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February 2, 2026 at 7:01 pm in reply to: Should I Forget about him, or was he the one that got away? #454879
anitaParticipantDear Emma:
I wonder what “personally identifying link” was removed from your yesterday’s post..?
(not by me, ofcourse).
If you arenot comfortable communicating on a public forum such as this (just in case), let me know, will you, Emma?
Love 🤍 Anita
anitaParticipantRoberta, I hope this f. talk is okay with you, being that this is your thread (and your very first thread since you signed in to the forums on April 2, 2022)..?
anitaParticipant* edit: I’m using my phone
* Oh, and here’s a relevant emoji: 😤 and maybe this 😡.
anitaParticipantOkay, I am moved to answer “What is expected if one needs to fart”, “in a room where people sit to meditate” 🧘♂️ 🧘♂️ 🧘♀️ 🧘♂️ 🧘♂️ 🧘♀️
Before I continue, let me see 👀 if there’s such a thing as a fart emoji.. No! How disappointing 😞.
Let me look for anything close to it.. ⛽️ is all I am getting.
Back to the question. I am giving this deep thought 🤔 I wonder if the meditating people can discuss and agree on what to do ahead of time?
I mean bring it to the open so that individuals don’t struggle with the dilemma individually. Just make it a group decision.
Also, agree on foods to eat and foods not to eat before meditation. Also, there’re tablets available over the counter to prevent smelly parts. I mean farts (I’m using my number phone 📱)
Oh, of course, meditating rooms can be ventilated, and there are air purifiers that neutralize bad smells.
The above was my best 👌 attempt to answer your question, Thomas.
🤔 ⛽️ 👀 😷 🤔 Anita
anitaParticipantHey 👋 Confused:
I just wanted to say that I hope 🙏 you feel much better soon.
I wish you’d stop worrying 😟 and overthinking and also, that you’d stop feeling guilty for how you feel (or how you don’t feel).
Feelings are not a matter of choice, so how could anyone be guilty for something that’s not a choice.
Also, like I shared with you pages ago, I was prescribed Zoloft (an anti-depressant) for OCD and it helped a lot, like a pair of scissors ✂️ cutting chains ⛓️ of thoughts, it was wonderful.
Depressing thoughts keep you depressed, cutting through them take away what fuels ⛽️ depression.
✂️ ⛓️ ⛽️ Anita
anitaParticipant🪄 😂 🤣 😆 😹 😭😂 🪄
anitaParticipantBest is to be honest with her without going into lots of details. In regard to should/ shouldn’t when it comes to feelings, that won’t get you anywhere.
I think I shared with you pages ago that I took SSRI antidepressants that work not only for depression but for OCD (Zoloft, there are others). Maybe you can mention that combination to the psychiatrist when you call him tomorrow.
anitaParticipantIt definitely sounds like depression, Confused. It’s not just losing feelings for her, it’s like you said, empty shell, empty of all positive feelings. Did you email/ contact the psychiatrist? I imagine he can prescribe you an antidepressant without seeing you again simply because he already did most recently, So, it may be done instantly?
anitaParticipantYes, better describe to him what you described here, your symptoms. Maybe meds will help, Confused. They often do. They help a lot of people. Research it. Have to go, be back later
anitaParticipantHey Confused:
Oh, I understand and it makes sense- you overheard your mother talking to her mother (I overheard so much of my mother talking to her sisters/ people on the phone a whole lot. The apt was small and her voice loud. I couldn’t help but hear and I remember clearly wishing that I wouldn’t hear.
So much of it was child inappropriate 😔 .
Right before I read your 2nd message today, I thought to myself: the psychiatrist SHOULD have prescribed something for you, for depression, and then I read that you think he was wrong.
Call him maybe for another session or consultation?
🤍 Anita
anitaParticipantFive Years
Six Months &
Eight Days
Since The Great Inky has posted last.
anitaParticipantFor whatever it may be worth, Thomas (and it may be worth nothing at all to you), but I thought it cannot harm to tell you-
I do think that you are funny, very funny. You made me laugh many times (I did let you know), particularly your self- deprecating humor.
I believe that you are a good – and a funny 😁 man, Thomas.
Thank you for being you, and thank you for being here.
You make a positive difference 🙏
🤍 🙏 ✨️ Anita
anitaParticipantInky, I miss you. I miss your unique style and humor.
You were here in the forums on a regular basis and then gone in the summer of 2020, Covid time.
It’d be a miracle ✨️ come true if you posted again, would make me 😊
🤍 Anita
anitaParticipantHey Confused:
You heard her discussing things with her mother- you mean during the 3 days you visited her?
“I don’t know if I wanna do it”- you mean getting your feelings for her back?
I wonder 🤔 about the nature of your contact with her recently, currently? (may be too many ?s for one post … ?)
February 1, 2026 at 11:43 am in reply to: Should I Forget about him, or was he the one that got away? #454840
anitaParticipantEdit: great progress though (using my phone)
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