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The Impulse to Overexplain

We Are Allowed to Age: Why I Don’t Care That I Look Old

“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” ~African Proverb

It is just past ten in the morning on a Tuesday.

My wet boardshorts and blue tank top are drying at lightning speed in the sweltering South Indian sun.

I am feeling alive and exhilarated after my surf session in the surreal blue, bathtub-warm Arabian Sea.

Surfing waves consistently has been my goal for the past two years, and I’m doing it. Which is pretty awesome considering that I never thought I would surf again.

The trauma and fear from a surfing accident ten years ago,

When I Feel Sad and Alone

You Know How Far You’ve Come

When Nothing Feels Right

Don’t Fear Becoming “Too Much”

Studying Yourself

Our Elders Were Onto Something

The Right People Won’t Just Love Your Light

The Tell Them Theory

Forgive Yourself

Shoutout to People Who See the Gold in Others

Nothing in Life Is Permanent

When Your Mind Stops Racing

The Path Isn’t a Straight Line

You Can’t Always Just “Get Over It”

Seeing It for What It Is

Where the World Feels a Little More Helpful

Why Letting Myself Fall Apart Set Me Free

“Ironically enough, when you make peace with the fact that the purpose of life is not happiness but rather experience and growth, happiness comes as a natural byproduct. When you are not seeking it as the objective, it will find its way to you.” ~Unknown

I had ten days to pack up my life.

I was moving from Toronto to Florida, and I decided—very confidently—that I would only take what fit in my SUV. Everything else would be donated, sold, or given away. Ten days. One car. A clean slate.

It felt intentional. Grounded. Like the kind of choice someone …

What’s the First Step?