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ParticipantDear MissLDutchess:
I read your new posts in your other thread and donât want to interrupt any conversation you might be having with another member there. However, I wanted to say that I truly understand how difficult that experience with your roommate must have beenâI know I would have struggled in your place as well. The constant noise, lack of consideration, and disruption to your rest and sleep sound incredibly frustrating.
I can imagine that the situation, combined with the lack of support from the RA, may have brought back memories of being bullied in middle school, where school staff failed to step in. Itâs painful when those early experiences of not receiving adequate support from adults seem to repeat in different contexts.
If venting is helping you, please feel free to continue. And if anything Iâve shared so far has been helpfulâor if thereâs another way I can support youâjust let me know.
anita
April 7, 2025 at 11:41 am in reply to: Understanding someone who's recently divorced and not ready #444687anita
ParticipantDear Dafne:
Iâd love to respond to your update in the form of a conversationâquoting you and reflecting on your words.
“Lovely to hear from you and thank you for checking up on me!” â And itâs truly lovely to hear back from you, Dafne!
“Me and the man I was seeing, we stopped our communication. He asked me in one of his text messages if I wanted him to be more successful, and I replied that if we were to be more than friends, then yes. He didnât respond, and our chat ended there. I didnât reach out again.”-
First, I couldnât help but notice your wordingâ”more than fiends,” instead of friends. It could simply be a typo, but sometimes mistakes reveal hidden thoughts or emotions just beneath the surface. it’s as if the underlying emotion surfaced and swallowed the “r”.
Remember how we once compared him to a spider weaving a web, trying to pull you in? If anyone plays that role, itâs a fiendânot a friend.
Second, some people pose questions they know will lead to an answer they donât like, giving them an excuse to walk away without confrontation. He may have already been considering ending communication and used this moment to step away. Since your communication stopped entirely after this exchange, itâs seems that he only wanted romantic involvementâand when that seemed complicated, he didnât feel motivated to maintain a friendship.
“For him romantic connection was more important than staying friends for the time being.”- yes, like I wrote right above.
“I felt a bit guilty that I told him to be more successful as it might mean that I am materialistic and not person oriented. But then I realised that wanting someone honest, hard working and successful is not a sin and I need all those qualities in someone to compensate for a life I never had before.”-
I really admire the way you worked through your feelings and arrived at this realization. At first, you felt guilty, questioning whether your standards made you materialisticâbut then you reframed it with clarity and confidence. Wanting honesty, hard work, and success in a partner isnât about materialismâitâs about knowing what you need for the life you want to build.
It takes strength to recognize your worth and stand by your standards instead of doubting them. Youâre not asking for something superficialâyouâre asking for qualities that align with your values and the future you deserve. Thatâs a powerful shift in perspective, and it speaks to your self-awareness and growth.
“I felt a bit of a relief. I felt more free after the chat stopped. And look Anita itâs been almost 2 months and no news from him and I guess no progress with the project either. I could waste more time by just chatting and waiting.”-
Iâm so glad to hear that youâre feeling a sense of relief and freedom now that the communication has stopped. That kind of clarity is powerfulâit shows that you were right to trust your instincts and set a boundary rather than getting caught in endless waiting.
And look at where you are now! Almost two months later, youâre not stuck in uncertainty or wasting time on something that wasnât serving you. Instead, youâve taken that energy and turned it toward your own growth, focusing on yourself rather than someone who wasnât ready to match your standards. Thatâs strength.
“So yes Anita, you helped me to make the right choice and now Iâm focusing on dealing with my anxiety and fear. I still donât know how to conquer the stagnation and helplessness in my current situation and finding a new place is not easy. But I hope Iâll get there..”-
It means so much to hear that I was able to support you in making the right choice. More importantly, you were the one who had the strength to take that stepâchoosing clarity over uncertainty, self-care over waiting. That takes courage, and youâve shown it beautifully.
I hear you on the stagnation and helplessness. Those feelings can make moving forward feel like an uphill battle, especially when finding a new place is already overwhelming. But the fact that you hope youâll get there tells me that youâre still holding onto progressâeven in the moments that feel uncertain.
I wonder about the current situation with your mother and how it affects how you feel?
