Dear Anita.

Yin amit that is my language (I mean your are sweet in giving the advice)

You have been standing with me since from day one.  I’m changed now because of you. Anita,,,,  I will term you in this way that you are “ENGINE ” to everyone whose loved one has been hurt. You are the engine to one  Who has been disorder by the group of wrong elementary people like mine.

You are our engine,,,,, to people who has married issues,,,,,  and to also who had not married and they are in the pinnacles of marrying their plans one.

Wow to everyone in this forum should give appreciation to Anita,  who always give her time tirelessly to contribute and give you the best opts she could to make sure you are comfortable.

Anita,  has changed so many people who are confused in marriage,,,,,  😂 😂 our engine.

Let give her this name called Engine,,,,  an engine is a small part and can be put in the car,,,,  you can’t see but it keep the car moving.

Ohoh yes Anita,  I will never disclosed my son to her biological mother,,,,,  completely and I told you last time I will never allow this young man to go to her mom. Perhaps I don’t even discuss anything like her mother that she is fine,,,,  or she is a prostitute,,,,,,

All this things he will find them by himself by the time he is a mature man.

Anita,,  I’m a man enough and I’m capable to keep my son happy and enjoy his own life without thinking of her mother.

All the best.

Update again to everyone in this forum. 

My condolences to the family,  I had married in years 🔙.

We have been in the mourning time since from the month of June where my father-in-law passed away due to the pandemic and some other diseases which lead to his death. When I heard of his death,  I didn’t hesitate at all. I went to their house to comfort them and give them my support since had stood up with me from very beginning.

Thou my father-in-law passed away, things become complicated in his house,,,,,,…..

I tried harder to makes sure I was not bad person as they may think.  To the surprised our president Salva Kiir,  announced that anyone who has been killed by corona virus should not be taken to his/her village by the plane.

However,  they were all devastated on how they will handle the human remained (dead body).  To their surprise I wrote a letter to Mr. President,  telling him….  Hello my President I understand you had already made your degree that “nobody should be taken again ” but my president,,,,,  I’m Gregory,  who is a young pilot and work as well in South Sudan Civil Aviation Authority (SSCAA), in aviation industry. Sir would you mind to allow me to take the body of my father-in-law to the village?  I’m the one flying the aircraft and I’m ready for the risk,  if the corona virus,  catch me,  let it be.

The good news was that my president granted me to take him his village where he was born,  that took a ✈ flight of 3hrs and a drive of 16hours.

Anita and Inky,  as well as Jay Jay,  I did this because of my son whom I had with their daughter,,,,,,  though my mother in-laws was not happy with my estrange wife,  who happened to attack me during the funeral day which she end up being beated by his uncle son.

I contributed my money and one bull to be slaughtered.

My father in-laws passed away on 4th of June.

Now at the current state all of my closest famililies in-laws appreciated me for the good thing I did for them.

They all sat down and made a meeting and hence they came out with they decision that I should be given another new girl a part from my estrange wife,,,,,,,,  so that she can be the one taking cared of her sister son Christopher Agoth Gregory. Which I told them no no, and I’m okay to myself and I will marry another gal when time come again.

My best wishes,,,,,  stay tuned all.

Dear Anita,

Thanks so much from your vital point concerning my prolonged case that has took some couples of years.

I do believe that where there’s a problem, acts of God come in. I wasn’t knowing that they were worst like cancer. My father in law with his family will one day say sorry. I had faced a lots of difficulties things through out my life and I do managed to overcome them.

Yes my son, is doing well Anita, and he is currently live in Uganda – Kampala , ever since last year I took away from them.

I’m also safe and I think nothing will ever happened from our side.

Due to such evil acts of their wrong doing, they never heard where my son is! Neither posted on Facebook.

I know that in the long ran they will be like to look for my son just to see him but never it will happen again.

Anita, I’m taking cared of my only son Agoth, though we stayed separately a part. Due to lives plans. I have the ability and able to challenge them amicably without any shadow of doubt. Soon enough they will run away.

Thanks once again for the supportive advice.

Anyone who will contribute to like Anita, I will be highly honored and appreciative.

Regards.

Gregory

Hello everyone at tiny Buddha community. Case is still under my way. 

I trust you are keeping well. I’m also fine at the at moment.  I’m in Amsterdam at present and the horrible thing come up like nightmare. I can’t imagine and believe that my father in-law would invold himself in the issues of her wife /daughter. I received a phone that he had taken a decision to be on the side of his daughter. This is un acceptable very terrain and weird moment.

I can’t believe that you human capabilities and their limitations are wicky. This unbelievable issues. People say don’t trust anyone. I told him I left your daughter (my wife) last year and I am proceeding with my life. Why again looking for me?

God must crazy, why did he connected with such heartless in my life. This man called Akol (father in law) used to say I will stand with you all the times and I will never CHANGED MY WORDS but now he is the most enemy I ever had. I have never locked my horns with big people but I’m ready to do so. If he is out from his neutralize centerline then I will keep up my head and pull a rope with any of them.

This is people are selfish and self-centered. They have no any test understanding at all.

They all don’t mind about the baby I had between them. I left them everything, I didn’t bother to returns my 150 cows plus some other things. I told them I’m only focusing on my Child and my career but they don’t want me to have peace of mind.

I apologize to everyone who seemed to might have got tired of this the same case since last year.

I know winning is my DNA, and God has plans for me more to deliver to people not only people around me but countless around the world.  My ex wife has been going on abusing me with his/her friends on Facebook but I don’t respond any of them. She tried to created some false abuse that my own mother was married to a different man,,,, and eventually she left marry to my dad. Which is absolutely ridiculous and lie.

My mom was married to my dad priod and we are only 5 in numb and my mom passed away. She tell those people that she chat with that she never knew she was married to a wrong onion. Which is me. Many guys are telling her respect the child between but she doesn’t. Should I respond the way she is doing it.??

Any advice is much appreciated.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

You are welcome.

Yes the governor implemented the rule.

Also the woman quarrel to her mother that why do you misleaded to leaved my own son and husband.

Currently i haven’t yet agree with her though she is in dilemma .