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    anita
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    46% charged.

    Back to obese chickens.. No.

    I would like to write whatever comes 2 my mind in regard to what I think you need at this time and in the near future, and please tell me if I’m on the right track and where I am not:

    1) I think that once you move out of your parents’ better not return to living with them again.

    2) I think that if you move back to Warsaw, you shouldn’t live again with your girlfriend’s mother- not because you described anything negative or abusive about her behavior (you didn’t), but because of the intense, negative reactions you had to her presence.

    3) Wherever you live, you need your own room (where you live alone or maybe with your girlfriend) with a real, solid door with no one being able to enter without knocking and being given permission.

    4) It’s better that you live in a small apt without roommates than in a big house with roommates and people coming in and out without your control.

    5) Better that you work- for a living- more with wood (which you enjoyed so much); more with things more than with people.

    6) You need a non- critical, more emotionally independent than dependent, non- demanding girlfriend.

    7) You need a daily routine that works for you, literally deciding how much time (outside of paid work), you spend in front of the computer, and including walks, Quikong (did I say it right)? and other healthy practices.

    43% charged.

    What says Robi?

    🤔 Anita

    #461897
    anita
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    * No, not Quikong, Qigong (I was introduced to it in 2011 in a California YMCA, and remember the first time very vividly, it felt very meaningful)

    * I didn’t respond to everything you wrote. Please let me know if you’d like me to respond to something I didn’t.

    * You asked how am I doing? Still healing from my traumatic long, long childhood. 1000% better than I used to feel, and working on the next 1000…

    Wait, is this obese bird (not) me, trying to Fly 🐓=> 🦅?

    🤔 Anita

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