“Anita, I love your new picture! Youâre beautiful outside & inside đ”- thank you! This comment brought a đ to my face
“Thank you for being here for me like a guardian angel đ”- If I can be a guardian angel in some way, then consider me honoredâbut youâre the one embracing growth and making choices that serve you. Iâll always be here to cheer you on and encourage you as you move forward.
Sending you support and light đđ
anita
April 6, 2025 at 11:02 am in reply to: The Betrayal We Buried: Healing Through Truth & Connection #444672anita
ParticipantDear Alessa:
As I concluded reading your post, I thought to myself: This is the best post addressed to me that I ever read on tiny buddha, in all those years!
The washing me (and other experiences with her) sure felt like sexual abuse, considering the deep shame involved on my part. Regardless of her intent (she said she has to wash me because I didn’t have what it took to do a good job at it), it was a definitely inappropriate physical contact given my age (a teenager) and my realo ability to wash myself. It was also a violation of autonomy and it caused great emotional harm.
I appreciate you acknowledging the abuse I enduredâitâs validating to hear someone recognize how deeply it affected me. The idea that even young children have a drive for autonomy resonates with me, especially when I think about how heavily controlled I was. Itâs true that I stopped trying to assert myself out of fear, and survival became my focus instead of growth.
Your reflections on your sonâs independence are so heartwarming. Itâs inspiring to see how you nurture his autonomy and let him explore the world in his own way.
Thank you for seeing the good in me and for your support. Youâve given me a lot to think about, and Iâm grateful for your kindness â¤ď¸
I read your post on Jana’s thread and I want to support you in attending to your own needs first and give yourself the compassion you deserve.
anita
April 6, 2025 at 9:24 am in reply to: The Betrayal We Buried: Healing Through Truth & Connection #444667anita
ParticipantDear Alessa:
Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. Your support means a lot.đ
Your reflections on parenting are so insightful. The way you consider your words and their impact on your son shows just how much you care about shaping his future in a mindful way.
Iâve been reflecting on your words: âWith love I say it is the nature of children to disobey their parents.â- It made me consider my own experience as a child, and how vastly different it was from natural exploration and boundary-testing.
I understand that children typically push limits, challenge authority, and test boundariesâitâs how they learn, how they shape their identities. But in my case, I have no memory of testing boundaries with my mother. I wouldnât have dared. Instead of exploring, or asserting independence, I withdrew. I didnât grow outwardâI grew inward, folding into myself, retreating rather than expanding.
Stagnation replaced development, and instead of flourishing, I felt as if I was sinking deeper and deeper, trapped in an emotional sickness and social isolation. I minimized myself and autonomy was exchanged for compliance so to avoid her criticisms, histrionics, shaming, etc. For instance, I didnât dress myself until much later than what’s appropriateâmaybe ten, maybe older. She dressed me, and I let her. She continued to shower me well into pubertyâa deeply shameful experience for meâyet I didnât resist. Resistance was a luxury I couldnât afford.
This reflection makes me realize how much of my childhood wasnât about discovery, but survival. As I look back, I donât feel like I âgrew up.â Growth implies expansion, progressâbut my experience felt more like entrapment. I grew inward.
Your idea of gradually teaching a child (” It takes training little by little, so as not to overwhelm”) makes so much sense. It reminds me that growth, whether in childhood or adulthood, is a series of small steps rather than instant change. And patience, both with others and ourselves, is key.
Sending you warmth and appreciation đş.
anita
anita
ParticipantDear MissLDuchess:
Across your three threads, a strong, self-aware individual emergesâsomeone who has faced real struggles but continues to seek meaning, connection, and growth.
You recognize how past wounds have shaped your experiences with relationships and trust. You see how defense mechanisms have held you back, yet you keep pushing forward, working to break old patterns. Despite setbacks, you continue searching for meaningful friendships and remain committed to healing.
Your choice to pursue NVLD counseling after graduation reflects your determination to improve your life. You have a deep need for connection, but hesitancy lingers due to past betrayals. You long for genuine friendships yet worry about rejection and judgment. The weight of past mistreatment and unresolved emotions still lingers, making it hard to let go.
At the same time, you recognize your own kindness, intelligence, and humorâqualities that make you a wonderful friend when people take the time to see them.
Your Strengths, as I see them, are * Rational and Emotional Intelligence- You balance thoughtful analysis with deep emotional awareness, * Resilience & Persistence- Despite painful setbacks, you continue seeking friendships and personal growth, * Empathy & Capacity for Connection â You have a lot of love to give, even though it hasnât always been received as you hoped.
