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  • in reply to: A problem that shouldn't be a problem #80959
    Saiisha
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    Thanks Peri – I’m glad the foundations of a life of Peace, Presence and Purpose resonate with you! And I know EXACTLY what you mean about the disconnect between a life of inner wisdom and reality with the 21st century anywhere 🙂 I myself haven’t found a culture and geography where I could fit into well, despite my early leanings – as you saw, I ended up creating my own version of the life I want to live at the Nest In The Forest.

    But of course, how you fit into such a culture is completely personal – and probably worth trying, even if it means learning lessons along the way. However, do not go against your gut instinct when it comes to any culture, guru or institution. This has always been my touchstone – to only follow what feels right within myself. That is the absolute criteria for anything I do.

    in reply to: A problem that shouldn't be a problem #80951
    Saiisha
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    Yes, it certainly can get overwhelming sometimes! Especially when there are so many paths, all ultimately leading to the same goal, but can get confusing until you find your path. And your path is always your own – no gurus, ashrams or institutions can claim that theirs is the best way. For you – yours is the only, best way. And it’s your responsibility to find it, create it, and follow it.

    So how can I help you? 🙂

    If you’re interested, you can check out my website (you’ll find the link under my profile if you click on my picture) – see if you can relate to what you’re going through at this time.

    in reply to: A problem that shouldn't be a problem #80937
    Saiisha
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    Hello Peri, Congratulations on coming this far away from your toxic relationships to a life closer to peace and positivity! It is possible that once you overcame your negativity, and created your place of positivity, that you lost your sense of purpose. That may be why you don’t have the energy to do the asanas or meditation. And it’s very natural. No one goes through life at the same speed all the time.

    My suggestion would be to try and figure out what your purpose for life and living is. Each person’s overall life purpose could in fact be a series of several smaller purposes. When you’re in alignment with your true purpose, everything in your being is excited and alive, you don’t burn out, you have an inner fire, but you’re not in a hurry. Every choice, step and direction will be in service of your soul purpose.

    Do you feel like this could be you?

    in reply to: Nothing is happening, despite constant synchronicities! #80863
    Saiisha
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    Lots of advice here, but I just wanted to add my 2 cents 🙂
    Here’s the thing about thoughts and beliefs – they have power – if you believe there’s significance in the numbers, it is probably true. If you believe there’s no significance in the numbers, that’s probably true too. Matter follows where the energy is. You can materialize what you believe. It’s true. However the process is not that straightforward – it’s easy enough to see the synchronicity in seeing numbers on a clock, however making bigger things happen is a bigger deal. But you can make your dream happen!

    BUT – what is your dream? You need to be able to name it, commit to it, obsess over it, want it with all your heart – for things to follow through. Having a vague idea of an adventure isn’t enough. You need to be able to articulate it.

    Here’s an article I wrote about finding your purpose – see if it helps you:
    http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-16692/the-5-paths-to-discovering-your-dharma.html

    Every person has a soul purpose – I’d love to be able to help you find yours if you’re interested.
    Namaste, Saiisha
    saiisha[at]rocketmail.com

    in reply to: I am available if you need some guadance #80763
    Saiisha
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    Hello Smollc,
    I’d love to be able to help. Do email me at saiisha[at]rocketmail.com

    in reply to: What Advice do you have for me? #80762
    Saiisha
    Participant

    Hello scorpionalexan, you seem to be an old soul, and you’re fortunate to have a father who was able to introduce you to spirituality at an age when you were ready. Of course it’s a life-long evolution, but you started early, and it’s not surprising that other kids your age are simply not ready yet, and might never be. I agree with Moongal though – a bit of balance with what’s more normal (for lack of a better word) would be a good thing for you. Otherwise, solitude and loneliness could lead to unnecessary illnesses like depression. Explore what brings you joy. Pursue what makes you smile and laugh. Life (or spirituality for that matter) doesn’t have to be serious!

    in reply to: i dont feel the love #80558
    Saiisha
    Participant

    Dear b192, I love the advice Annie provided – it seems right-on! In addition, you have a question about how to go about re-discovering yourself. I think you’re going on this trip to Europe with the right frame of mind (to re-discover yourself), and not simply to escape. And also doing some homework now so you’re prepared. These are all pointers to show that you’re ready and on the right track!

    Here’s a few prompts to think about finding your purpose:
    – What makes me joyful? What makes my soul come alive? What makes me intensely happy?
    – What in the world makes me cry out of sorrow?
    – What is the change I wish to see in the world? How do I embody the change I wish to see?

    Also, I was trying to paste a link to one of my articles that might help, but TB forums doesn’t allow most links. If you’re interested, do email me at saiisha[at]rocketmail.com. You can also find me through my website – you can find the link under my profile if you click on my picture.

