Don’t get me wrong, I mean is not not to suffer with force of or suffering is bad or purpose of enlightenment is not suffering:
All I mean is why you still afraid or suffering burns you. Because, you are still attached to an identification, which can be god, infinite, strong, weak, religionist, atheist, non dualits, no selfist, father , mother, brother, sister, fundamentalist etc…
Only way to be free or really yourself is being free of any beliefs, ideas and experiences. Being completely naked, When there is no identity to protect, there is freedom.
Only this is the way.
And this is mostly misunderstood by many people such as believing on no identity, which creates another identity. İt is surrendering all the identities, whatever left is that’s what it is.
You can’t name or explain as belief or experience, because explanation creates an another belief, because based on knowledge. When there are no words there, that is You, and You are freedom itself. Therefore, not finding freedom, Being / it.