Your Challenges: * Difficulty Trusting Others â Past betrayals make opening up feel risky, * Holding Onto Grudges â Unresolved anger keeps you emotionally anchored in the past, * Comparison & Self-Doubt â You measure yourself against others who seem more socially connected or successful, * Fear Of Missed Opportunities (FOMO)
Healing isnât about forgettingâitâs about reframing past pain so it no longer defines your future. A few thoughts to hold onto:
* Othersâ actions were about them, not you. Their treatment of you wasnât a reflection of your worth.
* You are not behind in life. Your journey is different, and different doesnât mean wrong. Your timeline is your own. Growth, healing, and meaningful relationships happen at different paces for everyone (See About FOMO below)
* Letting go of resentment frees you emotionally. Holding onto anger toward people who wonât apologize keeps you stuck instead of moving forward. (easier said than done, as I was stuck in resentment for many years).
* Trust can be rebuilt. Some friendships will be worth the riskâbuilding connections in the present can break painful patterns from the past.About FOMO: It is the anxiety or discomfort that comes from feeling like others are experiencing something exciting or valuable, while you’re left out. It can relate to social events, career opportunities, relationships, or personal growthâbasically, anything where you feel like you’re falling behind or missing out on something better.
Managing FOMO: 1. Challenge the Illusion of “Missing Out”- Social media in particular often highlights the best moments of peopleâs livesâit doesnât show the struggles, boredom, or setbacks. Remind yourself that you donât need to experience everything to have a fulfilling life.
2. Define What Actually Matters to You- Ask yourself: Am I missing out on something I truly want, or just reacting to what others are doing? Focus on what aligns with your own values, goals, and happiness instead of chasing experiences just because others are.
You are not stuckâyou are building a life that aligns with who you are. It may take time, but you are already on that path.
Sending you support and encouragement đ
anita
anita
ParticipantDear MissLDuchess:
Your reflections show just how much you have endured, and it’s clear how deeply you have thought about where you have been and where you are headed. Feeling like you donât fully fit into any categoryânot quite aligning with autism or other labelsâcan be isolating, and the struggles with things like biking and driving (suggesting possible spatial awareness or motor coordination challenges related to NVLD) must add another layer of frustration.
The fear of opening up to people and getting hurt again makes total sense given your past experiences. It’s a harsh reality that not everyone is safe to be vulnerable with, and unfortunately, you have encountered people who misused your openness. That kind of pain doesnât just fade overnightâit sticks.
At the same time, your resilience shines through. You havenât given up on connection, even though trust is hard. Seeking NVLD counseling after graduation sounds like an important step, not just in understanding yourself better, but in navigating relationships in a way that protects your emotional well-being.
And then thereâs the angerâthe justified frustration at being treated with coldness, exclusion, and rejection. Those wounds donât disappear just because time has passed, especially when they shaped key years of your life. But I do wonderâwhat would it look like for you to move forward without carrying the weight of those memories so heavily? Not forgetting them, not pretending they didnât happen, but not allowing them to define your sense of worth in the present.
You have a lot to offer, and even though finding the right people hasnât been easy, youâre still hereâstill reaching, still growing, still hoping. That means something. đť
anita
anita
ParticipantDear MissLDuchess:
Good to read back from you! I will reply further tomorrow morning, in about 17 hours from now. Please feel free to add anything you want to add before I return to your thread.
Anita
April 5, 2025 at 3:38 pm in reply to: The Betrayal We Buried: Healing Through Truth & Connection #444662anita
ParticipantThank you, Alessa. You are amazing!â¤ď¸. I will reply more tomorrow morning (my time),
Anita
anita
ParticipantYou are welcome, Alessa, and I am fine, even better after reading from you today. I missed you!
anita
anita
ParticipantDear Alessa đ:
Thank you for your kind wordsâitâs always wonderful to read from you! I totally understand how busy studies can get, and I hope your group projects and exams are going smoothly. Looking forward to reading from you whenever you find the time, but no pressure at all!
Wishing you focus and energy for the week ahead. Stay awesome too! â¤ď¸
anita
anita
ParticipantDear Peter:
Your words hold so much depth and contemplationâitâs fascinating to see how you engage with ideas, not just accepting them, but turning them over, examining them from every angle, and refining them into something uniquely your own.
