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  • in reply to: Depressed and Losing Hope… Help #144021
    VJ
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    Dear Tessa,
    I believe the below post was yours and around the same issue and I will suggest you the same thing that I had suggested you earlier.
    (http://tinybuddha.com/topic/its-all-coming-to-a-head-so-depressed/)
    I suggest you to try taking a look at ‘The Healing Codes’.

    Dr. Alex Loyd developed a technique after his wife Tracey “Hope” Loyd had severe depression for several years and couldn’t find anything to cure it.

    The full details of the technique is available in The Healing Codes book-
    (https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Code-Minutes-Success-Relationship/dp/1455502006)

    The book has everything you need but if you do not have the time and patience to wait till you finish the book (because, apart from the actual technique the book also explains the how/why of everything) and if you have the required financial capabilities then you can also consider Personal Coaching on this process, which is done by a Certified Healing Codes Practitioner. You will get all of that information from their official website (below).

    You can recommend (or even do on behalf of) your near and dear ones who are having health issues based on your description above. This particularly has a healing effect when you do it for others.

    Official Website:
    www(dot)thehealingcodes(dot)com

    Moreover, the same technique can also be used for your multiple issues.
    (http://thehealingcodes.com/success-stories/)

    Therapists are going to do the same techniques like these (or similar energy healing techniques).

    If you are able to go to them then do so or at least learn these self help techniques and equip yourself to face the life challenges and sail through them.

     

    Warm Regards,
    VJ

     

    in reply to: In Need of Support #143879
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Wanting to be anonymous,

    There are innumerable articles over the web that teaches about living in the present moment.

    I simply did a web search on the text that you wrote  “how I can live in the moment and be happy” and found several good articles. So you may want to do the same.

    Also if you are into books then you can read “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle whose core teaching is about ‘Presence’.

    There are several Eckhart Tolle videos on YouTube too.

    Warm Regards,

    VJ

     

     

    in reply to: Relapse in my journey! #143701
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Mahesh, Below is another post that will be of great help-

    (http://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-be-present-peaceful-cant-stop-thinking/)

    in reply to: Relapse in my journey! #143699
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Mahesh,

    I am a chronic worrier too, and like you there have been times where something that was working earlier did not work later.

    It is my understanding that this happens for the evolution of your soul. This has led me to learn, practice and at times preach many Life Healing Techniques.

    Only by letting go of the old, you can make way for the new.

     

    Now on what to do for you next-

    Some times there may be nothing extra that is needed. Simply lying down and breathing is needed.

    – try Conscious breathing

    (http://tinybuddha.com/blog/conscious-breathing-simplest-way-work-emotional-pain-enjoy-life/)

    OR

    -try any of the techniques listed by members here

    (http://tinybuddha.com/topic/relaxation-meditation-techniques/)

    OR

    – Come up with something that you will learn from (someone or somewhere)  in due course of the journey of your soul and share it with others (probably by posting it here)

     

    Best wishes,

    VJ

     

    in reply to: How to love God? #143291
    VJ
    Participant

    Dear tiny lantern,

    How to love God?

    The answer is LOVE itself. It is complete innocence about any particular way or knowledge and loving Him like anything. God is not an effort, just talk to Him as if He is your lover, talk all stupid things, talk about anything or everything, talk from the core of your heart, talk as if you have found Him after a long search. Don’t do it only while praying…in fact I would say you need not even sit for praying.
    Just love Him while dancing, while singing, while walking. Ask Him who loves more (He or you)…complain to Him about all the things which you don’t have…..cry before Him….be honest…

    I can guarantee you, you will surely feel Him near you, in unforeseen ways.
    It is as simple as you love a person!

    Take care,
    VJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 8 months ago by VJ.
    in reply to: It's All Coming To A Head… So Depressed #141443
    VJ
    Participant

    Dear Tessa,

    I suggest you to try taking a look at ‘The Healing Codes’.

    The full details of the technique is available in The Healing Codes book-
    (https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Code-Minutes-Success-Relationship/dp/1455502006)

    The book has everything you need but if you do not have the time and patience to wait till you finish the book (because, apart from the actual technique the book also explains the how/why of everything) and if you have the required financial capabilities then you can also consider Personal Coaching on this process, which is done by a Certified Healing Codes Practitioner. You will get all of that information from their official website (below).

     

    Official Website:
    www(dot)thehealingcodes(dot)com

    Moreover, the same technique can also be used for multiple issues.
    (http://thehealingcodes.com/success-stories/)

     

    Warm Regards,
    VJ

    VJ
    Participant

    Hi chelsa,

    If you are looking for a big transformation in all (or specific) areas of your life and willing to do anything then you can take a look at the below links.

    http://www.dralexanderloyd.com/the-love-code/

     

    Best wishes,

    VJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 9 months ago by VJ.
    in reply to: I am ugly,I hate it #136427
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Howard Smith,

    For your question I will say the same thing that I posted to another similar question. It is in the link below.

    Clicking this link will take you directly to my answer in that thread.

    Please also take a look at other replies.

