Dear Anita,

Thank you so much for your support of advises.

Here we were trying to share ideas of how I can deal with this.

I am not in a position of calling her to come back. Just that you told me to go to her and tell her,  your son Chris Agoth Gregory,  love u and I love you too.  So both of us love you a lots. In this simple token , Ayong,  is complicated woman to be handle or controlled.  At least if she was a person who can stand in her words and respect herself of being abuse by her fellow women then the better.  Otherwise I can climb up the trees that has no branches. Nevertheless , my heart is now fully settled so no more worries.

My advice to people who might have read my article ,,,,,,, never give all your trust to any girl who is too beautiful.  If you,  then you have hang yourself on the daylight.

At least you trust the average girl,  but beautiful girls are problematic and bogus.! !! !

My big appreciation goes to ANITA. She is a propeller to everyone who is having a problem. She is ready to sacrifice her time to advise you and encourage you what to do next.

Anita,  God,  created you in a very unique way. I try to such any word in the dictionary to describe you but I couldn’t find it !! !  May I do more research.

In my field of Piloting , when you do something to the best the called it “WORK OF ART” thanks a lots Anita ,,,,

Regards

Gregory Chan

Hello Dear Anita,

Wow this is amazing and adorable advice just for free!  You truly deserve to be here in this forum. Anita , I appreciate your input into this matter that been terrible .

My heart is a bit sober now,  through your shining advice the brought back my senses and my heart into it center . Thanks for the advice we have shared . Wider than the ocean , bigger than the sky you are really good to be here to deal with such amicably.

I have known a million people Anita , but ever one like you. Many of my friends are special but I still don’t have a clue.  How you got to be so wonderful Anita,  the world’s most perfect mother of such a situation. You have always loved to helped people of such a prevailing condition .

You truly sense a major disconnect between me and my estrange wife. After dealing how the situation is ! Or based on how you studied her with her character.

She is absolutely too prideful , too arrogant,  too bleaching…..  I told her to swallow her pride but still.  You actually definitely hit the nail on it.  She is a master price,  a materialistic girl with her mother.

I thought that nothing good,  come out of a good place.  That is why I have been running after her. Trees of patience of fruits are bitter. I thought she would change be a better one.  How you describe her exactly suit with her. Her heart is hard and closed pretending to be open minded humans but wapi. I owe my change of loving her towards her now.

I would say that marrying of this girl has significant changed my way of thinking , my view of the world and has afforded me the opportunity to realize my potential and how I will study the girl when I have the interest of dating others in the future.   Either way the real cause can be unearthed through her mother whom they have open communication.  We have done a lots of nonsense confrontation discussion on the way of to be a good woman but in vain.   She is trying to go for a man who is having a lots of  money in order to build a house for her mother according to what she said.

Yes it true,  there are no angels in this world and every man or woman has some shortcomings here and there.  There are women  I know out there  who had a dirty past but  now they are happy but still fake. She has Crucify me and my plan! !! Thinking that by leaving me she will find that perfect person than me. I thought she will join me and makes a progress of our life  ,because only two people can mould each other to their own model of perfection and stand hand in hand through the thick and thin.

She is now on a deep pain too!  Due to missing his son! !!

Anita my heart is melting with your advice

Thanks my dear.

You definitely stood by my side.

You are now my mother.

Since I lost my mother in 2013 the year of my High school.

All the best  Anita.

Gregory

Hello  Anita ,

Thanks for the nice words.  I was trying to digest all the words you put on the forum here.  Truly beautiful one are not yet born. I am gonna leave her in peace. Since her mother is consistently at her. Using her as a shop then I am done  now.

I have done a lots even God will not blame me or punish me in either way.

If she has not admired to be a woman in the house then I can’t force the horse to drink.

I tried to run after her for years and she is not seeing literally and logically and realistically.

I know she some days regret and I don’t think she will ever stay in one man.

Thanks Anita  God blessed you dear.

Gregory.

The time when we were at honey moon !we really stayed  together well as a husband and wife.

This was I really feels satisfied all the time though I had not taken anything to eat.

The Time we went to Court I refused to divorce her because I know one day she will come back for her son.  That was the reason .

Again she was Frank that her father is not taking care of her mother and sibling.

She said I will leave your house because of that.