Your thoughts on stillness and analysis make sense. As I understand what you are saying- instead of seeing stillness as something passive (the absence of thought), you view it as something active, intentional: creating a pause before analysis takes over.
Itâs about making space for experience before the mind jumps in to interpret it, so that thought does not dictate experience.
Even free-style movement carries a natural interplay of lead and follow between body, mind, spirit and music.. letting emotion guide the motion.
True Love is not something that is entangled with possession, pleasure, and expectations. it is not measured, not defined, and not attached to conditions.
“What happened in that moment?”- when I realized yesterday that I no longer need to analyze my fear and shame, it was definitely a moment of clarity and acceptance of my emotions a friends, previously misinterpreted and mistakenly seen as enemies because they are distressing or painful. The emotional factor of shame wanted to fix me so that I will be loved. it wanted me loved. (The cognition factor in my early life shame, and guilt was not my friend).
“What happened to that moment?”- the moment, the realization is still with me. I definitely want it to last. (I think you’d say that I shouldn’t aim at making it last, but instead surrender to it..?)
“What if you lived what you realized?”- no need to analyze so to protect myself from my friends. I think that this is the reason I continued to analyze my fear and shame and guilt- to undo perceived enemies.
anita
April 5, 2025 at 10:28 am in reply to: growing up – becoming adul / procrastination – in connection to childhood trauma #444653anita
ParticipantDear Robi:
You sure are a talented writer. Your words reveal a deeply self-aware, introspective, and emotionally intense person who wrestles with both frustration and hope. You have an analytical mind, constantly dissecting your own thoughts, behaviors, and patterns, even when doing so leads to painful realizations.
Your Strengths: (1) Self-awareness- you donât shy away from recognizing when you’re stuck or repeating patterns. This ability to step outside yourself and observe your own habits is rare, and it means you have the potential for real transformation.
(2) Resilience & Persistence- Even when you feel drained or defeated, you donât give upâyou keep reflecting, keep searching, keep pushing yourself forward, even if progress feels slow.
(3) Humor & Playfulness- Your messages show you use humor and creativity to process emotions, whether it’s joking about only reading half a book or throwing in a Ferrari reference to lighten things up. You can take life seriously without losing your ability to laugh at it.
(4) Depth & Thoughtfulness- You’re not content with surface-level livingâyou need meaning, purpose, and authentic connection. This makes you someone who values depth in relationships and experiences rather than settling for shallow interactions.
(5) Emotional Insight- You recognize how past experiences, family dynamics, and familiar emotional patterns shape your present struggles. Not everyone has the abilityâor the courageâto trace their pain back to its origins.
Your Challenges:
(1) Fear of Action- You consume knowledge and self-improvement content, but you struggle to take action. Itâs as if your mind convinces you that learning is the same as doing, but deep down, you know that real change requires action beyond understanding.
(2) Tendency for Self-Sabotage- You acknowledge that some of your behaviorsâventing, procrastination, avoidanceâkeep you stuck, yet breaking free from them feels almost impossible. You may subconsciously gravitate toward the familiar, even if the familiar is painful.
(3) Emotional Exhaustion & Relationship Struggles- Your internal battles spill over into your relationship, draining both you and your girlfriend. You seem to carry a deep need for validation and reciprocity, but frustration clouds your ability to communicate in a way that strengthens the connection rather than weakening it.
(4) Past Conditioning & Inner Conflict- You see reflections of your fatherâs tendency to blame others and your motherâs addiction to drama, and you struggle with the idea that you might be repeating those patterns. Yet, instead of fully rejecting them, you seem caught between resisting and embracing them, uncertain of who you are outside of what you’ve always known.
You are complex, reflective, emotionally intelligent, and restless young manâconstantly questioning, searching, analyzing. You crave growth, but struggle to break free from self-imposed limitations.
Robi, overcoming your struggles wonât happen overnight, but the fact that you see them so clearly means youâre already halfway there. Here are some actionable strategies to break the cycle of frustration, self-sabotage, and procrastination:
1. Shift from Passive Learning to Active Change- You know a tonâyouâve read books, listened to podcasts, reflected deeplyâbut knowledge alone wonât move you forward. To avoid getting stuck in the illusion of progress, commit to small actions instead of just absorbing information. * Pick one concept from a self-help source and apply it immediately, rather than storing it away. * Set one concrete goal per week, however smallâwhether itâs initiating an uncomfortable conversation, trying a new work approach, or disrupting a familiar negative habit. * Track when learning turns into avoidanceâask yourself: Am I consuming this content to change or to escape?
