November 6, 2019 at 8:03 am #321711
No response, i’ll give her until the end of the week maybe she doesn’t have her phone or something. I don’t keep texting, I do 1 and that’s it as they either respond or don’t. I also don’t call unless it’s agreed between the 2 of us even for issues.November 6, 2019 at 8:17 am #321721
It is good that you text only once and wait for a response, and not repeatedly text. It is also good that you consider possibilities, such as that she may not have her phone with her, instead of jumping to conclusions. I hope she responds to you today!
anitaNovember 6, 2019 at 8:19 pm #321873
Well, I am an asshole. She messaged me and told me she’s going through some emotional stuff and not up to talking right now and is barely where I am these days and she rarely sees her other friends and says for me to please don’t take it personal, that I am an awesome person and friend. Told her to forget what I said, that I am here for her always and sorry for her troubles and she’s also an awesome person and friend and put a heart. Then I put in another text saying seriously anytime, just call me whenever.
So maybe it wasn’t personal, just never sees her other friends and we always talk on the phone and see eachother oddly.November 7, 2019 at 8:16 am #321961
I’ve been hearing about this woman, your friend, for so long and I never changed my view of her- a nice, genuine, kind woman. Not perfect, of course, but close. She never behaved in a rude way to you, never impatient with you, just like this time. Lots of people would get angry in return. Not her- “says for me to please don’t take it personal, that I am an awesome person and friend”-
– see, she told you that you are awesome, not an ass**^*. Believe her then- you are awesome!
anitaNovember 7, 2019 at 4:02 pm #322005
Nobody is perfect, everyone has their flaws but you gotta accept warts and all. I’ll be around sometime, both my ankles are so swollen right now, I went hiking with a buddy from work at the mountain I go to (by myself and with her) and broke in my new shoes which was a bad idea. I hope everything is alright with her though, especially with her man. Hope things are good with you as well.November 8, 2019 at 8:26 am #322127
Thank you for wishing me well. I hope your ankles recover soon, yes better not break into new shoes while on a hike. The holidays are almost here, I wonder if you will continue your candy tradition at Christmas time. Hope you won’t drink as much though, to the point of throwing up.
anitaNovember 8, 2019 at 2:59 pm #322177
Thanks and I decided I will wait for her to message or phone me before I message her or phone her (not as a test, just grown tired of doing everything myself). I have a feeling I may be waiting 8 months though (or never?). :/ I also think if I had my license maybe we would have been hanging out more often, she did say she is rarely where I live these days “Plus I am barely in *city* these days”. Anyway adios!November 8, 2019 at 3:07 pm #322181
I hope it will not be eight months!!! I imagine by Christmas- that Christmas mug should remind you of you, if she needs a reminder. Adios for now, blkhwkdwn1, have a good, restful weekend!