Alright in case I forget some details I will just update here now with you.

We met up a few days ago and had a hike, caught her putting makeup on when I text her I was near, told her I had a stomach ache, she said you’re probably just nervous because you’re seeing me and smiled and I said that’s most likely it, we literally rock climbed as the trail we took you had to grab onto rocks to get up. She wanted to take the main trail but I told her do you wanna hike or do you want an adventure? so we took  the off trail trail that lead us to actually climbing the rocks. Not a whole lot, but there were times it was probably dangerous and really steep. I just wanted to keep taking the harder paths to make it more challenging. She was not sure if I cared about her story with the medium she visit, but I told her I wanted to hear her story. Apparently she was a queen in one of her previous lives and was accidently killed from something falling on her from a guy. So I teased her a little calling her my queen, bowed to her sillily once and said I am around royalty now. We played challenged eachother to race to the top of the mountain a little, she won 🙁 but the guy at the top said he was here first haha.

Anyway we looked around for a while, took pictures of each other and the scenery and sat next to each other at a rock, talked about a bunch of stuff including a new type of massage she is learning she would like to try on me, told her I would be her massage test dummy. Also had our hands on eachother feeling for pressure points and stuff. More about the guy she will give free massages to and he will give me a free life coach lesson as part of the debt she owes. Told me if I am nervous we can hang out for a coffee and talk about it before I go in, so Tuesday at 4PM we are  meeting up again as I text her I’ll book an appointment around her free schedule, she gave a smiley text from that. 5PM I will have that appointment.  She also drove me to a different mountain after the hike and  we looked around, said she wishes she lived near the mountain we hiked up (me too, we could hang out more that way). Hopes her ex boyfriend gets approved for I think it was welfare? so he can go out and rent a place and she can live on her own. Her other daughter is looking to move out with her sister, so her 2 daughters would be living together. We spent 2 hours together, it was nice. Now going to spend more time with her Tuesday. As I was leaving her car I told her I would phone her in a few weeks but she told me she wants to know what happened, so I’ll call her  a few days after and tell her what happened at the appointment.

As for the tinder girl…that one is gone, we both stopped texting eachother. Got 2 new ones now I talk 2 and 1  is 10 years older then me and uh….things got a little hot between the 2 of us. She’s a teacher so I text her with a wink face I’d love to have a lesson or 2 from her and she has been saying she wants me badly when she comes back from her trip to Florida. So she probably just looking for a younger guy to have sex with a few times, which is cool by me I am my own man and single so I can do whatever I want really.

Normally when a woman freshens up before meeting a guy it means she likes him lol, she wants to look her best for him. Buuuut I don’t think this is one of those times, she was just freshining up. Who knows, I aint a mind reader. I am also back into not really feeling for her like I used to these days, they come and go. But I just enjoy our time together. Also she still plans to move away one day to her dads cabin in the mountains with AMAZING scenery, seen pictures of the area. Lots of open area with amazing hills and mountain views. Told her I would have to get my license so I can visit her, but wont be any time soon but I should still get my license regardless. Want a truck, motorbike, maybe a dirt bike and maybe another mountain bike.

I hope Tuesday will go good too. I am not really nervous, I just wanted an excuse to hanging around her again.

As for the tinder woman…I am only looking for girls to text or hang out with as I wrote in my bio. Not looking for a relationship. Told a girl at my work about this woman and she said “damn, you are smooth”.

I’ll update at the end of next week.

So we met up for that coffee. Sat down for 30 minutes talking about her, then walked around outside for 30 minutes and when we were gonna cross the street I pushed the button to cross the road, then she did, then I did, then she did, then I did, then she did and we did it several more times and a guy behind us was laughing saying “the things we do that entertain us”, then I let her walk first and pushed the button 1 last time >:D

She walked me to the guys place for my session, all 3 of us had a cup of tea and I kept getting a vibe he was into her. Gave her a quick hug as she left, they hugged for like 30 seconds. Then she left and I did a lot of visualizations but that is not really for me, seemed kinda weird the things he was telling me. :/ So I wont be going back lol.

Just got off the phone with her (34 minutes). She was saying she really wanted to connect with me today and also wanted to know what happened and how it was, so I told her. Wants to practice the chair massage she’s learning on me still, wants to hike again before this month ends and maybe we will bring other people, also this big mountain that’s harsh to climb but I said the better time would be spring or even summer to get on it as it will be all mushy, slippery and muddy, etc as it’s rainy and winter still, and also about a bunch of other things. She has to do laundry, then have a long soothing bath, and her daughter that moved out is visiting her so that’s why she had to go. Told her I will call her in a few weeks.

Don’t really want to call once a week, still have trouble talking to her unlike other females, some of which we could talk for hours I am sure as I am a chatter box quite often but not around her even after all these years for whatever reason but with her I prefer just being around her, in her presence, flirting with her and just listening to her talk about her problems and what’s happening in her life. Anyway, not sure when I’ll be back again…perhaps after summer sometime? unless I have to ask something and need your opinion. Something I also do find annoying is when I do start talking she would sometimes start talking over top of me and not stop. Anyway…until next time. Hope your days are amazing.

Hello, hope you’re doing well. Just wanted to say I am over her now finally, we don’t talk on the phone anymore (3 months) and have only had a few hikes since including one tomorrow. Since I last replied to this thread within 3-4 days I all of a sudden completly changed and rarely think about her and do my own thing, no idea how it happened so fast but it did and I am glad it happened, I felt like I was being mentally tortured and now I finally feel free. I fell off a cliff from my weightloss but I am finally going back to it after gaining 20 pounds back from my 65 I had previously lost and I have roller blades now.

No idea if I will update this thread anymore, felt like updating since I feel completly different now.

Thanks, always good to hear from you too. Apparently she’s dating a guy now, some guys at my work told me she came in a week  ago and told them and they asked how I feel about that as they know how I used to really like her. Good for her, doesn’t bother me tbh although I did think of her blowing me off a while back everytime I asked to come over to see her new place and here is a new guy in her life that will come over lol, I dunno how I am supposed to think of that and knowing for sure I will never see my money back from her, so I was probably just taken advantage of. I’ve moved on but just wanted to update you I lost interest in her and it was pretty fast.

Oh and we never went hiking, I felt like shit and had a splitting headache, plus it was raining so I asked to reschedule. I know I say it from time to time but this will be my last post in here, so if you never hear from me anymore it’s been real, hope nothing but the best for you and best wishes for you.