What I did figure out since I posted last is that, yes, I was a bad person when I said to S: “Why don’t you punch me in the face?”
I provoked her to punch me, to bruise my face, break my nose, and I provoked her to get herself into legal trouble, maybe get herself into jail.
So, yes- when I said what I said, at that moment, I was a bad person.
More tomorrow.
Anita