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October 29, 2014 at 7:09 pm #67009
Wow, 19. You need to go out and party and have fun. You don’t see it looking forward, but I see it looking back. The most important thing is:
1) Have a plan or goal
2) Stay the course
As long as you at least have a plan/goal, you will get where you need to be. My plans have changed a thousand times in life. Believe me, it is more important to have a plan than what the plan is or how to get to the promised land.
You are sweet, you want to make a difference in this world and you will make a difference in this world. Good luck to you and much peace to youOctober 29, 2014 at 6:12 pm #67008
Wow, where do I begin. I want to help so I’m going straight to your questions. You are obsessed with a married man. And yes, it is fair that you have to let go of the only bright light in your life because HE IS A MARRIED MAN.
Do you really think this guy wants your phone number showing up on his cell while he’s eating dinner with his wife?
There are a hundred single guys right this second that would love to spend time with you, but these guys see you drooling on a married guy. And women seem to have no earthly idea how big of a turn off that is to single men.
It is hard for you to let go because females are biologically wired to want other women’s men. You are just going to have to find a guy with a girlfriend instead of a wife.October 29, 2014 at 5:39 pm #67006
Rip his clothes off tonight and his attitude will change quickly. Men are not hard to figure out. Feed them and F them. Sounds like you got the feeding part down. Stuff a burger in him and a drink. Close the deal tonight and tell us tomorrow how that worked out for you.August 3, 2013 at 10:34 pm #39715
Akim, I’m sorry for what you are going thru, I feel for you. I’m kinda going thru a similar thing and It is gut wrenching. I’ve got the same movie replaying in my mind and it never stops. Regret is a mind and soul destroyer. It is so hard to move past it all. Your only friend is time. While you wait for time to somehow heal the wound, you must distract yourself. It is hard but you must get out and and get moving. From your post, you say you had so many opportunities. Guess what? More are out there, the opportunities will come if you are out there. I had to learn the hard way that there were zero opportunities in my living room. When I finally went out one day to the store, the cute checkout girl gave me the biggest smile and brightest eyes. For ten minutes, I completely forgot all about my situation. That one little interaction was enough to inspire me to get out a little bit more (back to that store for sure!). I’m still working thru my deal, and it’s very difficult….but man, I’m telling you from tough experience, get out there. All you need right now is a small spark to get your engine going. Go to a concert, bar, club, party, heck I went to the grocery store! Hang in there! Peace and good vibes coming your wayJuly 29, 2013 at 7:56 pm #39416
Hopeful, I really like your name. Those tidal waves of saddness is something I can’t seem to get on top of on some days. I try my best to surf out the waves when they come but there are days i feel like I may drown. Just hang in there, surf and ride those waves the best you can! They do come and go,so just remember in the middle of the wave that low tide is coming. Peace and love to youJuly 29, 2013 at 6:28 pm #39407
I just had to say that when I read your post I see a survivor, a fighter, and a warrior. You just hang in there and keep up the fight. You gave me strength today, you are a blessing. Much Peace and happiness to youJuly 28, 2013 at 6:14 pm #39345
Hang in there Snap, I’m so sorry for what you are going thru. I know this is tough, I’m going thru a similar situation and it sux. When I read your post, I read something from someone so caring and loving. I am sending good vibes, peace, and love your way. Just hang in there, today. All you have to do is hang in there today. The memory may not go away, but the emotions will fade over time. It’s hard, but just make it thru today and you will make it. Eat some food!! And get some sun! Peace and love to youJuly 28, 2013 at 5:21 pm #39344
A few weeks ago my father told me he was sorry for something. Something that happened when I was a child and I never gave it a second thought back then. He yelled at me one day for some reason when I was a kid and he told me that he was wrong and could never let it go, even after all these years. I remember what happened, it wasn’t even that big of a deal, but to him the words that came out haunted him for years. I could see the weight coming off his mind when he told me and I said it was cool and I forgave him and never thought bad of him. I know I’ve said some things that I wish I could take back, and I was in the same situation with my ex. I told this person I was so sorry for what I said. My anger lasted a few minutes, but my love lasts forever. We did not see each much after we broke up, but I know in my heart things were set straight with us and we’re cool. I wish you so much Peace and happinessJuly 28, 2013 at 4:49 pm #39342
Hey Gary, I’m sorry for your loss. You loved that bird and she meant something to you. I’m sorry it all happened like that.