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  • #319923

    anita
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    Dear cali sister:

    A double posting so I missed an earlier post. Also, I am very tired at this point, had a bit of a difficult day (not about you), so I am not very focused. You are referring to #2, flirting. I suggest, regarding rule #2, no romantic relationship with a co worker, specifically when you are his direct manager. It is too risky, your priority goal is to maintain your job so you don’t risk it for a guy!!!

    anita

    #319925

    cali sister
    Participant

    Anita –

     

    please rest. It’s interesting how well you get to know someone. I noticed this within you. That you were having a difficult day. I hope you know you can always talk about you too. Through email if you’d like. Talk when you can.

    #319927

    anita
    Participant

    Dear cali sister:

    I like it that you know me  well enough to know I was having a difficult day, makes me smile as I type this. Tell you what- I’ll shut down the computer and plan to turn it on in the evening to read from you, if you do post or email by evening time, and say the good night I am used to say to you nightly. Please rest some today or have fun out, both.

    anita

    #320009

    cali sister
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    I hope you are feeling better today. Yesterday was a blast. I didn’t sleep until 3 am haha. I’ll send you more pictures later.

    I would like to ask you something – to perhaps be honest with me on days you’re having that are difficult. What do you think?

    Ok with regards to this structured plan that we have initiated – I believe we need to set up guidelines because I think I am a bit confused as to what happens after we number these goals etc.  I like the idea of a structured plan and I like your thoughts of how it will improve my life – but I am unclear a bit on how to proceed. When you have the time- we can discuss this

     

    #320011

    anita
    Participant

    Dear cali sister:

    “I would like to ask you something- to perhaps be honest with me on days you’re having that are difficult. What do you think?”-

    Well, reads to me that you are saying that I was dishonest with you yesterday. If so, I need to  know how was I dishonest?

    anita

    #320043

    cali sister
    Participant

    Not at all! I just care about you! And if you’re having a difficult day – I won’t type too much until you recover.

    #320047

    anita
    Participant

    Dear cali sister:

    I did have a difficult day yesterday but I wasn’t dishonest with you. To not disclose a difficult day is not dishonesty. Sometimes it is sensible, to not burden another, for example. I do appreciate your empathy though. Regarding the part of your previous post, regarding the goals and rules, I withdraw from my previous effort to direct you on the matter, or to lead you. If you want you are welcome to lead me and suggest goals, rules and whatnot if you think it is a good idea.

    I know you are going on vacation tomorrow. I think that best you relax for the rest of the day best you can, not attend to anything that is not necessary and prepare for what  I hope would be a relaxing, sun soaking, pleasant experience next week.

    (I will soon be away from the computer and back in the evening).

    anita

    #320049

    cali sister
    Participant

    Anita- I never said you were dishonest. That is your take on it.

    Relaxing sounds good to me!

    I feel odd about this mentorship idea you had – since it still seems to aggravate you. How about we just drop it.

    • This reply was modified 2 weeks, 3 days ago by  cali sister.
    #320053

    cali sister
    Participant

    <p style=”text-align: left;”>to be honest – I am sensing what happened last time we stopped speaking. And I would like to continue speaking. So rather avoid anything that will cause that. I am doing my best and all that I can.</p>

    #320055

    anita
    Participant

    Dear cali sister:

    What a shame, cali sister. What a shame- to stop speaking with you once again. But this time for good. Goodbye, lovely cali sister. I do wish you the best, I do, really do.

    anita

     

    #320057

    cali sister
    Participant

    I said I would like to continue speaking with you. If you feel we should not- then that is fine.

     

    i am not sure what is happening here or why you are angry with me. I would like to understand why you no longer wish to speak with me.

    • This reply was modified 2 weeks, 3 days ago by  cali sister.
    #320139

    anita
    Participant

    cali sister: I would like to ask you something – to perhaps be honest with me…

    anita: reads to me that you are saying that I was dishonest with you yesterday. If so, I need to  know how was I dishonest?

    cali sister: Anita- I never said you were dishonest. That is your take on it.

    ***Have a relaxing vacation. Goodbye beautiful cali sister. There will be no more further posts/ emails from me to you.

    anita

     

    • This reply was modified 2 weeks, 3 days ago by  anita.
    #320143

    cali sister
    Participant

    Okay. You have misunderstood how I wrote it completely. I write differently than you. I never meant to say you were dishonest. I don’t say such things. It is mind boggling that such a wonderful relationship ends over a misunderstanding  when you asked me to clarify I said – no of course not.

    you have broken my heart. Have a good life.

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