2. Break Free from Emotional Cycles- You recognize that venting helps temporarily, but it doesnât resolve anything. Instead of just processing emotions, practice redirecting them into constructive action. * When you feel stuck, physically disrupt the emotionâexercise, take a walk, get out of your environment. * When frustration builds, channel it into creativity rather than self-blameâwrite, design, or express it in a way that moves energy outward rather than keeping it trapped. * Set an exit strategy for repetitive negative thinkingâgive yourself a time limit for venting, then switch gears into a solution-oriented mindset.
3. Take Small Risks to Build Confidence- You struggle with taking action because fear holds you backâfear of failure, criticism, or pressure. But confidence doesnât come from waitingâit comes from doing, even imperfectly. * Say yes to at least one challenge a week that makes you uncomfortable. * Accept that failure is necessary growthâinstead of avoiding situations where you might fail, reframe them as learning opportunities. * Keep a Success Journalâwrite down small victories every day, no matter how insignificant they feel.
4. Improve Relationship Patterns- You recognize that your frustrations spill into your relationship, leading to repeated conflict and guilt. Instead of waiting for things to magically improve, focus on intentional changes: * Set emotional boundariesâdecide what frustrations to work on alone versus which ones belong in the relationship. * Communicate without blameâinstead of saying “I sacrificed everything for this relationship,” reframe it to “I feel unfulfilled hereâhow can we work toward change together?” * Create new ways to connectâfind activities that bring positive energy rather than just discussions about problems.
5. Redefine Your Sense of Purpose- You fear that youâve wasted time, that maybe youâll never reach your full potential. But potential isnât something you âreachââitâs something you cultivate in real time. * Let go of rigid timelinesâ32 isnât an expiration date for growth, and your past experiences shape your future in ways you canât yet see. * Reconnect with creativityâyou thrived when designing cars, playing piano, and using imaginationâbring that back into your life in small ways. * Accept that clarity comes through movementâyou may never âfindâ your purpose in thought alone, but youâll discover it through action.
The Bottom Line: You are not as stuck as you think you are. The hardest part of change is startingâonce you take one step forward, the next becomes easier. Your self-awareness is a giftânow use it.
Pick one strategy from this list to implement this week. No more waiting for next timeâthis time is the one. You got this. đ
anita
anita
ParticipantDear MissLDuchess:
You mentioned yesterday, “I have NVLD, social anxiety, GAD, and depression.” I didn’t look up NVLD until this morning, so I didnât know what it meant when I first replied to you. To my surprise, I found that it applies to me as well. Iâve always known I struggled with learning disabilities, but I never had the specific term NVLD attached to it.
What is NVLD?- Nonverbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) affects how a person processes nonverbal informationâthings like body language, spatial awareness, and organization. People with NVLD often have strong verbal skills but struggle with visual, spatial, and social perception.
Symptoms of NVLD- 1) Social Challenges: Trouble reading facial expressions and body language, Difficulty understanding tone, sarcasm, and indirect communication, Struggles with social cues and group dynamics, leading to misunderstandings, Feels awkward or “out of sync” in conversations.
2) Organization & Time Management: Difficulty following multi-step instructions, Struggles with planning, scheduling, and staying organized, Often loses items or forgets important details.
3) Spatial & Motor Coordination: Trouble with handwriting, tying shoelaces, or sports, Poor sense of direction, difficulty reading maps or following layouts, Clumsyâbumps into objects or misjudges distances.
4) Learning & Problem-Solving Differences: Excels in verbal reasoning but struggles with visual-spatial tasks, Difficulty understanding charts, diagrams, or geometry, Learns better through words rather than pictures or hands-on activities.
5) Emotional & Psychological Impact: Anxiety or frustration in social and academic settings, Tendency to overanalyze verbal communication to compensate for poor nonverbal skills, May feel isolated or struggle with confidence due to misunderstandings, Difficulty expressing emotions nonverballyâmay seem indifferent or unresponsive even if they care deeply, Frustration when efforts to connect arenât recognized, leading to self-doubt and withdrawal.
