Hi nonamenoname,

Either something happened recently to trigger the feelings or they have been there due an event that happened a while back !

Anyway, what matters now is that you know that you are NOT alone and you are NOT broken !!

Here is the link to an article that should help you: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/emotional-and-psychological-trauma.htm

I am also including a link below to one of my fav songs.

I pray your angels guide you forward.

GOD Bless !

Sid my brother,

I feel your pain.

If you call her – one of 3 things will happen:
1) she will not answer the phone or hang up on you.
2) she will listen to you and then blame it all on you.
3) she will apologize for treating you badly.

Given her past behavior, option #1 is most likely, #2 likely…..and #3 no chance in hell !

She is a selfish manipulative person who took advantage of your niceness….consider yourself lucky you did not marry her ! The Universe has saved you from much worse pain !!

Sometimes, people come into our lives with whom we have past life connections and karmic debts to be paid….that is why you felt such a strong connection with her and yet so much heartache !!!

You did the right things…now let Karma do its thing. Do not look back…there is nothing to find…..you must ride out this storm in your life. Time is the only healer.

I pray your angels help you find peace and hope you find true love soon.

GOD bless you !

ps: listen to this song – it will help:

Hi Emma,

Pink gave you some good advice above.

Be patient and gentle with yourself !

And STOP looking back – we cannot change the past !!

Btw, if your profile pic is actually you – you should consider becoming an ‘eye model’.

God bless and good luck.

Kelsey,

Maria has given you some great advice above – sometimes the answers take time to come but they DO come – be patient and gentle with yourself !

I pray your angels guide you forward.

GOD bless !!

Hi Courtney,

A break up is never easy – specially after you are engaged !

I don’t know if you were given a reason but it does not matter – something obviously went wrong – looking on the positive side you are lucky it happened now rather than later after you were married and maybe even had kids !!

Divorce is much tougher and would have taken a higher toll on you. You need to move forward even if it is very slowly. Honestly, you will have to go through the pain but will come out a stronger person and someone better awaits in the future.

Regarding lost ‘things’ – do not worry – just keep moving forward and the Universe will provide.

God bless !

Hi EIB:

You are young and have your life ahead of you – I can tell you that you WILL NOT end up alone – trust the Universe !

You have identified your problem: low self-esteem – which comes from not being loved/treated right !!

Here are links to 2 short articles that will help:

1) http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Worth

2) http://rohan7things.wordpress.com/2013/01/10/how-to-overcome-loneliness-and-a-fear-of-being-single/

Also, listen to this one song called ‘You are loved’ by Josh Groban – here is the link:

God bless !

Bro,

EVERY human has faults !

Stop being so hard on yourself !!

Please read this article – it is on this site itself:

10 Happiness Tips for People Who Have Been Hurt

Here is another one that will help:
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Worth

God bless !

Hi Lt,

Anger is a result of unhealed hurt and pain !

Please realize that things can get much worse than we think !!

The basic tenet of Buddhism is not to hurt any other soul including YOURSELF.

IT IS NEVER TOO LATE to make positive changes and turn life around – Please don’t give up.

I pray your angels guide you forward.

GOD Bless !