Hey Zenith:

For crying out loud 😫- if she can’t text or read, maybe she’s not someone to be scared of confronting (in- person)? And maybe she’s someone to pity rather than confront?

By the way, my personal doctor (I saw her only a couple of times, and will see her tomorrow) is a muslim Indian younger woman, and she wears that head covering (I forgot the name of it?) that you said your grandmother wanted you to wear when you were in India.

She speaks English with an accent, and it’s difficult for me to understand at times, even though she speaks slowly.. What 2 do?

2nd week of Nov.. It may help if you visualize several likely scenarios and practice what to say to her and how to respond to her (like you say… she says.. you say..). Not as rumination, but as preparation of what to say and how to respond to her. And once you’re done preparing, you don’t revisit the topic..?

🤔 Anita