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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294347
    Thondit
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    If my wife had ignored me ; just to see me like I am not responsible then I can’t help anymore.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294345
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Sorry for the typing error anyway.

    I mean that if her sister had got a job,  then let them be supporting themselves.

    My brother in-law , was the one who had call me,  to help him with the phone.

    And however,  I think he need the phone just to give it to her sister ; which is my estrange wife. Or the sell it away to support them in the house needs.

     

    Thanks

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294309
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    Dear Anita ,

    Thank you for the good advice.

    Yours sincerely words is well taken .

    I did not plan for them anything bad . I was like theirs elder brother. So if her sister had ignored me then let everything be bygones .

    Thanks.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294277
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the good cooperation you had with me.  I promise , I will not help any of them, , , since my sister in-laws is working as a cashier in the salon then , she will provide everything they need because she told me those days that she do go to plane the hair and she get the money out of it.

    Also this boy,  my brother in-law request me to give him my smart phone or buy for him the new on and I know that , if I give him my phone then,  her sister which my wife will took it away from him.

    He is really disturbing me.

    Thanks.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294253
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    Dear Anita ,

    Thanks for not getting rid of me, ,, , you are my power.

    My right hand ? to raise up . You are my backbone.

    My eye to other roads of stapling block, ,,,,

    I will be overwhelmed to see more ideas of responding the rest of the posts .

    So should I a help my younger brother in-laws.?  I don’t see any benefits to me when I give them back up.

    They will used it , still underestimate me.

    I had done a lots of things more than anyone can not do.  I used to give 100$ dollar to my mother in-laws for her air times for a months . I thought she will stand up with me when her daughter go wrong. But she avail to me.

    She is my real enemy now more than my wife.

    My mother in law is very terrible and horrible.

    Thanks.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294249
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    Anita ,

    My fear is one! !!! When I was in High School , our Chemistry Teacher , taught us something tangible , he said if  a child is dull in in class or a thief,  then its start from the mother.  When a child wise then its also from the mother.

    If my brain is the one with my son,  then I will be more than happy .

    My Chemistry teacher , was examiner and expert . He gave us spontaneous example of a girl whom her mother was a thief,  if she go to any Supermarket within Uganda , she definitely steal things and put it in the hand bag and begin to hide it.  And the CCT Camara,  will show her in the screen at the main computer and she will be investigated and perhaps if she deny it , she will be shown in the screen.

    Her husband was a minister and when he had seen this thing is in the blood of her wife and begins to distribute all is account number to any Supermarket,  so that when they see her stealing things,  they just deduct from the account of her husband.

    Her daughter becomes a thief as well and she used to be chase from ever school , she went to.

    In every year she goes to 6-7 school.

    So if my son goes into her mother character , then I am finish , my 150 cows zero,  and everything I had used be nothing.

    And if he follows my shoes then , I will appreciate God.

    Anita,

    I am sorry for being too wordy today.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294245
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    Point of correction , my father in-laws said since you refused to listen to me and refuse Gregory , the young I had accepted to be your husband until the day die or you leave this world.  You decided with your witchcraft mother , to create tension just to make a way of going away and have freedom with other men. He said I don’t want hear your nonsense.  They are hoping their grandmother who is in Canada to be sending money for the renting.  For how long will she do that? ???

    Her younger sister who is following my wife said she has got a job,  of being a cashier in the salon. Aha,  will the money of salon manage to rent a house? ?? Whom are they hoping for?? ? For how long will be going on begging ??? No man will go for her to marry her or any girl because my wife is the first born one and she has spoiled the road already.

    In South Sudan , you marry according to how the family handle houses. They see the father,  first is he responsible ??? And then go to mother is she responsible?  Can she support her daughter when she is doing wrong thing !!!! If you find it out that the mother of the girl is a devil , then you will automatically quit the girl.

    My father in-laws is a very kind and responsible man,  that is why he told his wife , you had spoiled my name . And I do want to be part of you anymore.  Go to any place you want in your heart .

    Haaahaaaa I am happy with the principles of my father.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294243
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    Dear Anita,

    Haha thanks for this beautiful message , how you frame your words is awesome and electrified the heart of the other person. You are superb genius Anita,

    Yes,  this woman had run out of short education.  When she is happy maybe she is at the middle of her friends whom they are dancing with the loudest Music.  Nothing makes her more comfortable with other than friends and music.  She once told me she need a speaker to be in her house so that she can be dancing within.

