Yes i do think that’s an extreme but its difficult for me to soften it.

You mean that it was not real? Or that it burned me out? But i did meet her.

Hey Dear Confused:

Good to read back from you this Wed night 🌙 (here).

I mean your feelings were real, and so were hers. And the connection between the two of you was real, and to me- it’s inspiring, something special there.

BUT or AND- unless the two of you are okay with keeping it LD forevermore- in-person reality is going to present challenges.

No, I didn’t mean you should have met her sooner. What I mean is that- REALLY living with her as man and wife, or man and partner- in an apartment, just you and her, day after day, night after night, month after month-

That’s a different ball game than LD + 3 days in- person that you actually spent with her.

And what I figure is that maybe the two of you are afraid 😨 of making it real, as in living together

🤔 😱 😕 🍃 💡 Anita

Hmm.. yes, I think the two of you are afraid, scared of.. well, you tell me. You know better than I do.

But outside if the fear, I see something special on your part and on hers, no less.

It’s almost 9 pm here, b Back in (my) morning 🌄 (your.. evening)

🌄🌙🐇 Anita

I think our main problem is money/time and now the stressors that i added 🙁

I feel like even if we are not together and in contact, i will still care for her deeply and i’ll be sending her cards/gifts at times, she’s so cute when she’s excited with all those little things 🙂

I also think that i need space to miss her. I never thought this would be possible for me but here we are..