Hey anita

Yes i feel like that too, i’ve learned to earn love, not to be given freely so now i feel weird/unsettled.. Its sad because it makes me feel like now i “owe” the other person something.

Yes kinda like that, because my feelings are eluding me right now (maybe what im referring to as “feelings” is the intense infatuation of the honeymoon phase though), that i wont be able to keep up and be good for her, and i’ll hurt her.

It’s like i owe her (or anyone for that matter), the same kindness, enthusiasm, creativity and all those things that i might not have.

Double posting 🙂

Your answer: you owe her the same amount and quality of kindness (etc.) that she shows you today? You owe her to match her kindness every day? Did I understand?

So, if she’s not kind to you tomorrow, you don’t owe her kindness.. tomorrow?