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June 1, 2026 at 8:15 am #458290
June BennettParticipantHey everyone,
I have been dealing with anxiety and depression for a couple of years now and my therapist recently brought up the idea of getting an Emotional Support Animal letter. I honestly had no idea where to start so I began looking around online and found RealESALetter.com.
Has anyone here actually used them before? I am curious whether the process was as simple as it looked on their website. From what I read, you fill out a mental health assessment, a licensed professional reviews it, and you get your ESA letter pretty quickly. But I wanted to hear from real people before I went ahead with it.I have a rescue cat and my new apartment has a strict no pets policy. So I am really hoping a proper ESA letter would help sort that situation out. Did anyone here use an ESA letter for housing? Did your landlord accept it without any issues?
Also for those who already have an ESA, did it actually make a difference for your mental health day to day? I keep reading that having an animal around helps with anxiety and stress but I wonder how much of that is just the comfort of having a pet versus having an officially recognized ESA.Would love to know what services people used, whether realesaletter website worked well for others, and what the whole experience looked like from start to finish. Any advice from people who have already gone through this process would really help me figure out the next step.
Thanks so much in advance. This community always feels like a safe place to ask these kinds of questions. 🙏
June 1, 2026 at 10:32 am #458297
AlessaParticipantHi June
Well as I said before, I trained my own. I had one dog that was trained and one dog that wasn’t. Then when my pet dog died and the trained one was getting old, I got a new puppy and I trained it to be his replacement.
Some dogs aren’t suited to it. That’s why one dog was a pet and one was trained before. She showed no interest, but her brother showed an interest in helping, so I encouraged him to help.
He could detect when I was having a PTSD episode. I often am a bit resistant to help when I’m having an episode, but he would not be deterred by me asking him to go away and keep trying to lick my face and cuddle me. He always stayed by my side. It was comforting.
I don’t know about the process with a landlord because I’ve always selected apartments that are pet friendly.
I will say that I know taking ESA dogs places that if you plan to do that you should get a traditional breed used for these things and a proper ESA harness. It’s expected for their behaviour to be flawless in public.
I know someone who trained their own seeing eye dog as well because getting the official one is extremely expensive. Much cheaper to train your own. I think you do need to be experienced with training though to do these kinds of things.
Good luck figuring things out! If you have any other thoughts or questions please feel free to share. 🩵
June 3, 2026 at 8:04 am #458349
MichaelParticipantI went through a pretty similar situation last year. Anxiety and depression for a while, a pet I was terrified of losing access to, and no idea where to start with the whole ESA process.
I ended up using My ESA Therapist and honestly it was a smooth experience. You fill out an assessment, a licensed mental health professional actually reviews your case and has a real conversation with you, and then if you qualify they issue the letter. It never felt like they were just handing them out which I think actually matters when it comes to your landlord taking it seriously.
For housing specifically, my landlord accepted the letter without much back and forth. I think as long as the letter comes from a licensed professional and looks legitimate, most landlords know they have to comply under the Fair Housing Act.
And to your question about whether it actually helps day to day… honestly yes. I think the official recognition kind of gave me permission to lean into it more. My cat was already helping me but knowing it was documented made it feel less like something I had to justify to myself or anyone else.
Hope it works out for you and your rescue cat.
June 5, 2026 at 8:21 am #458389
barbara lyonsParticipantMy cat Biscotti and I had this exact battle with a no-pets building about a year ago, so I can actually speak to this one.
What helped me understand it first was knowing that an ESA letter is a clinical document written by a licensed mental health professional, not just a certificate you buy online. So the legit services are the ones that actually have you go through a real evaluation with a therapist, not just a checkbox form.
I used RealESALetter.com, and the process was a same-day evaluation with a licensed therapist, then the letter came through pretty quickly after. My landlord accepted it without much pushback once I explained the Fair Housing Act basically requires them to consider reasonable accommodations for ESAs.
I wish you the best of luck with your apartment situation. It is more straightforward than it looks.June 5, 2026 at 7:39 pm #458397
anitaParticipantThis thread is a marketing promotion/ advertisement for “My ESA Therapist” & for “Real ESA Letter.com” disguised as ‘just asking’ posts, or like in the other 2 threads (promoting the same) disguised as asking for advice.
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