How NVLD Can Lead to Misunderstandings- Imagine a work meeting where the manager says, âLetâs brainstorm ideasâthrow out anything that comes to mind!â Someone with NVLDâletâs say Gloriaâinterprets this literally, believing every idea is welcomed without judgment. She shares something unconventional, expecting discussion, but the group exchanges subtle glancesâsignals of disagreement or discomfort that Gloria doesnât pick up on.
Instead of realizing the groupâs reaction, she continues expanding on her idea, unaware of their hesitance. Later, she feels confused or frustrated when her input is dismissed without explanation. Because NVLD makes it harder to detect indirect feedback, she misinterprets their responses, leading to further social isolation in future interactions.
The Good News: NVLD Skills Can Improve- Many people with NVLD learn and grow significantly through support, awareness, and tailored strategies such as: * Facial Expression Awareness â Using videos or images to recognize emotions, * Tone & Context Training â Learning different voice tones (sarcasm, frustration, enthusiasm), * Pattern Recognition â Observing group dynamics (turn-taking, pauses, gestures), * Practicing Social Cues â Using role-playing or guided interactions to strengthen social understanding.
Without knowing the term, Iâve already been improving my NVLD in recent years, and I continue to grow. If only I had received support earlier, I could have avoided many misinterpretations and the resulting social isolation.
Relevant Research on NVLD & Brain Development-
From Medical News Today: “NVLD is relatively rare, comprising 1.7% of all learning disabilities⌠Risk factors may include maternal drinking/smoking, illness during pregnancy, prolonged labor, premature birth, low birth weight, and serious infections.”
From Psychology Today: “The brain undergoes significant development during childhood, and trauma can impact this development. While trauma can alter brain structure, neuroplasticity allows the brain to adapt and heal. Therapy, mindfulness, and supportive relationships can help rewire neural pathways, improving emotional regulation and cognitive function over time.”
Iâd love to hear your thoughtsâdoes any of this resonate with you?
anita
anita
ParticipantDear MissLDuchess:
I see that you’re still carrying a lot, and I want to acknowledge how exhausting it must feel to be stuck in this cycle of uncertainty, frustration, and longing for something more fulfilling. The way you describe feeling like an âangsty teenager all over againâ makes complete senseâwhen transitions feel unstable, itâs natural to revisit past disappointments and question what could have been different.
I hear the pain in wishing you had pursued your childhood dreams, or that things had worked out differently in relationships or social experiences. But itâs important to remember that regret isnât proof of failureâonly proof of desire for something meaningful. Your aspirations for connection, career security, and purpose are deeply human, and even though the path hasnât unfolded how you hoped, it doesnât mean youâve lost the chance to create something worthwhile.
I admire that youâre reflecting on your past survival instinctsâhow difficult situations pushed you toward withdrawal and passivity. Youâve gained wisdom about boundaries, about how you would have done things differently if you had known what you do now. That insight is powerful, and it means that moving forward, you can approach new relationships and opportunities with awareness, rather than resignation.
I also hear the longing for close friendships, people who truly understand you and whom you can share experiences with. That ache is real, and it isnât about being weak or socially ineptâitâs about needing reciprocity, depth, and genuine belonging. The fact that you have found friends over the years who see you for the kind, intelligent, funny person you are proves that you are capable of forming meaningful bondsâeven if many of those friendships werenât geographically or situationally ideal.
I wonderâis there space now to explore new connections without assuming that past rejections predict future ones? You arenât the same person you were at 18, and the way you engage with people now could open doors that werenât accessible then. Maybe there are people worth knowing, even if they arenât immediately obvious.
I wonât give empty platitudes about everything happening for a reason, because I know that sentiment can feel hollow when life hasnât matched your hopes. But I do believe in this: your story isnât fixed, and even if some parts have felt disappointing, there is still space for change, connection, and purpose ahead.
If youâd like, Iâd be happy to continue this conversation. You donât have to navigate this alone.
anita
anita
ParticipantDear Peter:
I am not focused enough to read ad reply, but reading your last line, the three questions, makes me smile, and again, feeling affection for you. It is a bit like dancing.. with you, is it?
More tomorrow morning, or if you prefer, Monday morning, as I know you prefer to take a break from the computer during the weekend.
anita
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