questions you’ve asked on here lately that none of us can really give you a solid answer to because we just aren’t him, I think you two should really have a conversation about where you both stand and what you both want. Rejection can be scary but it’s usually better than always wondering.