    Yes,  Anita,  all the point you had said are fact and truth.  I am totally different from her,  her way of thinking and ways of doing things is  is perpendicular to angle of attacks in flying the airborne.  I have had got various education in my signals and I was the one educating myself not even a uncle or relative. My brain took me to those places.  My father is not educated , is just a farmer. And still k used to go back to look after my cattle because that is where my knowledge start.  I have to work extra hard to over come her negative thinking that I will not progress a head if she is not in my life.  I have to prove her wrong.  I will achieve my target and my amazing goal of become a Captain in command (PIC) or call it Pilot in command , and my son Agoth Gregory,  will be my first officer.

    Hey Anita,  wonders will never end,  I got a surprise call today by my young brother in-law telling me they are in a dire situation,  and the owner of the house need it by the end of this month. And her father said since you refused  me to listen to me and stay with the husband that I had given to you and you listened to the advice of your mother ,, ,,, then handle your things  alone….. I am not your father.  Go to any boy friend you are targeting  to pay the money the rent of new house.

    My father in-laws is definitely standing with me.

    What would I do  to my younger brother in laws and uncle to my son.  He is still in primary school.

    Ayong,  will never fit to my shoes and I guess she is assuming that she will get a man who will provide them everything. No one will ever makes a suicide to go for such a greedy woman,  with her mother.

    They all tried to look for a new house to rent,  but in vain, ,,,,, they are all expensive.

    Anita , oyeee.

    You are my role model and my monitor as well as my guidance.

    Thanks.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294231
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    Dear Anita,

    Hope you are breathing well.  I have digested all your input in my tough marriage and fortunately , I found myself back to senses.

    I realized that as marriage row/normal role ; when a woman begins to cheats on her husband , then she is planning to divorce and wishing her husband to die,  because she has got another man,  she slept with.

    If all the characters of the girls where shown on the TV SHOW , then people could have not married.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294145
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    Dear Anita,

    Yes my estrange wife is also in south Sudan here. We are all in juba…. S. Sudan. Both of us are from the same state or province. The difference is ; she grows up in Khartoum,  Sudan, and I grow up in Uganda and Kenya,  plus South Africa as well as Poland. These are they countries I passed through when I was doing my piloting Training.

    I am trying to work extra hard,  to achieve my goal and get a better life and I think beautiful one , which is more than her will come automatically.

    I have a lots of dreams to do. I think of my only love Son Agoth Gregory , most often.

    Once again thanks Anita.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294055
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    Dear Anita, 

    Yes she is not ready to learnt more as you stated. As per the we where both in Uganda , (studies )there.  She has never be in the best school like I did.

    She does not like the School that has too much restrictions with rule and regulations. She only love the school that has freedom for to be going out at any time.

    She could attend 5 school in a year. She was given a name ; school walker . She doesn’t care about her performance at the end of the terms when the students are going back home with their reports cards.

    I tried to teach her a lot of things but difficult to concentrate or focus.  She only love the place where there are people who love music and free to move.

    We are all from the same place, ,,,, we shall be seeing each other.

    Thanks Anita.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293749
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    Wow,  this is amazing.

    With due respect I didn’t know that . ..

    I wish my wife could know this website,  to read all this.

    If she was a somebody who bother and eager to learnt more she would used this most often .

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293743
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    Haaaahaaa I am a golden dust in South Sudan,  I didn’t know.  But now I have known.  Noticed.

    I am always honest person even my wife know in her blood. She once time told me not cheat on her and I agree ✅ with her words.

    I have never done anything like lobbying with other girls.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293725
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    if you were in South Sudan Anita,  I would have give you a gift.  Just for appreciation because in this small community called Tinybuddha , you work tirelessly to advice and respond anyone who is in messed relationships or any other .  To find people like you , is like looking for a golden dust .

    Big up dear. Keep climbing the ladder of success.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293717
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    Dear Anita,

    You are so  fantastic Anita .

    You are welcome  dear,  either way,  you are Aldo kind . If God , could ask me what I can do for you , then I would tell him to give you a bundles of happiness Anita! !! Just to see you happy all the time.

    I am good at sweet talking girls when it come to dating ?,  but I don’t go a long with girls who are gold digger and who don’t plans for their future.  I don’t fall in love easily.  I do control my emotions as Gregory .

    Ladies are devils and hard to be control

     

    My wife was hard to be handled when were still dating and I guess that is where I makes a mistake.  I never knew this woman was gonna change to be rebels . I was indeed love to the last of my iota !!!!But now things turn to heck.

    Agoth,  will be happy again to his beloved father Gregory ,,,,, I am proud of this young Pilot Agoth,

    In the memory of your name thanks

     

    Gregory.

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