    I’d love to help you along on finding your path to Peace, Presence and Purpose!
    Namaste, Saiisha

    in reply to: Feeling Stuck #80556
    Saiisha
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    Good Morning Dana, and Welcome!
    Just so we understand – are your blocks particularly with losing weight? or with life in general? Where exactly are you feeling the block(s)?

    in reply to: Best way to cut-off toxic sister? #80522
    Saiisha
    Participant

    Happizer, good to hear you’ve figured out a way to proceed! May you walk your path with Peace, Presence and Purpose!

    in reply to: Abusive Relationships and Depression #80521
    Saiisha
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    Clueless123 – my heart goes out to you reading this! How much power we give away to others who are ready and waiting to take it! I’m proud of you for being able to let go of this person, and even though you’re still reeling from that experience, I think you are ready for a turnaround!

    You probably have a lot of inner work to do to get your self-esteem and self-worth back. I’m reminded of Byron Katie’s story of 2 bad marriages, rage, self-loathing, and suicidal thoughts: she wasn’t able to even get out of her bed to brush her teeth sometimes, and was stuck in turnaround houses for months. But now she’s celebrated for her Self Inquiry exercises that have helped millions of people.

    I think you’d greatly benefit from Byron Katie’s “The Work.” Do look her up on Youtube and see if her message resonates with you.

    I truly hope this helps. I’d love for you to be free of these crippling thoughts – that you can recognize that at this time, they’re simply thoughts, not reality.

    Namaste, Saiisha

    in reply to: Seeking advice #80520
    Saiisha
    Participant

    I’m so glad you’re starting to feel better about yourself Lisa. I’d love to hear how you’re doing in 29 days!

    in reply to: Does anyone else feel this way? #80518
    Saiisha
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    Yes – worrying never gave us anything good in return 🙂
    And if you do want to focus on yourself, maybe focus on the parts that bring you joy, that make you come alive, that make you feel good inside!

    in reply to: Seeking advice #80517
    Saiisha
    Participant

    Hi again Lisa, I’ll let you and Anita continue your conversation, but I just wanted to add a different angle, in line with my response to your other thread (regarding depression).

    I think becoming who you are, and finding strength in your own true voice will go a long way toward attracting the right partner, rather than someone who you’re unsure of. I’m not saying you’re clingy or needy, but in case you are, that might make him pull back. The more you’re trying to get love from him the more he’ll pull back. Yes, of course, needing love is a valid need – not silly at all! But if you can find your own center, love yourself first, you won’t have a need to cling to someone else. The right person (whether it’s your current partner, or someone else) will come for the right reasons – respect and love.

    In my mind, both your depression and uncertainty about love could be pointing to an inner need to know your true self. If I were in your shoes, that’s where I’d start putting more focus – not on what’s wrong, but find out what’s right, and true, and genuine and authentically you! Once you peel back all these outer layers that are distracting you, you’ll find the deepest, purest, golden self that’s You.

    Or as Dr Seuss says, “There is no one alive who is Youer than You” 🙂

    I hope this helps!
    Namaste, Saiisha

    in reply to: Does anyone else feel this way? #80515
    Saiisha
    Participant

    Hello Lisa, if you know you should go to the doctors, you probably should? In addition, I’d like to suggest an idea if you want to try it. The one thing we do more of when we’re depressed is to obsess over ourselves at the exclusion of everything / everyone else. Any practice that can change the focus from you to something / someone else would be ideal to take the focus off of you. This is an idea I read in a book called “29 Gifts: How a Month of Giving Can Change Your Life” by Cami Walker. Here’s an excerpt from Amazon:

    “At age thirty-five, Cami Walker was burdened by an intensified struggle with multiple sclerosis, a chronic neurological disease that left her debilitated and depressed. Then she received an uncommon “prescription” from South African healer Mbali Creazzo: Give away 29 gifts in 29 days. 29 Gifts is the insightful story of the author’s life change as she embraces and reflects on the naturally reciprocal process of giving. Many of Walker’s gifts were simple—a phone call, spare change, a Kleenex. Yet the acts were transformative. By Day 29, not only had Walker’s health and happiness improved, but she had created a worldwide giving movement. 29 Gifts shows how a simple, daily practice of altruism can dramatically alter your outlook on the world.”

    Would you like to try it? If so, I hope it helps!
    Namaste, Saiisha

    Saiisha
    Participant

    Anita and Inky – Love the conversation here – real or comic 🙂 and I agree with both their advice!

    As always, this is never what it appears on the surface. And I think, in this forum, with the help of Anita and Inky, you’re starting to explore what’s really going on between you and your friend, get deeper toward the core of what the true issue is. I’m not sure if having it out with your friend at this time is a good idea yet. If I were in your shoes, I’d dig deeper into your feelings, reactions and beliefs first. Once you’re clear on where you’re coming from, then it would be easier to address it with your friend – especially if you have specific topics to bring up.

    So, do continue asking these questions that Anita suggested – ask yourself “where are these differences actually arising from?”, “why am I annoyed when someone steals my ideas?”, “what is that feeling / emotion that comes up from within?”, “could it be possible that the qualities I’m seeing in her are qualities that I may not be recognizing within myself?”, “what is the lack I’m feeling in this situation?”

    Self Inquiry is a great way to dig deeper and deeper until you feel like you’re getting the true answers from within, from your inner voice. Don’t settle for surface level responses that your mind provides – try to get to the bottom of what’s the real lack you may be experiencing.

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