    (http://tinybuddha.com/topic/i-am-strong-and-weak-struggling-with-self-image/#post-114577)

     

    Warm Regards,

    VJ

    in reply to: web/social media/marketing promotion advice needed #135933
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Joe,

    You could check out the below option-
    https://
    services(dot)amazon(dot)co(dot)uk
    /services
    /sell-online
    /how-it-works.html

    https://
    www.
    amazon(dot)co(dot)uk
    /gp/help/customer
    /display.html?nodeId=3149141

    (For some reason this website is having some issue to post links so please replace (dot) with . and rearrange the above as 1 link)

    Best wishes,
    VJ

    in reply to: asocial or anti-social? #135929
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Joe,

    My experience is exactly the same as yours including the tendencies that you described about yourself, about others reaction to this and also about having a very short attention span.

    I have been working on on what to do in such situations.

    Until the instant that one gets irritated and finds it insulting, one is in deep presence, but has lost it later. Prior to that everything was fine, everything was just peaceful awareness. We have been drawn towards their storm, instead of remaining in our own peace.

    Some useful resources that I have found related to this are as below-

    Video by Eckhart Tolle-
    www.
    eckharttollenow(dot)com
    /new-home-video
    /default.aspx
    ?free=/587356704/

    [For some reason the above video is not getting posted across. Rearrange the above as one single link and replace (dot) with .]

    Along with a few others some key tips to be taken are-
    -don’t feed yourself to the egoic conversations of others
    -if they don’t find you interesting then its their problem
    -if people find you boring then that’s fine

    Another video not fully related but useful in some way-
    www.
    youtube(dot)com
    /watch?v=ksnTzdNQru8

    I am constantly working on these and it is nice to know someone else is also in the same situation.

    Warm Regards,
    VJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 9 months ago by VJ.
    in reply to: Still stuck a year on and in a new relationship #135569
    VJ
    Participant

    Dear lukesblues,

    She is much prettier than this ex of the past and we are better matched and everything just feels good.”

    This statement is enough to understand that you are comparing your current relationship with your ex.

    “My problem is i cant help having thoughts about the ex and wanting to talk to her even though i know i now have a better relationship.”

    This is understandable and you are not at fault. From what you have explained you still have the energetic cords (ties) of attachment with this person. These cords are invisible since they are at an energetic level. They are also called as psychic ties.
    All you have to do is cut the energetic cords of attachment to get it out from your head so that you can be fully present.

    Please go through the below links to know more on what it is and what to do-
    (http://ascendedrelationships.com/cutting-energy-cords/)

    (http://www.soulconnection.ca/cord-cutting.html)

    Calling upon Archangel Michael with his golden sword is a very famous way of cutting negative cords-
    (http://www.nikkiboruch.com/how-to-cut-energetic-cords-with-archangel-michael)

    There are many ways of doing this. Simply do a web search on “cutting energetic cords of attachment”

    Also if you prefer something visual then there are lots of videos on YouTube too.

    Take care,
    VJ

    in reply to: How to Progress After Sabotaging My Happiness #135559
    VJ
    Participant

    Dear Annonymous,

    “If anyone has coping tips for when anxiety creeps up that would be greatly appreciated.”

    Please refer

    Conscious Breathing: A Simple Way to Heal Your Pain and Be Present

    Take care,
    VJ

    in reply to: Relaxation & Meditation Techniques #129443
    VJ
    Participant

    Dear all,

    Here is an excellent resource for Meditation.
    This channel has everything right from waking up in the morning to feeling charged up during the day till the end of day for a peaceful sleep.

    This channel also has a varied list of guided meditations. For anyone having trouble meditating can simply follow Rick Clarke’s soothing voice in the guided meditations, or simply listen to any of the non-guided meditations.

    (https://www.youtube.com/user/TheHonestGuys)
    [Make sure to click on ‘Show More’ under each category]

    Try listening to this one before going to bed tonight.
    (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfpLea9OurA)

    Happy Meditating!

    Lots of Blessings and Best Wishes to ‘The Honest Guys’

    ~VJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by VJ.
    in reply to: Long Distance Relationship #129439
    VJ
    Participant

    Dear hailee,

    Here is a practical list of techniques that will help during overthinking and rushing thoughts.

    http://tinybuddha.com/topic/relaxation-meditation-techniques/”

    Pick the one(s) that resonate(s) with you or feels comfortable the most.

    Along with these I also suggest you to write a love letter to your beloved whenever you feel like missing him the most.
    Something like….
    Dear sweetheart,
    I am missing you so much. When are you coming to me? I am waiting for you with my arms open. Please come and hug me.
    Love you so much. (Stay in the hugging feeling for a while)

    I will get back to my work for now. Talk to you later.
    Love you, bye.
    Yours and only yours hailee.

    Use your own words. Don’t use the computer for writing these. Do it with a notepad and pen.
    Pour over all your feelings towards him. Don’t kick the feelings that you are missing him. Allow them to come and wash all over you. Soon the feelings will be dissolved in a good way and you will get back to your own work. Thoughts will keep coming. Let them come and in those situations get back to writing the letter or the techniques mentioned above and get back to your studying work.

    Take care,
    VJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by VJ.
    in reply to: Some monthly happiness boosting fun! #129309
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi tingtingx8,

    I went through all the three links above.
    To which locations (/countries) are the Happiness boxes delivered currently?

    ~VJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by VJ.
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