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    Yes you’re right thank you so much for giving me hope. I really hurt my boyfriend. So how do you think I should apologize. And fix it ? Do you think we should go slow when we see eachother again? Or jump back in? Right now we’re on a break but still flirting and talking

    Lisa
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    Dear Anita.

    Thank you this is the reply I was looking for. I am going to try and calm down. You’re right there is a lot of fear. Is there any way we could keep in contact?

     

     

    Lisa
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    yes, when i loked up why  was feeling the way i felt, all websites told me that i should break up with him, leave him alone, because itll just cause more hurt down the road and i do maybe belive thats true, he means the most to me but i hate the way i feel sometimes, i dont know if my feeling of sudden change is a norma type of flucuate, because he explained to me that thats never happend to him before. hes the guy for me and they dont fluchate sometimes now, its all the time every hour its a new emotion

    Lisa
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    do you have an instagram or snapchat i could tlk to you on so  could see you replies quicker

    Lisa
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    i want this relationship anita but something is blocking me

    Lisa
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    i want this relationship anita but something is blocking me

    Lisa
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    im sorry if i am all over the place i m extremeley stressed especially these past few weeks and alot of it is pent out insude so im trying to get it all out

    Lisa
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    i feel like he cares so much for me and would never breakup with me like i did to him. i think hell find a girl who is just as good as he is to me, to him. i love him t i feel i am such a bad girlfriend even though he claims im not.i feel my stomach knot when i imagine him crying to his mom because something that i did to him. hes a good boy, a good peson and a good boyfriend, i want to feel the same about myself, i know that over time id be able to forgive myself, but the problem is the sudden change happend in the first place

    Lisa
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    im sorry, i do do that,

    but there isnt a list the only thing ive done is tell him i want to break up and then the next day i change my mind and it keeps going back and forth and he says, if it wasnt me, then he wouldve stopped talking to me because its hurting him

    Lisa
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    last night while we were on the phone he told me that when we broke up he was in his moms head telling her that nobody loves him, i cant get that thought out of my head and it feels like so much fucking pressure and i feel so bad and i never wanted to do that to him i care about him so much and he cares about me more than anyone but im not sure what to do at thia point its too overwheling, last night after we talked i felt so fucking good, i wa lke the bas feeling is gone but when i woke up i didnt feel like i didnt love him just stress and pressure and no motivation

    Lisa
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    oomg i never noticed you replied. i read your conversation with another girl the conversation was titles “i love him but suddenly i am not in love with him.” id never been on tiny buddah before but after reading the forum i ade an account right away to tallk to you and i was so happy to see youre still active. i know yore not jesus and you cant have the answer for everything, but i am so stressed, i have ths conflict in my mind between wanting to be wit h my boyfriend and just leaving it alone becaus every time i keep hurting him more and more an it adds more and more guilt and shame into our relatinship. i talk to him everyday but we are on a break, last night we talked all our problems out and i felt great but i woke up this morning not feeling like i dont love him, but that ive hurt him and im a piece of shit and why this had to go this way, weve always had amazing chemestry since the day we met, we were both o in lust it felt llike a dream, we talked last night and said well only communicate in the days and nights, and that was fine but when i woke up i still felt unmotivated and stressed, anita, im not sure those things you listed will help. and i know i cant be in any relationship while i am this stressed but my stress isbecause of ,y relationship, but i till want to be in it,

     

    lisa/erykha

    in reply to: I love him but I'm suddenly not "in love" #352304
    Lisa
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    anita ive been trying to contact you for two whole days, i seen the avice you gave to somone else and i love your approach please text me back. irs urgent

    in reply to: I love him but I'm suddenly not "in love" #352160
    Lisa
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    iam so interested in your story because im going through the same thing, what did you end up doing and how did it work for you??????

    in reply to: I love him but I'm suddenly not "in love" #352162
    Lisa
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    anita i need help with this same issue.. take a moment to listen to my story,? i love your approach.

    in reply to: I love him but I'm suddenly not "in love" #352158
    Lisa
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    iam so interested in your story because im going through the same thing, what did you end up doing and how did it work for you

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