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  • #387814
    TeaK
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    Dear Felix,

    So when you’re unhappy with ur full cheeks you didn’t do anything about it and just accept it?

    No, I haven’t done anything surgical. But I started to starve myself and developed anorexia… which was a very dark period of my life. I had less chubby cheeks, but I looked like a skeleton… so I became less likeable and less pretty instead of prettier and more likeable, which I was originally hoping for.

    As when i’m researching about chubby cheeks i saw most girls nowadays consult a beauty specialist to have their fat in their cheeks removed… and it really changed their jawline. Most of them are happy with the changes.

    I don’t know much about it, but what I know is that there are many botched plastic surgeries, so I’d never take that route.

     

    #387819
    Felix
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    Dear TeaK,

     

    “No, I haven’t done anything surgical. But I started to starve myself and developed anorexia… which was a very dark period of my life. I had less chubby cheeks, but I looked like a skeleton… so I became less likeable and less pretty instead of prettier and more likeable, which I was originally hoping for.“

    = I see…. I guess i’m not the only one who has a very dark period in my life….
    I’m glad that you’ve escaped it, cause i really know how it feels to be in a dark period. Is it at that moment you started learning to accept yourself and improving the self-esteem?

    “I don’t know much about it, but what I know is that there are many botched plastic surgeries, so I’d never take that route.“

    = True, i also have thoughts about how many surgeries end up badly when i consider having it…. I guess i should just ditch that option… 🙂

    #387843
    TeaK
    Participant

    Dear Felix,

    I’m glad that you’ve escaped it, cause i really know how it feels to be in a dark period. Is it at that moment you started learning to accept yourself and improving the self-esteem?

    After a while I started seeing a therapist and working on myself, understanding my psychology etc… and this is what eventually helped me liberate myself from the eating disorder, heal my emotional wounds etc.

    True, i also have thoughts about how many surgeries end up badly when i consider having it…. I guess i should just ditch that option…

    Yes, I’d strongly suggest that too, because if such a procedure goes wrong, that’s one thing that you would really regret, and there’s no way to undo it…

     

    #387930
    Felix
    Participant

    Dear TeaK,

    I’ve consulted the dentist (my regular dentist) after cleansing my teeth… and i ask him if i can wear braces…. He told me that i can but he didnt recommend because he told me my teeth was okay and it’s only because of one tooth at the front row that goes backwards… he told me that the pain was not worth it for one tooth…After having some thoughts with myself, i decided to follow his advice…

    And also after having a conversation with the dentist… i realize that i still struggle in keeping a conversation with someone…. When he ask me what do i do now, and i can only tell him that i’m helping my parents in the office.. and that’s it nothing more… I can only ask him questions but i cant be the “explainer”

    It’s not only with this dentist, but with other people too…. Usually it’ll end up with me nodding my head and i dont know how to continue the convo…

    Most of my conversations are usually with my closest friends and it’s mostly about jokes and my complains on life. And i guess it’s also due to how i mostly spend my time doing activities alone.

     

    As a person who has more experience than me, how do u communicate well with other people? (This isnt me creating more problems or complaining, but im just curious on how i can improve this “part” of me)

     

     

    • This reply was modified 1 month ago by Felix.
    • This reply was modified 1 month ago by Felix.
    #387933
    Felix
    Participant

    Do i have to be more intelligent in your opinion, so that i can have a more fluent conversation and feel less nervous with anyone?

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